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[wooger]

hey everyone,

i'm new here and really depressed and am just going to spill.

anyway, I'm a guy and I have this guy "best friend". Sounds okay right? the only problem is I think I might be gay and I'm starting to fall in love with him.

I think about him all the time and am really happy when I'm with him. When I'm not I miss him loads. I have sexual fantasies about him all the time (mainly to do with me sucking his big yummy cock til he cums all over me )

He has a girlfriend and I know he is totally straight. I don't know what to do, it's been egtting much worse recently and I think if he found out it would ruin everything. I really don't know what to do

help

 

[Princess_Pleaseyou]

hey everyone,

i'm new here and really depressed and am just going to spill.

anyway, I'm a guy and I have this guy "best friend". Sounds okay right? the only problem is I think I might be gay and I'm starting to fall in love with him.

I think about him all the time and am really happy when I'm with him. When I'm not I miss him loads. I have sexual fantasies about him all the time (mainly to do with me sucking his big yummy cock til he cums all over me )

He has a girlfriend and I know he is totally straight. I don't know what to do, it's been egtting much worse recently and I think if he found out it would ruin everything. I really don't know what to do

help

very common problem you have,
unforantly i cant help you very much all i can say is if it were me i wouldn't say a word i would ignore my feelings and enjoy our friendship but if you really think your in love with him
then thats a different story best idea (to me at least) tell him whats wrong and tell him that if he doesnt feel the same thats ok but u just wanted to get it out in the open... and if he doesnt want to speak to u again then the friendship wasnt there to began with.. very tough situation but thats my take i'm sure other people have better ideas. i had the smae prob with a guy friend of mine. sorry i cant help if u ever need to talk i'm here

 

[wooger]

hey,

thanks for the reply

we've been friends for years and i've always liked him a lot as a friend.

It's been fairly recent 9last few months or so) that i have started to like him ALOT. It makes me feel so depressed and just hmm

Like the other day when he came over, he was on my couch and his shirt lifted up over his tummy. I was soo horny for him it was unbeliveable. I just wanted to tell him how I feel and get on my knees for him.

I know it sounds like lust but I'm afraid it's not.

 

[Princess_Pleaseyou]

hey,

thanks for the reply

we've been friends for years and i've always liked him a lot as a friend.

It's been fairly recent 9last few months or so) that i have started to like him ALOT. It makes me feel so depressed and just hmm

Like the other day when he came over, he was on my couch and his shirt lifted up over his tummy. I was soo horny for him it was unbeliveable. I just wanted to tell him how I feel and get on my knees for him.

I know it sounds like lust but I'm afraid it's not.

very hard.. i know i've always been the "just a friend" type

 

[wooger]

Do you think it will make a difference if I try to avoid him for a while?

Only problem them he's bound to suss something is UP

 

[sparklebear00]

In a perfect world I would tell him, but it's totally different with two guys (men tend to take a homophobic stance when presented with another male).

I would avoid him. It's going to hurt you eventually, so it's best to remove yourself from the situation. Find something to do to fill up the time you spent with your friend.

 

[wooger]

Hmm ouch

I know this is probably just wishful thinking but I remember years ago he used to say he was curious and it used to creep me out a little.

Oh the irony!!!

God, I hate this have you been in a similar situation?

 

[Princess_Pleaseyou]

In a perfect world I would tell him, but it's totally different with two guys (men tend to take a homophobic stance when presented with another male).

I would avoid him. It's going to hurt you eventually, so it's best to remove yourself from the situation. Find something to do to fill up the time you spent with your friend.

i would have to agree with him it will hurt you in the end

 

[human_male]

I'd avoid him too. The only way to get over someone is to them out of sight and mind. He'll wonder what's up and you could tell him, the friendships really over one way or the other.

Or maybe you could just try and avoid him a bit, for a while and try to meet someone else. If you fell for someone new, maybe that would change how you feel about your friend.

But it looks like a lose lose situation for you, saddly. I'm sorry.

 

[wooger]

thanks,

This is really crappy. The only reason I like him soo much is because he really is such a great guy. I've never met anyone who doesn't like him and he's really really kind and caring and would do anything for anybody....


hmm...