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[nortonsavage]

I've never seen anything like this discussed... if it has been, I missed it.

I've got a spot on the head of my penis that's very sensitive. it's right above and maybe a little to the left of the hole. I've heard of guys being very sensitive right after they've ejaculated, but this is all the time. I can be rock hard (well, as close to rock hard as I get) and if my partner just happens to hit that spot just right with her tongue, I start to go soft. that's why 69 never works for me, because when I'm getting oral from that angle it puts all the friction right on my sensitive spot.

it's even a problem sometimes during penetration. if our position happens to change any due to sliding around or whatever, we can wind up where that spot is hitting up against the walls of her vagina and, again, I immediately start to go soft.

do other guys have this problem, or am I just weird? I've always wondered if it was something I created myself because I was a virgin until I was 36 so I masturbated like crazy.... maybe I rubbed off some crucial patch of skin..lol.

 

[yodaboy]

I have never had any thing like that.

Hmmmm how long have you had it? have you seen a doctor?

Apart from that just try giving it a few days rest (yea I know that seems imposible )

 

[Silver Sable]

Is it like soft from pain or soft from relaxation or what? Does it matter in what way it has been touched or just all touching?

I would think that it is just a natural part of you and some people are sesitive in certain places certain ways.

If I'm touching my husband at all down there it has to be firm. Otherwise it tickles or makes him relax. Of course when he is really nervous or tense I can gently stroke his sack and it relaxes him completly... but he cannot stay hard if I touch him very light like that.

All men are more sensitive at different places on their penis. Some like the head, some the rim, and some the shaft. It all has to do with blood flow and your basic neurological connections.

If you are really worried about it, see a doctor... but honestly what is there that they can do? Would you want them to surgically fix the problem or give you medications which may have serious side effects?

How about you just use a condom to help desensitize that area. I know condoms suck bigtime, but well... it is better than going limp all the time.

P.S. The more you focus on it and think about it the worse it will get. Sexual stimulation is about 80% mental so if you are already convinced it is a major deal your brain will trick you further.