Others checking your wife.

My wife is very attractive for any age but especially so for someone in her late 50's. And she has big (natural) breasts so...there's that too

I'll admit that I DO enjoy seeing other guys (and women) checking her out. And during the summer when she's almost always wearing flip-flops, it's funny how often eyes will linger on her feet - which are very youthful and very pretty. I think feet get noticed more than people realize.

She's completely oblivious to it. ..Doesn't notice unless someone makes a comment, which, thankfully doesn't often happen. At minimum it would embarrass her, but more likely, it would annoy her.

She goes to Yoga several times a week and I often say, "So did you catch any of the guys checking you out tonight?" And her response is always some version of, "No!! No one is there to check out other people! ..They're there for Yoga - it isn't a bar."

I reply, "Um... Honey.. People will notice attractive people ANYWHERE, including places they shouldn't, like church on Sunday and even Funerals. Yoga is definitely no exception - especially when you're doing poses like Happy Baby." (google it, if you don't know what it is.) She then rolls her eyes and changes the subject.

Bottomline: Yes, of course I enjoy people checking out my wife. It's hard imagining many here at Literotica feeling differently. But no Cat Calls. That pisses me off. ..And has only happened once or twice.
 
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Really interesting to see the dynamic between couples here. My partner and I from very early on were pretty sensible about this topic, we both try ou best to look well and we both get eyed up from time to time. I love the fact that females are attracted to him and he loves that I still get the giggles when men make any kind of a move at all. Love yourself and let others admire you but know the limits
 
I met the young lady who was to become my life-long wife, companion and best friend at a Valentine's Dance hosted by the local American Legions Post in 1971. While she had the air and looks of an innocent young lady, I quickly discovered she had very few inhibitions, didn't care about much about being modest and as far as being 'lady like', it was a foreign concept to her. I was thrilled to the max, especially since we immediately hit it off.

Our first date was a picnic, as I didn't have much money. We went to on old farmstead on the banks one of the rivers in our region. It was located within three thousand acres of mixed forest. I knew about it from working for a consultant forester during the summers; we had surveyed the land and cruised the timber.

When we got there, my future wife had looked around and with a shy smile asked if she could get naked. Yeah, like I'm gonna say no! We both got naked, and she told me she hated having to wear clothes and since she had to, she only wear what she had to. Her philosophy was the less she had to wear, the better. We got to know each other quite well that day.

As we dated, I would ask her to wear see-through blouses or tops without bras , and mini-dresses or skirts without panties (she hated bras and panties). I got the biggest kick out of guys watching her! On double dates, since I had a small car, we'd usually be in one of our friend's four door, large American land yachts, and I'd have her naked as we drove around town making out.

A friend of mine was having a birthday party and his girlfriend wanted to surprise him with a topless dancer. I asked my girlfriend if she'd do it, and she quickly agreed. She didn't just get topless; she took everything off! And stayed that way for the rest of the party, which got wilder.

Oh, how I loved that young lady and how I love her today! Thanks for letting me share! :D
 
My girlfriend is very sexy so of course, she gets plenty of male attention. Even though she likes the attention, she doesn't let it go to her head. Nor does she act on it.
 
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Absolutely -- we used to go to dance lessons and I loved seeing other men dance with mine and touch her; sometimes a little naughtily. One even called her up for a date
LOL......we went to dance lessons too, a long time ago. Very similar experience. Lots of very naughty partners.
It was one of the first things that happened that started me getting turned on by thoughts of my wife with other guys.

Did your wife accept the offer of a date?
 
LOL......we went to dance lessons too, a long time ago. Very similar experience. Lots of very naughty partners.
It was one of the first things that happened that started me getting turned on by thoughts of my wife with other guys.

Did your wife accept the offer of a date?
no
 
It all started with Hubby like watching other men look at me when we are out. Then he like watching me flirting with other men. Next he like watching me dancing strangers. Then I realize he like watching me making out with other men.

When he was deploy I did something crazy/stupid/slutty (whatever you want to call it) for his birthday. We been noticing a young soldier has been checking me out. I approach him when I saw him in the PX. I found out his bday was also coming up. So I had naughty thought, I was going to make a video with him for Hubby. I told him there was few conditions, he can't touch me and he have to keep in to himself. He agree and came over that weekend. We record a video together and I send it to Hubby the next day. Hubby call me the next morning and said he lost count how many times he JO.
 
It all started with Hubby like watching other men look at me when we are out. Then he like watching me flirting with other men. Next he like watching me dancing strangers. Then I realize he like watching me making out with other men.

When he was deploy I did something crazy/stupid/slutty (whatever you want to call it) for his birthday. We been noticing a young soldier has been checking me out. I approach him when I saw him in the PX. I found out his bday was also coming up. So I had naughty thought, I was going to make a video with him for Hubby. I told him there was few conditions, he can't touch me and he have to keep in to himself. He agree and came over that weekend. We record a video together and I send it to Hubby the next day. Hubby call me the next morning and said he lost count how many times he JO.
Nothing more flattering than knowing another man wants your wife, except perhaps talking to her about it or watching them dancing together. Chrissy, your story take this to the next level
 
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