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I have slept with 16 guys. Only 2 have givin me an orgasm...
help!!
Is there anything special i could do?
JAFIC
help!!
Is there anything special i could do?
JAFIC
Willing and Unsure
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have you tried pleasuring yourself? maybe some masturbation there... or even more foreplay
btw.. this is the best i can give since i'm still a virgin
btw.. this is the best i can give since i'm still a virgin
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thanks
The only form of pleasure i do get is from that though lol.....
since i never get if from a man :-(
The only form of pleasure i do get is from that though lol.....
since i never get if from a man :-(
Willing and Unsure
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then i suggest hold out on sex till you get some foreplay... from my experience so far.. being a virgin and all... i find foreplay to be lots of fun and very intense
SallyIsHere
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learn
Men don't bestow orgasms on women, we have them. Work with your partner to find out what gets you hot. Communication is the key.
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Men don't bestow orgasms on women, we have them. Work with your partner to find out what gets you hot. Communication is the key.
sal
Paolo Labico
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Get on top little cowgirl! Don't move up and down or he'll cum too quick, just grind down hard with your clit on his pelvis. If that's not enough, make him slide his hand between you to rub against. If he won't use his hands on you, then you do it. there really is no reason other than it being too quick or too painful for you not to cum if you do when you masturbate. Be assertive.
Unless he's an asshole he's go along with this, if he won't you shouldn't be fucking him!
Get on top little cowgirl! Don't move up and down or he'll cum too quick, just grind down hard with your clit on his pelvis. If that's not enough, make him slide his hand between you to rub against. If he won't use his hands on you, then you do it. there really is no reason other than it being too quick or too painful for you not to cum if you do when you masturbate. Be assertive.
Unless he's an asshole he's go along with this, if he won't you shouldn't be fucking him!
NewEnglandBBW
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I agree, that you need to find what works for you, and then take it from there. Not everyone gets off the same way.
My first choice is being on top, I have more control, and it's only a matter of minutes.
Usually direct stimulation is too intense for me (ie hands and fingers, especially during masturbation) BUT, I have a new guy who is incredible and just makes me wild with his hands, but, I consider myself very lucky to have someone who wont' cum until I do!!
You'll figure it out, take it slow, and make it happen!
My first choice is being on top, I have more control, and it's only a matter of minutes.
Usually direct stimulation is too intense for me (ie hands and fingers, especially during masturbation) BUT, I have a new guy who is incredible and just makes me wild with his hands, but, I consider myself very lucky to have someone who wont' cum until I do!!
You'll figure it out, take it slow, and make it happen!
Morden
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The on top routine seems to be popular. Maybe if you are with a long term man get together with him and have him explore ways to make you cum. Work together and explore to see what you like having done to you. He can learn ways to pleasure you and you can all ways spend time after or another day doing the same for him. Its a good way to teach each other how to satisfy the other. In my experience the biggest thing is make sure there is some form foreplay that arouses you.
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Hi there,
I'm a quadraplegic male and I dont ejaculate or feel sex with my penis. At least since the car accident,,, I've come to be very into giving a woman total satisfaction and get off on womens orgasms. I couldn't beleive how many girl dont reach climax....Yum! Wish more guys felt the rewards of the female orgasm. I could go on....
Anyhow! this is my first time @ literotica and its well put 2gether.
Cheers
Kwad
Hi there,
I'm a quadraplegic male and I dont ejaculate or feel sex with my penis. At least since the car accident,,, I've come to be very into giving a woman total satisfaction and get off on womens orgasms. I couldn't beleive how many girl dont reach climax....Yum! Wish more guys felt the rewards of the female orgasm. I could go on....
Anyhow! this is my first time @ literotica and its well put 2gether.
Cheers
Kwad
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I apoligise if this offends you, but how exactly do u manage sex being a quadraplegic?
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NO OFFENCE TAKEN
Hiya Flak..
Very carefully, with bit a help from here n' there,,, full erections are still available if needed, toungue and hands are still available and the rest ?? well! Since being a quad, have never had any non-satisfied gals....its a little different cause I cant have sex standing but it sure taste and smells like awesome sex when its over.
Cheers
Kwad
Hiya Flak..
Very carefully, with bit a help from here n' there,,, full erections are still available if needed, toungue and hands are still available and the rest ?? well! Since being a quad, have never had any non-satisfied gals....its a little different cause I cant have sex standing but it sure taste and smells like awesome sex when its over.
Cheers
Kwad
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JAFIC...
It looks like you got some very sound advice so far. I'd have to agree that you need to try a variety of new/different things to find out what both you and your partner like and what works with your body. (If it's not "embarrassing" for you, share with him what you do when you masturbate, after all, you KNOW that works for you!
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I am the type of person who typically cannot cum from basic vaginal penetration. I need more. (Clitoral and anal stimulation are surefire ways for me to cum...) In my relationships from HS through about 20, it honestly was rare that I came. I guess I was in a "rut" of those quick cummers and guys who cared only about them getting off... Then, when I was 21, I met a man 18 years older than me, and WOW! lol A whole new world was opened up to me.
Anyway, the point of my rambling was/is to just try different things. Don't be afraid to tell your man what you like and want. Experiement. Have fun!
It looks like you got some very sound advice so far. I'd have to agree that you need to try a variety of new/different things to find out what both you and your partner like and what works with your body. (If it's not "embarrassing" for you, share with him what you do when you masturbate, after all, you KNOW that works for you!
)I am the type of person who typically cannot cum from basic vaginal penetration. I need more. (Clitoral and anal stimulation are surefire ways for me to cum...) In my relationships from HS through about 20, it honestly was rare that I came. I guess I was in a "rut" of those quick cummers and guys who cared only about them getting off... Then, when I was 21, I met a man 18 years older than me, and WOW! lol A whole new world was opened up to me.
Anyway, the point of my rambling was/is to just try different things. Don't be afraid to tell your man what you like and want. Experiement. Have fun!
Rambling Rose
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I started masturbating at an early age so my first sexual encounters involving a partner were a bit of a disapointment. I knew I was capable of reaching orgasm but it eluded me throughout my teens and into my early twenties with another person. I was sexually precocious but I have since learned that I was not as open and receptive as I thought I was!
The first time I came with a partner he was on top in standard missionary position. without any thrusting movement he stayed hard inside me and reached down, sandwiching his hand between our bodies and stroked my clitoris. the limited movement meant that he couldn't really stray from the "hot spot"....meaning that the stimulation continued without variation long enough for me to cum. It only took a minute or so ~ I was amazed and thrilled at the ease of it after all that time.
I also like to be penetrated from behind and have my clitoris stimulated from between my legs. I like the depth of sensation from this position very much.
Another thing that sets me off is talking during sex. Coaxing words and a husky whispered running commentary allow me to lose myself. Being told to cum can be just the prompt I need to go over the edge.
Practice makes perfect honey! Enjoy the experimenting...
The first time I came with a partner he was on top in standard missionary position. without any thrusting movement he stayed hard inside me and reached down, sandwiching his hand between our bodies and stroked my clitoris. the limited movement meant that he couldn't really stray from the "hot spot"....meaning that the stimulation continued without variation long enough for me to cum. It only took a minute or so ~ I was amazed and thrilled at the ease of it after all that time.
I also like to be penetrated from behind and have my clitoris stimulated from between my legs. I like the depth of sensation from this position very much.
Another thing that sets me off is talking during sex. Coaxing words and a husky whispered running commentary allow me to lose myself. Being told to cum can be just the prompt I need to go over the edge.
Practice makes perfect honey! Enjoy the experimenting...
