Orgasms

I am in the category of the woman cums first before I put my dick into her. Mouth, fingers or whatever. Depending on the situation I don't trust my penis when it goes off.

Take care of the lady first.

AMEN to this brother... ahem preach it!

a gentleman always ensures that the lady comes first
 
I tried that and nothing happened... do I have to say it three times while looking in a mirror and hopping on one foot by the light of a 3/4 full moon?

Magic is best done on the waning moon than waxing. Certainly never on the full or new.
 
get a lover that doesn't need your orgasm to validate their ego.
i go for the selfish lover that doesn't care if i reach orgasm on his time.
either way, i am getting off on myself, his leg, or my pillow.

i won't take a lover with a sad look like a defeated dog that couldn't do the tricks.

Spot on Sweepthefloor, I had a six year affair with a lady who told me she had never had a penetration orgasm and not with me either and she was absolutely the best lover I ever had. She absolutely loved being penetrated and we would go for hours and she would never cum and was never unhappy. When she did have an orgasm with me she would straddle me and rub herself against my erection, and bring herself to a body trembling orgasm. She was the most sexually open woman I have ever met, if it felt good or was a little kinky she wanted to try it, penetration was never the finale.
 
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