Orgasms from giving cunnilingus?

[reallyunsure]

Hey folks. Sometimes, when I'm eating someone out, I get so into it that I have an orgasm. Not every time, I can definitely stop myself... but if I want to, it's usually not a problem.

Is there a name for this? A support group? Anything?

I know I'm not the only person who does this, and I know I'm not even the only person-with-a-dick who does this. But it seems to be so rare that I can never find anyone else who's "like this" to compare notes with.

This seems like a good place to ask: Who else does this? What do people call it?


[cue "Anyone, anyone... Bueller..." here]

 

[ian370]

Hey folks. Sometimes, when I'm eating someone out, I get so into it that I have an orgasm. Not every time, I can definitely stop myself... but if I want to, it's usually not a problem.

Is there a name for this? A support group? Anything?

I know I'm not the only person who does this, and I know I'm not even the only person-with-a-dick who does this. But it seems to be so rare that I can never find anyone else who's "like this" to compare notes with.

This seems like a good place to ask: Who else does this? What do people call it?


[cue "Anyone, anyone... Bueller..." here]

It's called enthusiastically wanting your partner to enjoy everything to the extreme.

And not being able to help or plan what may come from it.

 

[reallyunsure]

It's called enthusiastically wanting your partner to enjoy everything to the extreme.

And not being able to help or plan what may come from it.

Let me ask another way: Is there a name for this that I can google for? Search for as a tag on Literotica? Look up other porn of?

Because searching for "orgasming from oral sex" gets, well... some much more mainstream results.

 

[muxDaemon]

Premature ejaculation

Let me ask another way: Is there a name for this that I can google for? Search for as a tag on Literotica? Look up other porn of?

Because searching for "orgasming from oral sex" gets, well... some much more mainstream results.

Even if you're in control of it, "premature ejaculation" seems like the right phrase. At the very least, starting off on that search might lead you to a more precise term.
FWIW I knew a girl who claimed that the last three guys she'd been with all came while going down on her. That is the only time I've heard about this kind of thing happening more than once. That must have been some marvelous muff.

 

[Dribble]

No one is unique. There is always someone, somewhere with the same issue. Not sure it is really an issue except to you?

 

[reallyunsure]

It's not an issue. I like doing it, I have plenty of control over it so it's never a "problem" or anything, some partners think it's the hottest thing ever.

But it'd be nice, every now and again, to talk to some other folks whose bodies have this same party trick.

 

[Dribble]

It's not an issue. I like doing it, I have plenty of control over it so it's never a "problem" or anything, some partners think it's the hottest thing ever.

But it'd be nice, every now and again, to talk to some other folks whose bodies have this same party trick.

I don't cum....but I can get very excited....so that when she is begging to be fucked....it can only take a few hard thrusts. It is just part of who you are.

 

[cubbyfire04]

It's not an issue. I like doing it, I have plenty of control over it so it's never a "problem" or anything, some partners think it's the hottest thing ever.

But it'd be nice, every now and again, to talk to some other folks whose bodies have this same party trick.

I'm in the same club... Especially if I've partaken in some 420. Still can stone cold sober too... I hate to utter the words, but my guess is it's technically premature ejaculation. At the very least it's just over stimulation and you can control it, so that's great. If you couldn't, I'd say a grown-up conversation with your SO will solve any anxieties. So... Enjoy! I know I do!

 

[Fingerfuxs]

Are you looking up on occasion and watching her suck a cock while licking her clit ?

My follow up question would be , is it her choice or yours ? The cock she is sucking while you eat her out. Did you pick him to be there or did she.

Or , non of the above

 

[reallyunsure]

No, just eating her out, getting really into it, and if I feel like it - and if she feels like it - I get off from it.

It's simple. It's good. It's just rare, and because it's rare, because it's so rarely a thing people understand, it seems like it would be nice to talk to some other guys whose brains and bodies are wired like this.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

No, just eating her out, getting really into it, and if I feel like it - and if she feels like it - I get off from it.

It's simple. It's good. It's just rare, and because it's rare, because it's so rarely a thing people understand, it seems like it would be nice to talk to some other guys whose brains and bodies are wired like this.

What age bracket are we talking , in my twenty’s I’d nut like that and still have three more in me. Now I’m a pre cum machine in that position. Personally I like to finish in her mouth when I’m done making her cum.

 

[reallyunsure]

Oh, sure. I've still got plenty more left in me after that. Hell, sometimes I stay hard the whole time and go straight to PIV shortly after.

 

[AmberLGreen]

Bit fucking selfish really. She is getting all turned on for you and cumming over your face and you just let yours go to waste. You could at least let her suck your cock. FFS

 

[jason28053]

I don't cum but I get extremely hard and ooze precum

 

[Asian_Flower]

Bit fucking selfish really. She is getting all turned on for you and cumming over your face and you just let yours go to waste. You could at least let her suck your cock. FFS

Well said! I would be quite disappointed!

 

[Fingerfuxs]

Well said! I would be quite disappointed!

Maybe you should have grabbed a handful of hair lifted his Face up and said something. It’s all about the timing in this couples position. That would be my answer if I were to disappoint my partner in that position and she wanted the mouth full.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

No, just eating her out, getting really into it, and if I feel like it - and if she feels like it - I get off from it.

It's simple. It's good. It's just rare, and because it's rare, because it's so rarely a thing people understand, it seems like it would be nice to talk to some other guys whose brains and bodies are wired like this.

I like the women stopping in to. Pointers are always interesting

 

[reallyunsure]

Bit fucking selfish really. She is getting all turned on for you and cumming over your face and you just let yours go to waste. You could at least let her suck your cock. FFS

Did you miss the part where I said "and if she feels like it" ?

 

[AlexBailey]

"Vicarious orgasm" or "vicarious eroticism."

It happens when someone else's pleasure triggers your kink.


I usually get it when I'm topping someone - I relate almost entirely to what they are experiencing and I can often only orgasm after they have. I frequently don't orgasm until my partner has had her second or third, in fact the few times I've come when she hasn't have been a big deal for her.

I get incredibly turned on by giving cunnilingus, sometimes even if I've already had several previous orgasms.

I've come while only receiving oral maybe a couple of times in my life, and they were both when the person doing me was really getting off by the act. It's not that I don't enjoy receiving, I love the way it makes me feel, it's just that... hmmm.

For me it's probably all linked to my gender role issues. I usually only come while being sucked if I'm also being penetrated, and the hardest I've ever come is when my partner orgasms while pegging me.

Fuck, I'm a complicated little queer.

 

[reallyunsure]

"Vicarious orgasm" or "vicarious eroticicism."

Oooh, bless you for this. This is an awesome phrase and I will see where else I can find it.

The rest of what you mentioned sounds pretty cool, too. High-five, friend.

 

[AlexBailey]

Oooh, bless you for this. This is an awesome phrase and I will see where else I can find it.

The rest of what you mentioned sounds pretty cool, too. High-five, friend.

Lol, I spelled it wrong. It's "vicarious eroticism," not " eroticicism"

 

[Mtnmike]

Fucking AMAZING, right? Many people don't understand the love and respect some of us have for HER pleasure above and beyond our own. Worshipping/respecting her pussy and craving her pleasure and satisfaction isn't the definition of a sub. Many macho guys are loyal, desire and dedicated to their woman's pleasure and satisfaction.
I, personally crave and desire my wife's pleasure and satisfaction, and deny myself just to increase my desire for her. Orally pleasuring her completely is my absolute favorite sex act. Head to toe, I desire and crave her, her scent, her breathing, her moans, the taste and texture of her skin, her sweat, her orgasms all cumulating to my hyper-arousal and aching blueballs.....

LIFE IS GOOD! ENJOY WHAT YOU ENJOY!

Good to see I'm not the only man that does this for his lady.

 

[reallyunsure]

Well, yeah. But my question is not "do you like it", my question is "does this sometimes cause hot semen to shoot violently out of your cock when you do it."

 

[Wonderer67]

I could eat pussy all day, but I’m always a little bit leery with my wife because of this story she told me early on.

She can cum very hard sometimes and really lose her shit. One time with her late husband, he was eating her and she bucked up so hard, that she fucked up his teeth. It was so bad they almost needed to come out. They were super loose and needed a lot of dental attention. Imagine telling the dentist how THAT happened…

Still, I go down on that pussy as much as I can.

 

[gregy70]

I’ve know a few woman who can cum from sucking dick alone but for a guy to cum from eating pussy alone is rare.
I have cum many times from giving my wife oral alone even with nothing touching my dick.
It’s normally when I havnt cum for quite awhile and when she gets greedy and pulls the back of my head into her.
In that moment her orgasm triggers mine .
It’s only ever happened with my wife .
I wouldn’t call it premature ejaculation as often I can also have sex and refrain from ejaculation and just have a mental orgasm.

Also I have history of giving unreciprocated oral to many women on the regular. It just gets me off and for awhile it was a addiction