Stonedagger
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Women - have you ever faked an orgasm?
Men - did you ever notice if she faked one? (Tell the truth you liar)
Men - did you ever notice if she faked one? (Tell the truth you liar)
Orgasms - fake or real?
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Stonedagger
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not one by God reply?
This was supposed to stimulate conversation - where is the conversation?
This was supposed to stimulate conversation - where is the conversation?
bluntforcemama
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I fake frequently. IT's just a little white lie, what am I suppose to say, you suck at fucking me?
Stonedagger
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myst
No but maybe you could lead him into a mutually fulfilling course of HOW to fuck you so you could reach orgasm!!
No but maybe you could lead him into a mutually fulfilling course of HOW to fuck you so you could reach orgasm!!
I've faked. I don't have an orgasm easily with a partner, and while I might enjoy the sex immensly, a great deal of the time it's just not going to happen. Men, however, don't accept that as an answer. They think if you don't cum, they suck. So I've faked just to keep from having to explain that I can enjoy sex without having an orgasm.
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Slutmouth said:
I have the same problem, and my current partner is utterly frustrated. I tell him he makes me feel great despite the lack of orgasm and he says "but I want to make you feel better!!
I would fake a couple, just to pacify him, but I'm not convinced I could put on a convincing show. It could turn out so embarrassingly bad. LOL just picturing it...
I've never had to fake, but if it wasn't happening, I'd do the right thing by him and tell him what I do and don't like, OR, I'd roll him over and take over, then I'm in control of how my body reacts.
The best thing an Ex said to me was, "Tell me if I'm satisfying you or not, I don't know if you fake it or not, but I would rather take the time to make sure you don't HAVE to fake it, but enjoy it". Advice I took to heart, so now I never need to fake it.
The best thing an Ex said to me was, "Tell me if I'm satisfying you or not, I don't know if you fake it or not, but I would rather take the time to make sure you don't HAVE to fake it, but enjoy it". Advice I took to heart, so now I never need to fake it.
Lightning
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Faking...
My wife is of the opinion, that sometimes, "It's enough already." There are just times where it's not gonna happen, no matter what I do. I feel badly for her because I would like it to be a mutually satisfying event, but if not, no big deal. I'll just try harder next time... and I'll try to make it more "about her".
What can I say? I aim to please, but at the same time, I know what it's like to just say, "It's enough already."
My wife is of the opinion, that sometimes, "It's enough already." There are just times where it's not gonna happen, no matter what I do. I feel badly for her because I would like it to be a mutually satisfying event, but if not, no big deal. I'll just try harder next time... and I'll try to make it more "about her".
What can I say? I aim to please, but at the same time, I know what it's like to just say, "It's enough already."
stargazer76
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Faking. . .
So Lightning....you say your wife says sometimes it's "enough already".......So does she fake it and tell you later that you didn't send her into waves of rapture, or does she actually look you in the eye and say "Enough already?"
So Lightning....you say your wife says sometimes it's "enough already".......So does she fake it and tell you later that you didn't send her into waves of rapture, or does she actually look you in the eye and say "Enough already?"
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I have a hard time reaching orgasm for some reason. So on several occassions I have faked it. Then again, it's been so long since I've had sex, I doubt I would remember anymore HOW to fake one.
Lightning
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Truth & Identities...
Well, my wife is so wonderful, that she usually takes the obvious approach, as is her style, to look me in the eye and say, "Fuck me." But on the rare occasions that it's just not gonna happen, she kindly lets me know that it's enough already.
What more could you ask for in a loving and cherished relationship but total honesty?
P.S. What was once invisible, is now clearly in the open.
stargazer76 said:So Lightning....you say your wife says sometimes it's "enough already".......So does she fake it and tell you later that you didn't send her into waves of rapture, or does she actually look you in the eye and say "Enough already?"
Well, my wife is so wonderful, that she usually takes the obvious approach, as is her style, to look me in the eye and say, "Fuck me." But on the rare occasions that it's just not gonna happen, she kindly lets me know that it's enough already.
What more could you ask for in a loving and cherished relationship but total honesty?
P.S. What was once invisible, is now clearly in the open.
stargazer76
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Your wife sounds like a gem. You're a lucky guy.
PS. I'll be watching....
PS. I'll be watching....
Hi, All 
Well, prior to the marriage breakup, my wife used to have one orgasm and drop off to sleep!!
Now we are divorced but very friendly (!), we have just had a six-hour session, and she had four orgasms due to oral, one nice multiple due to penetrative sex, and three g-spot ejaculations. Mind you, they were spread out over the six hours, as she's too sensitive after one orgasm to want to play any more until she's rested...
What a fun afternoon
Styphon
Well, prior to the marriage breakup, my wife used to have one orgasm and drop off to sleep!!
Now we are divorced but very friendly (!), we have just had a six-hour session, and she had four orgasms due to oral, one nice multiple due to penetrative sex, and three g-spot ejaculations. Mind you, they were spread out over the six hours, as she's too sensitive after one orgasm to want to play any more until she's rested...
What a fun afternoon
Styphon
