Orgasm Suggestions

[Aliceinwonderla]

#1 Today, 01:02 AM
Aliceinwonderla
Virgin Join Date: Aug 2007
Posts: 1

Sex Suggestions for Female

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Hello. This is AliceinWonderland with a little problem. Here's the deal: I've been with an incredible man for several months now, and we're totally crazy about each other. He is my first, if that has anything to do with anything. The problem: while he is very big down there, and extremely amazing at performing and making love, and I love to please him, and vice versa - I have been unable to achieve a full orgasm. I think I came close one time, but have been unable to feel the potential of a full orgasm. I seriously enjoy sex and want to have it nonstop, but I'm really frustrated that I can't get to this point. My boy is totally willing to fulfill any request, but I don't know what to ask of him or do myself to make this orgasm really happen. Suggestions?

 

[TheleHun]

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[sunandshadow]

Oh yeah and if you're not sure if you orgasmed or not, you didn't.

I have to disagree with that - I've had very obvious orgasms but also ones which were so weak I wouldn't have notice them except for a slight pulsing and the fact that the sex suddenly stopped feeling as good.

 

[simplegirl]

I agree with TheleHun, masturbate and learn your body. Then masturbate in front of your lover. It'll turn him on to no end (and you also), but most importantly, it'll teach him how to touch you to bring you to orgasm. Very few women achieve orgasm through penetrative sex alone, contrary to what the media and romance novels would have you believe.

It's also important to relax and not get hung up on achieving orgasm. If you stress about it, it's the sure fire way to ensure that you not get one. Just let it happen.

Enjoy!

 

[thebarber69]

What better a way to learn yourself, now might I make a sugestion, try this thread.

Try this and report back thread from Mr G

This I can recommend for one like you, where your partner is willing to please you, this thread that is quite long will only let you experiance what is available to you, and with the help of your SO you will enjoy things more than you can imagine.

Also, if he is into oral arts, let him stimulate you that way, and see just what an orgasm is really about.

Just enjoy, and get that erotic mind going, and you will just take your time and really enjoy it!