Orgasm on command

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[WarriorPoetDom]

Feel Free

I have a not active but not forgotten thread on hypnosis. Would you mind if I quoted your post there?

I'm always trying correct misunderstandings about what can and can't happen in hypnosis.
Better to use a natural occurring state than other more harmful methods(IMO)

 

[eroticspank]

He did mention today something about having read about it in the Kama Sutra and working on me since we started having sex, but that he didn't expect these results! So I guess he got a bit more than he bargained for I absolutely have more trust and love and self-confidence in my relationship with him than I have... maybe ever. So that is definitely helping. And I find that as I'm getting older/wiser, I'm getting to know my body better and what I need and want, and he actually cares about figuring out how to make me feel good, and it's all just delicious and fun and emotional and amazing.

Etoile - I don't disagree with your assessment that it is a psychological type of response; but then, isn't orgasm hugely mental anyway? It is for me at least, and so this doesn't feel like it's far off the mark. I do crave orgasms from physical stimulation though, even if I've had a bunch of "mental" ones already, so there is a difference in that respect. I would imagine that guys in the same circumstances would climax, but perhaps without ejaculation? (I think I read here on Lit once that that is a thing, but I may be way out in left field - guys feel free to chime in!)

Thanks for a great topic of discussion. I am very interested in this and suggest you sit down and really think back maybe even meditate on how you think it came about. You may be able to write a book or at least pass on some great info for fellow Lit followers.

Trust and being comfortable in your relationship is very important as well as knowing your own body and communicating your needs to your partner. But I feel what is most important is your "mental orgasms". Just saying that you have them, they exist, is a big step in you being able to cum on command because it really is mostly in your head. When your mind is enjoying some great pleasure in the form of orgasm, cumming on command is a much easier next step. Another part of this, is the love of your partner or his acceptance and joy of bringing you, seeing you orgasm. He really wants you to orgasm so when he commands it, there is no resistance from your mind or body.

I know it may be hard to believe a guy can do this but yes I have been able to have "mental orgasms" and I think many times my actual orgasm can or have come from a mental one. There are too many scenarios to describe, I am happy to talk about it later.

For now here is one example: When I do 69 with my gf, most of the time we cum together because when I feel her getting close, it turns me on so much that I find myself having a "mental orgasm". She usually can't have me in her mouth when she is cumming. But any movement of her hand will usually trigger my physical orgasm because I am already having a mental orgasm. Sometimes I do not cum physically but I always have a mental orgasm. My body reacts to a certain degree. It tightens up, I find it hard to breathe, I moan loudly, and I feel warm and tingly all over. I know it is mental because my mind is saying, "Oh I love it when you cum on my tongue and face, enjoy yourself, cum and cum some more!" I want to cheer her on and that triggers the erotic flow of energy from my brain through my whole body.

ES