Orgasm Getting Weak!

[SweetShyness]

i don't know what it is lately. i just cannot get myself to that great orgasm anymore! i love having my clit stimulated and i cannot orgasm without rubbing it hard while doing other things but nothing is getting me to that "place" anymore. i have tried a vibrator on my clit but i am always back to that "ok that was good enough..." orgasm!!!!

do any ladies out there have anything special they do that they would like to share??

 

[DuckLover]

Male speaking here, but I'm always hearing from women that Kegel exercises can significantly increase the intensity of orgasms. Try running a search within Lit (see option in lower right hand corner) for "kegel", or run one on the overall internet. There's a lot of info about them out there; they have been recommended by doctors for decades, often for re-toning muscles after childbirth.

Beyond that advice, you'll have to wait for some of the (VERY knowledgeable) women around here to respond.

Good luck!

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Maybe you should take a week off? I know that works for me, but I'm a guy, so who can say? Set a day and time for your next session, and hold off until then. Leave yourself reminders, put it on your calendar, whatever you have to do to build the anticipation.

 

[DuckLover]

Good ideer, Johnny! Both the break and the desire/anticipation are likely to make the next one great!

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

And it works for sex with a partner too!

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Damn I'm stupid!

SweetShyness, I'm sorry I didn't actually say hello before. Welcome to Lit, and may I offer you a complimentary orgasm?

 

[Ms_Lilith]

girl checking in! Vick's Vaporub, a pea-sized amount rubbed on your clit, asshole, and a tiny bit around the entrance to your vagina, and just masturbate as usual. It is incredibly intense, and like I said, use sparingly. It is not harmful, it will generally not cause irritation. And if it does cause irritation, just wash it away. If irritation continues see your doctor (they hear about this a lot more than anyone would guess, so don't be shy).

 

[bharman4102]

girl checking in! Vick's Vaporub, a pea-sized amount rubbed on your clit, asshole, and a tiny bit around the entrance to your vagina, and just masturbate as usual. It is incredibly intense, and like I said, use sparingly. It is not harmful, it will generally not cause irritation. And if it does cause irritation, just wash it away. If irritation continues see your doctor (they hear about this a lot more than anyone would guess, so don't be shy).

hmmm, this sounds interesting! clear your stuffy head as well as satisfy your hormonal urges!

all the times mom put it on my neck, and i never thought it would have other purposes!

 

[heavenly body]

You have not mentioned if you are on any medications. Antidepressants some of them anyway can affect your orgasms making it difficult or damn near impossible. Stress and other concerns can affect them too. I know when I was really worried about some family situation I was anxious and it really affected my sex life. Talking about it with my boyfriend really helped. I think the "time out" idea is a good one and may give your body time to "reset itself".

I don't think I would personally try the vicks. I have seen some major irritation from using it at the clinic. Another medication that can affect you is hormones. Lots of influences when you think about it. Good luck and drop me a line if you want.

 

[Tine]

Depression

I was on Seroxat and it had 2 effects
1. I always wanted to be fucked - yes really - constantly ached down there for it - a real physical hunger
2. I could hardly ever orgasm, no matter how considerate my husband, or however I masturbated. I'd sya "the eartj moved" maybe 1 attempt in 20.

When I came off the tablets, sex went back to normal.

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

hmmm, this sounds interesting! clear your stuffy head as well as satisfy your hormonal urges!

all the times mom put it on my neck, and i never thought it would have other purposes!

Yea, Thanks vixenshe! I never would have thought of using Vick's in that way!!
Now if ya'll will excuse me, I need to run over to the store to pick up a few jars.


-kym- Smelling like eucalyptus