Orgasm Denial

blondeandtan

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Is there anyone who has experimented with orgasm denial? I have on a couple occasions tied a woman to a bed and brought her to the edge over and over (letting her cum eventually, of course). The things a woman can say when she's frustrated blow my mind! I found a chastity belt with double vibrating plugs on the net a couple of years ago with a built-in heart rate monitor in the waist band (much like joggers, etc, use when exercising) that can be set to stop vibrating at whatever heart-rate per minute the "holder of the key" wishes. Most women orgasm at around 110 to 115 BPM and the belt can be set to shut off at, say, 105 BPM. I don't remember the website, but I wish I did. Anyway, this devious device could be used for all sorts of fantastic fantasy games. The girl could be on the verge of orgasm, theoretically, all day without being able to cum.
 
Neat idea for the belt but it wouldn't necessarily work...I get my best orgasms through being completely calm and breathing deeply. Mwa ha ha! Still, very nifty contraption and a fun spin on a tried-and-true topic.
 
Whats the name of the device?

I'm dying to know the name of the device mentioned in the parent thread. Anybody know?
 
blondeandtan said:
Is there anyone who has experimented with orgasm denial? I have on a couple occasions tied a woman to a bed and brought her to the edge over and over (letting her cum eventually, of course). The things a woman can say when she's frustrated blow my mind! I found a chastity belt with double vibrating plugs on the net a couple of years ago with a built-in heart rate monitor in the waist band (much like joggers, etc, use when exercising) that can be set to stop vibrating at whatever heart-rate per minute the "holder of the key" wishes. Most women orgasm at around 110 to 115 BPM and the belt can be set to shut off at, say, 105 BPM. I don't remember the website, but I wish I did. Anyway, this devious device could be used for all sorts of fantastic fantasy games. The girl could be on the verge of orgasm, theoretically, all day without being able to cum.

I dont' know about using something this high-tech, but this is something I'm curious about.......more of a control thing, I guess. I need to learn how to bring myself to edge without cumming, let alone giving up the control for someone ELSE to do it for me.
 
I have always

found that the longer the orgasm is postponed the more intense the orgasm is and that postponed orgasms are always more memorable whether "machines" toys or fingers are used.
 
blondeandtan said:
I found a chastity belt with double vibrating plugs on the net a couple of years ago with a built-in heart rate monitor in the waist band (much like joggers, etc, use when exercising) that can be set to stop vibrating at whatever heart-rate per minute the "holder of the key" wishes. Most women orgasm at around 110 to 115 BPM and the belt can be set to shut off at, say, 105 BPM. I don't remember the website, but I wish I did. Anyway, this devious device could be used for all sorts of fantastic fantasy games. The girl could be on the verge of orgasm, theoretically, all day without being able to cum.

Someone should write a story featuring that device!!!! Wonder if there's a similar one that can be used for men?
 
fallon2 said:
found that the longer the orgasm is postponed the more intense the orgasm is and that postponed orgasms are always more memorable whether "machines" toys or fingers are used.

I agree. When i was younger i was more like the Wham Bam Thank You Ma'am...now i want to prolong the pleasure, for me and the other, as part of the pleasure itself.
 
orgasm denial

mslv4Her said:
Someone should write a story featuring that device!!!! Wonder if there's a similar one that can be used for men?

I have already written one. Once I proof read it, I will post it. I have seen "ball stretchers" for men. The theory is that once this thing is locked around the testicles, it prevents them from tightening and rising up into the scrotum just prior to ejaculation. This, theoretically, prevents the ability to cum until it is removed. Stockroom.com, I believe has a photo.

-ATG
 
orgasm denial

blondeandtan said:
I have already written one. Once I proof read it, I will post it. I have seen "ball stretchers" for men. The theory is that once this thing is locked around the testicles, it prevents them from tightening and rising up into the scrotum just prior to ejaculation. This, theoretically, prevents the ability to cum until it is removed. Stockroom.com, I believe has a photo.

-ATG


Here is a photo from that site.
 
blondeandtan said:
Here is a photo from that site.

yes, i've seen those types of devices and read about them to. my thinking is they work better in theory (and erotic fantasy stories) than they do in real life.
 
I don't know about the device but it sounds like a lot of fun! As for orgasm denial, my partner and I use this all the time.

He will bring me just to the brink and then back off. It does make things more intense when I'm finally given permission to orgasm. ;)
 
Yes

I have come (no pun intended) to realize that orgasm denial is my fetish. I am frequently stimulated over several weeks without being allowed to cum. I never know when I will be allowed to cum, so I am always eager and always very frustrated and wishing for more stimulation when it turns out I will have to wait some more. But I can never decide what i want more...to be denied or allowed to cum. So no matter which way she decides to go, it turns me on.

Sometimes I wonder if I like prolonged edging more than climaxing.

Gregor
 
gregor2001us said:
I have come (no pun intended) to realize that orgasm denial is my fetish. I am frequently stimulated over several weeks without being allowed to cum. I never know when I will be allowed to cum, so I am always eager and always very frustrated and wishing for more stimulation when it turns out I will have to wait some more. But I can never decide what i want more...to be denied or allowed to cum. So no matter which way she decides to go, it turns me on.

Sometimes I wonder if I like prolonged edging more than climaxing.

Gregor

I can definately understand that.

I'm getting better and better at prolonging myself, now if I could just find someone else to help me :D
 
I like to prolong too but man, I've got a lot to learn. I cum very quickly and easily so it can be hard for me to postpone. One of the best and most simple ways I make myself last a little longer is to keep my clit dry. The minute any of my goo starts to hit it, that makes it ten times more sensitive. Keeping it and sometimes my "lips" dry is just a little trick I try hold out a bit. I'll even pat myself down a bit "down there" to dry myself off a bit if I get to wet. My orgasms are much more intense when I've kept myself dry for a long period of time but while rubbing the clit in some way. (the clit can get a little sore from keeping it dry but sometimes, it's worth it)

Just my two cents.
 
blondeandtan said:
The girl could be on the verge of orgasm, theoretically, all day without being able to cum.

Whoa, I want one too.

For me I like to deny myself the release and I would go on the entire day just living on the edge.
 
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