Orgasm denial?

[Gods_Favorite]

I read a story on here a couple days ago about a guy whos wife wouldn't let him cum, shed bring him to the brink but would make sure that he wouldn't blow, she denied him orgasm for like a day, I found out this kind of thing is called orgasm denial, obviously, and quite a few people do it. I decided to try it with my wife yesterday, the whole dynamics of our sex changed, instead of my wife concentrating and having me cum and go to sleep, she got to focus on herself, we started at 12 and kept fucking and sucking until 5 in the morning, we haven't had sex like that in years. Plus I've never seen her cum so hard! its like removing her need to make me blow my load let her let herself go and really enjoy the sex, she was quivering and shaking with each orgasm. I wouldn't ler her suck my cock until an hour before we went to sleep, and when she sucked it I made her do it real slow so I wouldn't cum. I went to sleep with a raging throbbing pre cum dripping hard on, I don't know how I did it, I didnt think I could but I did. When I got up this morning it was still throbbing and pouring pre cum, my wife woke up and we fucked some more, and she sucked my cock and I came in her mouth and let me tell you, my orgasm felt so much better, I could literally feel the cum running through my body and flying out of my cock, I came really hard and filled my wifes mouth and squirted all over her face, it was definently worth denying myself last night, when I came this morning it felt like it meant more and felt alot better than when I usually cum, is there anyone out there that practices this also? if so whats the longest time you denied yourself? the longer you deny yourself is the orgasm stronger?

 

[LadyAndrivete]

I practiced this once with a former SO when we were still together. Not so much for him, but for me as I seem to have absolutely NO TROUBLE reaching a climax. However, he's done the same as well... the wait is well worth it. I know exactly the feeling that you had.. it's mindblowing and really something that every couple should try at least once.

The best time to try that is during a day when you have a day completely to yourselves... start out with a full body massage with your hands... then with your tongue and lips... believe me... it gets so much better each time you deny yourself the immediate gratification you're so used to.

 

[gregor2001us]

I have found over the years that this is what my number one desire is...to have my orgasm controled by my dom/wife and be denied release until she thinks it is time. VERY, VERY HOT!

So much so that I have given her complete and permanent control of stimulation to my penis, so without her direct orders, I can't masturbate, and only under her direction do I get to cum.

The longest I have had to wait has been 3 months. It can get quite distracting for me after a month, which is where I am currently.

Enjoy!

Gregor

 

[James G 5]

This technique, used on male or female partners, is common in BDSM
There're some threads on it in the BDSM forum

 

[Gods_Favorite]

The longest I have had to wait has been 3 months. It can get quite distracting for me after a month, which is where I am currently.

Enjoy!

Gregor

Wow how did you last 3 months? if it was nearly impossible me for the last the whole night, I don't think I could last that long, a couple days maybe.

 

[crazybbwgirl]

I've gone in 2 week intervals for about 2 months once. Very heady experience......... and yes - your orgasms are much stronger after being denied. Of course - its not just denial - there's the whole teasing thing going on for 2 weeks too. mmmmm delicious!

 

[zhukov1943]

This is a staple of "Tantric" sexual exercises!

 

[curiousjen]

Me and my SO have just started getting into this as well. It was so much fun when i kept bringing him to the brink and then pulling away. The look of sheer despiration on his face, when the realisation hit that i wasn't gonna let him cum, even if he begged and pleaded, well that look was just exquisite and i want to see it more

Of course, when i did let him come, he erupted.

Certainly something we'll be repeating.

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

nice av
congrads

 

[gregor2001us]

3 months

3 months is difficult, but can be done. I get more and more desperate and disappointed as the time goes on. And my wife has to take extra care not to get me too close. At times she has stopped before I came with a bit of reserve, she thought, and yet my orgasm kept building without stimulation until I came.

But it was not very satisfying.

For me the attraction in part is the frustration and being controlled by some one else. Hard at times (pun intended), but the horny feeling that won't go away and is like an itch that keeps asking for attention...I love it.

Gregor

 

[CagedDesires]

With lovers when they control my desires...and deny me it turns me on so much. Yes a girl can get turned on by the denial period too...he loves to tease me and deny me pleasure

 

[grungalunga]

bumping this thread to the top, hopefully more people will contribute something here

 

[Mermaid]

I read a story on here a couple days ago about a guy whos wife wouldn't let him cum, shed bring him to the brink but would make sure that he wouldn't blow, she denied him orgasm for like a day, I found out this kind of thing is called orgasm denial, obviously, and quite a few people do it. I decided to try it with my wife yesterday, the whole dynamics of our sex changed

I'm glad you both enjoyed yourself! Proof that married sex is still hot sex!

Withholding male ejaculation is really common in Tantric sex, and other forms of sacred sexuality...

Tantra is a good resource for expanding your pleasure.

 

[Denialatrix]

I've been fascinated with "male orgasm denial"
since the first time I discovered it while snooping
through my husbands "bookmarks"...

I'll admit that I was shocked at first, but I
just couldn't stop reading through some of
the sites that I found.

It was like discovering a new and exciting
world that I never new existed... just wish
I would have known about this lifestyle sooner.

Jill

 

[naughtygirl69s]

I've never done this with a partner, but do it to myself ALL the time

I've never lasted more than a few hours, tho. If I go much longer than that, like try to go an entire day, I just lose interest and don't really stay horny, if I was being stimulated by a partner it would definitely work better, that constant teasing and such. In fact, I NEED teasing and build-up to have an orgasm at all, I wish I could find a guy with enough patience to do this.

 

[covariant]

This is all fun stuff. I've tried several variants. One is slow masturbation, usually while watching porn videos. I bring myself to the edge and stop, a couple of hours is as long as I can usually manage this. Done properly the result is a wonderful ejaculation.

I have also gone for prolonged periods - as much as a month or two - during which I did not masturbate at all, If I needed to cum, my partner would have to make it happen. This leads to lots of touching and requests to make me cum, which are usually granted (eventually).

I find all of this very pleasurable, and would enjoy hearing more from others.

 

[naughtygirl69s]

This is all fun stuff. I've tried several variants. One is slow masturbation, usually while watching porn videos. I bring myself to the edge and stop, a couple of hours is as long as I can usually manage this. Done properly the result is a wonderful ejaculation.

I have also gone for prolonged periods - as much as a month or two - during which I did not masturbate at all, If I needed to cum, my partner would have to make it happen. This leads to lots of touching and requests to make me cum, which are usually granted (eventually).

I find all of this very pleasurable, and would enjoy hearing more from others.

ooh, that's a GOOD idea....making YOUR partner, make you cum....hmmm..

Sometimes when I'm masturbating and I've been getting to the edge several times the end result isn't as intense as I anticipated....it's like if I don't time it just right or if I hold back TOO many times, it loses it's "kick" I wonder why that is??

 

[human_male]

I believe also known as ejaculation control. Which is basically you don't do it and you can have more sex for longer.

 

[covariant]

Sometimes when I'm masturbating and I've been getting to the edge several times the end result isn't as intense as I anticipated....it's like if I don't time it just right or if I hold back TOO many times, it loses it's "kick" I wonder why that is??

I guess it's a timing thing, I'm not sure, but it's certainly happened to me too..

 

[wicked woman]

It's absolutely wicked

 

[midwestyankee]

It's all about anticipation, folks. It's all in the anticipation - both in the mind and in the body.

 

[gregor2001us]

For me it seems to take me back to my horny as anything earlier years. Always looking for an opportunity. Getting hard ons all the time. Lustful thoughts popping up unexpectedly. Anticipation that it might come true at the next turn in the road...

I think that is one of the main reasons why I like it so much.

 

[CorsetLvr]

For those of you interested, here are some links to sites about Tantric Sex.

http://www.thirdage.com/guides/romance/sex/tantra.html

http://www.vishalmangalwadi.com/NewAge/Ch05TantricSex.htm

http://www.bostonphoenix.com/archive/features/98/01/15/TANTRIC_SEX.html

http://www.tantra-sex.com/tantra-articles.html

 

[TBKahuna123]

When I was in college I worked for a poperty company and I found a book on tnatric sex in a vacant apartment we were turning over. I had never heard of Tantra, and while I haven't practiced this stuff religiously, I did indeed learn a few tricks that made me a better lover. Self control and focus of passion and sexual power...Awesome!

 

[bimori]

I've never done this with a partner, but do it to myself ALL the time

I've never lasted more than a few hours, tho. If I go much longer than that, like try to go an entire day, I just lose interest and don't really stay horny, if I was being stimulated by a partner it would definitely work better, that constant teasing and such. In fact, I NEED teasing and build-up to have an orgasm at all, I wish I could find a guy with enough patience to do this.

Hi I'm your guy I just love to tease and play . I just love to tease with my tongue Until your ready to cum then I stop and let youcalm down then repeat . I like to play a game that whoever cum first has to get the other one of with there tongue . It's a game were knowone loses .