Orgasm denial: experiences needed

[PaulX35]

Dear Folks,

I'm busy writing a BSDM-story in which orgasm denial plays a prominent role: the submissive woman serves the dominant man without being allowed to orgasm while doing that, for a prolonged time (say 1-2 weeks).
Was wondering if any female reading this would have any experience with this, as I'm looking for credible ways to describe a female character's feelings.

Thanks in advance for any help,

Paul

 

[P. B. Walker]

You thought she was a bitch when she was on the rag.... just wait. LMAO

All teasing aside, sounds like an interesting topic. Good luck in your research. I'd love to read the final product.

PBW

 

[WriterDom]

That would be a tough one for me. I use orgasm denial prior to a meeting, but I love her cumming.

 

[lark sparrow]

You thought she was a bitch when she was on the rag.... just wait. LMAO


PBW

LOL! Having a little bit of experience in this, I have to say that you've nailed it for me. But trying to control your long-term frustration while properly interacting with your Dominant can definitely be an exercise in submission.

Hats off to submissives who gracefully submit to long-term chasity.

 

[serijules]

well, I have experience in this...LOL....32 days worth.

At first, it was great, since I love being teased and denied, and it really really appealed to my submissive feelings, especially when I was ordered to do something that was for his pleasure only, or have to beg for something I knew he was going to deny me. I was only allowed to touch or be touched when, how and where he wanted. Soon everything would turn me on, touches that normally wouldn't make me aware were suddenly extremely appealing. It was great because I have a hard time climaxing or even getting aroused except under very specific touches, so it was opening up a whole new world of pleasure to me, even though I was still denied the orgasm.

After a few weeks though, I found my sexual desire level lessening, much to my (and his) surprise. Nothing much turned me on anymore. I imagine I just got tired of being on edge so often, and my body started rejecting arousal since it was so frustrating. There were times I was really snappy and disobediant because of the frustration...and times when I was extremely focused on pleasing him in hopes of being rewarded. It was very much and up and down cycle for me, with the down becoming more predominant towards the end.

Overall, I really enjoyed it and learned a lot about my own desire and arousal and body in the process.

 

[sluttygirl4u22]

I've also had experience, although only about a week and a half worth. To me it strengthened my sexual desire. I didn't turn bitchy, it was kind of a dare by a bf because he said there was no way i could go from 3-5 times a day to 0 times until i saw him next. I did get frustrated when he brought it up and let me know he was playing with himself (on the phone) but I lasted, and jumped on him when I saw him next. He was turned on by how horny I was, we went for dinner and that was the hardest hour for me to actually see him and be sitting with him and not be able to get naked and go at it right there.

 

[SexyChele]

I experienced something very similar to what serijules had. I didn't have a Dom at the time - in fact, just the opposite. A 'nilla with morals. So, not only was orgasm "denied", sexual contact of any sort was. Masturbation did help, but after a while (talkin' more than 6 months here) of no sexual contact, I found I wasn't even interested in masturbating. It seemed my whole sexual being "shut down". It was strange, and it did cause me to worry a bit. However, once I got rid of the b/f and started dating men who weren't as concerned with morality, my sex drive snapped back into gear.

The longest I've been denied orgasm from a Dom was 2 weeks. But that was during a time we could not be together. Drove me nuts and I was a little bitchy and snappy, but life moved on. Can't say what it would be like for extended orgasm denial (purposely, in a BDSM context) over a period of several days or weeks. Most Doms I've known or met derive immense pleasure from seeing their sub orgasm.

 

[PaulX35]

Thanks

Dear ladies,

Thanks a lot for your impressions; I was looking for the broad variety of emotions you posted here, maybe even more in numbness, crankiness etc than in the maybe more obvious sexual time-bomb idea sometimes associated with it.

Wil try to make sensible use of what you shared, thanks again.

Paul

 

[pierced_boy]

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