Oral Shower
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mjl2010
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Stroked said:
Technically, I thought this was supposed to be impossible. Peeing during orgasm , I thought, was impossible because the urethra gets pinched off.
Are you sure she's peeing? It is pee for sure? Can't imagine you don't know about squirting, some girls actually do this you know.
I'll assume she hasn't suddenly found a fetish for peeing in your mouth.
Does it happen when she comes from manual stimulation? If it's really pee, she maybe needs to see a doc? Not sure on that. I'm sure someone else will have more information.
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It's more difficult, but by no means impossible, to urinate when those tissues are so swollen. The force of orgasm can certainly cause someone to pee, especially if they don't have great muscle strength.
Has she ever had a late-term pregnancy, or given birth?
That said, I also have to wonder if she's peeing, rather than ejaculating. Female ejaculate CAN contain some urine, but the overall smell and taste of it is very different from urine. If there's any possibility it's not normal, undiluted urine, Stroked, you should both read this great article on female ejaculation: http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm
Are you providing g-spot stimulation with your fingers or toys while you go down on her?
If it likely IS urine, there are several things you two can do. First off, she can pee right before you go down on her. With an empty bladder, she can relax and enjoy oral more knowing she's unlikely to pee anytime soon (unless she's had a lot of fluids or oral takes a really long time). Secondly, make sure you lay down towels, or something else, so she doesn't have to worry about getting the bed/floor/wherever you're doing this wet. And then keep reassuring her that not only do you not mind if she pees, you find it a huge turn-on for her to be SO relaxed and excited that she lets go of everything.
Since this is clearly a concern to her, she (or the two of you) should speak to her doctor about the physiology and anything that could be causing her to pee. The doc may determine she needs to strengthen her pelvic muscles, or there's another anatomical issue that needs to be corrected. In all likelihood, the doctor will assure her she's fine physically, and she's probably not actually peeing.
Has she ever had a late-term pregnancy, or given birth?
That said, I also have to wonder if she's peeing, rather than ejaculating. Female ejaculate CAN contain some urine, but the overall smell and taste of it is very different from urine. If there's any possibility it's not normal, undiluted urine, Stroked, you should both read this great article on female ejaculation: http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm
Are you providing g-spot stimulation with your fingers or toys while you go down on her?
If it likely IS urine, there are several things you two can do. First off, she can pee right before you go down on her. With an empty bladder, she can relax and enjoy oral more knowing she's unlikely to pee anytime soon (unless she's had a lot of fluids or oral takes a really long time). Secondly, make sure you lay down towels, or something else, so she doesn't have to worry about getting the bed/floor/wherever you're doing this wet. And then keep reassuring her that not only do you not mind if she pees, you find it a huge turn-on for her to be SO relaxed and excited that she lets go of everything.
Since this is clearly a concern to her, she (or the two of you) should speak to her doctor about the physiology and anything that could be causing her to pee. The doc may determine she needs to strengthen her pelvic muscles, or there's another anatomical issue that needs to be corrected. In all likelihood, the doctor will assure her she's fine physically, and she's probably not actually peeing.
I totally understand. I had a BF who gave great oral and then one day something changed and everytime I'd get close to coming I was sure I was going to pee and would freeze up. I don't know if he changed his technique or I had some kind of problem (there were no other manifestations of problems). I've never had it happen since but I sometimes make myself pee by rubbing my clit when I'm in one of those "can't pee even though I have to go so bad" situations. So there is some kind of connection there. I just don't know why certain motions cause it and not others. Maybe you could change the way you're making contact.
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I'm voting for the "talk to a doctor" suggestions.
I do know that it is also possible to pee during orgasm if your pelvic floor has been weakened by pregnancy (also by molestation at a young age or just plain getting older). I know several women who have all had their bladders re-lined in the past few years. Some had a lot of 'accidents' while others actually were peeing during orgasm.
Personally, I want mine done because I've had 2 kids and the muscles are weak. I'm really tired of having to cross my legs every time I laugh. And I have worried that I will pee when I cum when the orgasm is intense.
I do know that it is also possible to pee during orgasm if your pelvic floor has been weakened by pregnancy (also by molestation at a young age or just plain getting older). I know several women who have all had their bladders re-lined in the past few years. Some had a lot of 'accidents' while others actually were peeing during orgasm.
Personally, I want mine done because I've had 2 kids and the muscles are weak. I'm really tired of having to cross my legs every time I laugh. And I have worried that I will pee when I cum when the orgasm is intense.
