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I think there's going to be a question in here somewhere. Something to do with attitude and oral and cock worship. Cock servitude.

The majority of the images posted are big cocks, bigger cocks, physically fit and fitter people. While I don't think any of us are so intimidated by these images, it prevents us from sex and oral and all that good stuff! But I do think - at times - some of us - or maybe I should just speak for myself - I will second guess myself. It fucks around with my self esteem just a little.

On the flip side of this - I think the fact some AV's are dick pics or profile names are "9inchpole4u" validate the idea a big cock is the holy grail.

When I met my husband, he was up front about the fact he had erectile dysfunction (ED). Although he still felt stuff and could cum, he never got hard. Bummer!! Mr. cookie pondered whether he should try surgery or meds because he felt without a big hard cock, I wouldn't be satisfied. And I actually wondered if I could be with someone who didn't get hard. How important is that in a relationship if you knew you'd never ever have that?

I fell in love with Mr. cookie and, since I believe that cock worship is more about the man than the cock, we'd figure it out. But what if that cock never ever got hard? The question lingered - could I truly be in service to his cock?

The answer is a definitive YES. Because Mr. c stepped up to the pervy, kink Dominant plate and demanded it from me. He made me crawl for the pleasure of kissing his small, soft cock. I had to earn his cum. He would tie me up, legs spread wide and rub his soft cock all over my pussy, my clit until I was sooooooo close to cumming. "Don't cum, cookie, be a good girl."

Sometimes he'd straddle my chest, leaving my pussy empty, clenching on nothing. He'd rub his cock, wet because of me, all over my chin, my lips. He'd lean over me, push his soft cock in my mouth and tell me to open wide. He was all growly and aggressive and he'd face fuck me with that small cock and it FELT like I was choking because he was pumping his hips, I could feel him getting ready to cum down my throat. Once he came down my throat or on my face, he would take the time to finger me, eat me, play with my clit until I came because I'd been a good girl.

Other times, he would fuck me hard with a big fat dildo and let me cum, make me squirt, leave me dizzy and consumed with my orgasm and my lust and I'd hear him - through my orgasmic haze - laugh and say cookie! It's so cute how you're such a selfish cunt. With no time to think twice about cumming again or feel all cuddly and gooey - he'd grab my hair and pull me to his cock and because I felt so so so amazing and connected and greedy for more, he inspired me to get on his cock and thank him for this feeling.

It's clear attitude has a lot to do with amazing sex. It's been discussed here and recently in the Inquiring Minds thread. I'm wondering more specific to oral. How much do these perfect images affect your attitude toward oral? Have you ever let your self-esteem (or lack of) get in the way of amazing sex? Or dealt with a partner who felt less than?? If so, how did you deal with it?

(Oh. Umm. So maybe this whole post was simply for me and my trip down memory lane. Thanks for indulging me. :heart: )
 
I’d have to agree with the self esteem assessment. Many of the images leave me feeling a bit “short changed”. Beautiful place mages yes! But the rl views I’ve been exposed to.
Thanks for sharing, cookie.
The old adage that sex is 99% between the ears is true.
 
Well fuck Cookie that was amazingly hot and sweet and maybe the best post I've ever read?
I will totally answer this later this morning when I have time but I wanted to tell you that. :heart:
Thank you for sharing.
 
Do porn images affect my self esteem? Only in the general sense that I already know I’m not in the best shape of my life.

As far as cock size, no. That’s never been a concern of mine. I’ve had positive feedback over the years, so I’m good with that.

Per good sex- if I’m with someone, naked, I’m just thrilled that we both want to get naked with each and love all the squishy bits we both have. Sex is mostly between the ears and I’ve never limited my enjoyment by thinking “I wish she/I was more fat/thin.”

Beautiful post cookie. :)
 
That is a wonderful post Cookie!

I am a photographer and I photograph, well, anything. I have had clients talk to me about their insecurities of their bodies. the, "Well, I don't look like her." happens a lot, and my reply is, "Everyone is a super model to someone." And it is true, someone knows you are sexy and beautiful, it doesn't matter your waist, breast, thigh or butt size.

As far as the oral servitude part, I have had a shoot that the male was very nervous as he was not large. But the same line pertains to him as well, "Everyone is a porn start to someone." It is not about the size, it is about the passion. Oral servitude isn't about making her choke and gag it is about the passion of taking it and making love to it.

And it goes to the servitude of a woman as well. Some women don't really think their downstairs is very nice. Every woman has a scent and that can make a woman nervous or hesitant about being served. Ever heard the expression, "Her pussy is beat up!"? That is a concern I have heard as well. So it does flow both ways.

If size or look is going to stop someone from serving, well they shouldn't have been given the opportunity anyway.
 
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