Oral Servitude 3

[CanadianM]

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[heathrowinneo]

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talented

 

[Farawyn]

I kinda feel more submissive when I suck him. I enjoy it more from the submissive headspace than how I used to think about it. Which was, wanting the “power”
My goal used to be to make him jello. Now my goal is showing him how happy he makes me.

I feel as if I’m not explaining myself well.

 

[gamegamale]

I kinda feel more submissive when I suck him. I enjoy it more from the submissive headspace than how I used to think about it. Which was, wanting the “power”
My goal used to be to make him jello. Now my goal is showing him how happy he makes me.

I feel as if I’m not explaining myself well.

Your thought is understood.

 

[staciliv]

From Cookie's original post:
" In the interest of this worthy topic, let's discuss oral servitude. Your expectations, your experiences, images you enjoy."

We got a little carried away after while with the latter, as opposed to discussing what servitude is to us, how we do it, why, and what motivates us. Hopefully, we'll hear more from some new faces, as well as those of us who have been there since the beginning.

To that end.

I feel there's something extremely intimate and intense about making it all about her. It's not simply oral sex, and not even close to being reciprocation. I don't feel obligated. I do what I do because I can't not. She is mine, she's as devoted to me as I am her, so I prove it to her in sweat and skin. I take what I want, she gets what she needs, and that's what makes us work. Why it all makes so much sense. Why it's so fucking good. Every time.



I normally want her hair twisted up in my fingers, I want to see her face, her eyes, I want her to see me. Or I want her under me where she belongs, nails digging into my scalp, my hands holding her down while she shudders and pushes back, I want to look up into her face while she writhes and gives me what's mine.

Sometimes though, I don't want to wait. I want to see if I can break her concentration, make her moan and feel it all around me while I pull her down harder and go deeper. Making her cum in my mouth while I use hers, I can't find fault with that. Definitely not something I'd do often, but there's an old adage about variety and spices.

This is good.

Most guys don't understand this but as a submissive female I can tell you: If you want to control a female, REALLY control her, make her cum when you want and as often as you want, make her beg you, howl like a bitch puppy, whatever - do it orally! Believe me she will not be able to resist whatever sordid, perverted, dirty, humiliating act you want once you have your tongue in her twat.

On the other hand, guys, be careful GETTING head. Once in a while is ok, but if you have her do it very often SHE will be controlling YOU. Of course if you want to be controlled fine but if not don't let her get your cock in he mouth too often.

 

[Farawyn]

This is good.

Most guys don't understand this but as a submissive female I can tell you: If you want to control a female, REALLY control her, make her cum when you want and as often as you want, make her beg you, howl like a bitch puppy, whatever - do it orally! Believe me she will not be able to resist whatever sordid, perverted, dirty, humiliating act you want once you have your tongue in her twat.

On the other hand, guys, be careful GETTING head. Once in a while is ok, but if you have her do it very often SHE will be controlling YOU. Of course if you want to be controlled fine but if not don't let her get your cock in he mouth too often.

You think it’s submissive of a male to receive? Interesting.
Can you elaborate?

 

[Matt_Next_Door]

Sorry...I was a monkey see monkey do as far as not using links....so I will make sure to do so now.

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[clistenovena]

What do you like best about sucking cock, eating pussy?
Not the taste, smell, feel, etc. although that can figure into your answer, but the emotions that go with it.
Does it make you feel submissive? The opposite?
Dirty?
Is this THE most loving thing you can do for your other?

I say all of the above. It can be the most loving thing. It can also be the most obedient thing. The most erotic thing. Or the most desired thing. Or just plain out fun.

For me, it can be about control. I like knowing that what my hands and mouth and tongue are doing to his cock and balls make him lose his mind to the pleasure. I like watching his head fall back and I like hearing him groan when I take it deeper each time. Yeah, I'll say it- there's exciting power in that. Or maybe that's just all in my head when his head is...well, you know.

But I will say- I adore sucking cock the very most when his enjoyment is pretty much the only thing that matters...as it was the other morning at 5-freaking-AM. Honestly, my first thought when I woke up enough to realize that his hand was pushing my head down, and it was still dark outside, was "You've got to be kidding me!" But then he growled out, "I need to fuck your mouth." Magic words, let me just say. It was game/set/match in that moment. I couldn't get my mouth and hands on him fast enough. It doesn't happen that way as often as I'd like, so I cherish it when it does go in that direction.

 

[Farawyn]

I say all of the above. It can be the most loving thing. It can also be the most obedient thing. The most erotic thing. Or the most desired thing. Or just plain out fun.

For me, it can be about control. I like knowing that what my hands and mouth and tongue are doing to his cock and balls make him lose his mind to the pleasure. I like watching his head fall back and I like hearing him groan when I take it deeper each time. Yeah, I'll say it- there's exciting power in that. Or maybe that's just all in my head when his head is...well, you know.

But I will say- I adore sucking cock the very most when his enjoyment is pretty much the only thing that matters...as it was the other morning at 5-freaking-AM. Honestly, my first thought when I woke up enough to realize that his hand was pushing my head down, and it was still dark outside, was "You've got to be kidding me!" But then he growled out, "I need to fuck your mouth." Magic words, let me just say. It was game/set/match in that moment. I couldn't get my mouth and hands on him fast enough. It doesn't happen that way as often as I'd like, so I cherish it when it does go in that direction.

This is hot.

 

[_Necrosomantic_]

I’ve expressed my thoughts on the topic of what servitude means to me more than once ( and some of my thoughts were recently quoted ), so I don’t think I need to repeat myself any time soon .However, on the subject of whether or not I experience any feelings of submission/Dominance during, I will share my thoughts when I have the time.

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[dirtyharry1981]

What do you like best about sucking cock, eating pussy?
Not the taste, smell, feel, etc. although that can figure into your answer, but the emotions that go with it.
Does it make you feel submissive? The opposite?
Dirty?
Is this THE most loving thing you can do for your other?

What I like best is that it is that pussy-eating is so intimate with my face buried between her thighs. Much more so than simply 'sticking something in her' - though I'm not saying that isn't intimate, but it can be done in an un-intimate way which is impossible when I'm feasting on her. I like experiencing her arousal and pleasure with all of my senses. And when she rides mouth and comes over my face then yes I do feel feel wonderfully dirty!

 

[dirtyharry1981]

I love this thread

Good girl. You're so pretty looking up at me with your tongue in my arse

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[KimGordon67]

You think it’s submissive of a male to receive? Interesting.
Can you elaborate?

I'm not quite answering this specific question, Far, because you didn't ask it of me, but I am addressing the general point ... if I'm in the right headspace, sucking cock can be the most dominant thing I do. It's like there's there options:
1. him fucking my mouth/throat - very submissive for me
2. me just adoring him with my mouth/tongue/lips/etc for ages - more servitude, not so submissive. ('Adoring' is his word - I quite like it.)
3. me really controlling it all - more dominant. When I'm in that mood, his hands aren't my hair - I'm holding them down. The last time that happened (a few days ago), when I lifted my head for air, he asked me to cuff him to the bed. For the first time. Ever. In his entire life ... until that point he'd been extremely against the idea of him being tied or restrained in any way.
So that was kinda interesting.

 

[dirtyharry1981]

I'm not quite answering this specific question, Far, because you didn't ask it of me, but I am addressing the general point ... if I'm in the right headspace, sucking cock can be the most dominant thing I do. It's like there's there options:
1. him fucking my mouth/throat - very submissive for me
2. me just adoring him with my mouth/tongue/lips/etc for ages - more servitude, not so submissive. ('Adoring' is his word - I quite like it.)
3. me really controlling it all - more dominant. When I'm in that mood, his hands aren't my hair - I'm holding them down. The last time that happened (a few days ago), when I lifted my head for air, he asked me to cuff him to the bed. For the first time. Ever. In his entire life ... until that point he'd been extremely against the idea of him being tied or restrained in any way.
So that was kinda interesting.

I love the endless variety of oral sex, both giving and receiving. Knowing the desired destination, but exploring different journeys on the way there. Sometimes taking the lead, other times following. Using, being used, often both.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

I'm not quite answering this specific question, Far, because you didn't ask it of me, but I am addressing the general point ... if I'm in the right headspace, sucking cock can be the most dominant thing I do. It's like there's there options:
1. him fucking my mouth/throat - very submissive for me
2. me just adoring him with my mouth/tongue/lips/etc for ages - more servitude, not so submissive. ('Adoring' is his word - I quite like it.)
3. me really controlling it all - more dominant. When I'm in that mood, his hands aren't my hair - I'm holding them down. The last time that happened (a few days ago), when I lifted my head for air, he asked me to cuff him to the bed. For the first time. Ever. In his entire life ... until that point he'd been extremely against the idea of him being tied or restrained in any way.
So that was kinda interesting.

I hope this "interesting" development transpires into something exciting for the two of you.

I find your description of different "modes" of giving oral quite fascinating. I've yet to experience number 3, though have had women who were more aggressive, if you will, in their sucking and ball cupping that certainly bordered on being dominated.

 

[KimGordon67]

I hope this "interesting" development transpires into something exciting for the two of you.

I find your description of different "modes" of giving oral quite fascinating. I've yet to experience number 3, though have had women who were more aggressive, if you will, in their sucking and ball cupping that certainly bordered on being dominated.

We'll see how things develop ... it was pretty unexpected.

I like those differences ... this last weekend, when he's asked/told me to go down on him, I've started asking if he wants my throat or my tongue, which really is whether he wants Option 1 or Option 2 above. Luckily, I love both of them, so I'm happy with whatever answer he gives.

 

[Farawyn]

I'm not quite answering this specific question, Far, because you didn't ask it of me, but I am addressing the general point ... if I'm in the right headspace, sucking cock can be the most dominant thing I do. It's like there's there options:
1. him fucking my mouth/throat - very submissive for me
2. me just adoring him with my mouth/tongue/lips/etc for ages - more servitude, not so submissive. ('Adoring' is his word - I quite like it.)
3. me really controlling it all - more dominant. When I'm in that mood, his hands aren't my hair - I'm holding them down. The last time that happened (a few days ago), when I lifted my head for air, he asked me to cuff him to the bed. For the first time. Ever. In his entire life ... until that point he'd been extremely against the idea of him being tied or restrained in any way.
So that was kinda interesting.

This. You’ve put it into words. I think I used to be all about 3...no cuffs! But it was about me trying to ruin him with my mouth.
But this time around, I’m 1 and 2.

And, wow, Kim.
How did that go?

 

[Farawyn]

I’ve expressed my thoughts on the topic of what servitude means to me more than once ( and some of my thoughts were recently quoted ), so I don’t think I need to repeat myself any time soon .However, on the subject of whether or not I experience any feelings of submission/Dominance during, I will share my thoughts when I have the time.

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Hers 1

Hers 2

Hers 3

Hers 4

Hers 5

Hers 6

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His 1

His 2

His 3

His 4

His 5

His 6

You know I’m all about His.
Beautiful.

 

[Farawyn]

What I like best is that it is that pussy-eating is so intimate with my face buried between her thighs. Much more so than simply 'sticking something in her' - though I'm not saying that isn't intimate, but it can be done in an un-intimate way which is impossible when I'm feasting on her. I like experiencing her arousal and pleasure with all of my senses. And when she rides mouth and comes over my face then yes I do feel feel wonderfully dirty!

I agree. This is never “un-intimate”. The feast. Being devoured.

 

[DrOliver]

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In human males we excrete the most of our attraction pheromones (androstenol) directly behind the scrotum due to the decrease in external oxygen flowing in that particular anatomical region.

Of note: The male pheromone androstenone is not the same as androstenol. Androstenol is the scent produced by fresh male sweat, and is attractive to females. Androstenone is produced by male sweat after exposure to oxygen – i.e. when less fresh – and is perceived as highly unpleasant by females (except during ovulation, when their responses change from ‘negative’ to ‘neutral’).

cited sources:
http://www.sirc.org/publik/smell_attract.html


Learn a little something new everyday.

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

Very hot progression:

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[KimGordon67]

This. You’ve put it into words. I think I used to be all about 3...no cuffs! But it was about me trying to ruin him with my mouth.
But this time around, I’m 1 and 2.

And, wow, Kim.
How did that go?

Really interesting ... I surprised myself. I'll write about it more fully in my other thread at some point soon ... I think I'm coming into a period of having a bit more spare time.

 

[_Necrosomantic_]

What do you like best about sucking cock, eating pussy?
Not the taste, smell, feel, etc. although that can figure into your answer, but the emotions that go with it.
Does it make you feel submissive? The opposite?
Dirty?
Is this THE most loving thing you can do for your other?

For me, dominant and submissive cease to mean anything in the moment. My ego loses its voice and I stop intellectualizing everything. Id comes to the forefront. Action=Reaction. I operate on instinct, so trying to explain what I’m feeling in the midst, would be like trying to describe what the color purple looks like to someone who was born blind. I can’t. All I can do is tell you what happens leading up to it.

In terms of a power play or dynamic philosophies, I think the only real answer to that question is perspective. Everything we do, every label we identify as, and each emotion we have during any type of sexual activity or play, is recognized as such specifically because of how we interpret our own realities and truths about ourselves. Our intent is ours, singular and unique. “ Who’s in charge “ is in the eye of the beholder. This is made evident in this thread by how diverse opinions are about how we feel or view the act of oral worship. There is no single ubiquitous loving expression, but we each give ourselves to others in ways that mean something. Sucking cock/eating pussy could be just as ( or less ) profound than telling someone about your past or something else seemingly mundane and without physical contact. All depends on who you ask.

To me, the truly intimate, is when you can convince someone to let go of themselves and shift that perspective to your own. Stimulating her so much with my voice, fingers, tongue, cock, that she lets go and sees what I see, and experiences what I know. I get her off while hearing, seeing, tasting, feeling, and believing my reality, that is my endgame. All those things that seemed so important, tedious, depressing, ugly, and worthy of her stress or time. Forgotten. Switched off in favor of sweat, spit, skin, and cum. I want her messy, desperate, pulling/pushing, and completely enthralled in it. Intimacy is putting it lightly. And in the end, if you’re not dirty, then you’re not doin’ it right.

A wolf hunts, a slut sucks, a dog sits, and good girls get fucked into unconsciousness.

That’s how I feel

 

[Farawyn]

For me, dominant and submissive cease to mean anything in the moment. My ego loses its voice and I stop intellectualizing everything. Id comes to the forefront. Action=Reaction. I operate on instinct, so trying to explain what I’m feeling in the midst, would be like trying to describe what the color purple looks like to someone who was born blind. I can’t. All I can do is tell you what happens leading up to it.

In terms of a power play or dynamic philosophies, I think the only real answer to that question is perspective. Everything we do, every label we identify as, and each emotion we have during any type of sexual activity or play, is recognized as such specifically because of how we interpret our own realities and truths about ourselves. Our intent is ours, singular and unique. “ Who’s in charge “ is in the eye of the beholder. This is made evident in this thread by how diverse opinions are about how we feel or view the act of oral worship. There is no single ubiquitous loving expression, but we each give ourselves to others in ways that mean something. Sucking cock/eating pussy could be just as ( or less ) profound than telling someone about your past or something else seemingly mundane and without physical contact. All depends on who you ask.

To me, the truly intimate, is when you can convince someone to let go of themselves and shift that perspective to your own. Stimulating her so much with my voice, fingers, tongue, cock, that she lets go and sees what I see, and experiences what I know. I get her off while hearing, seeing, tasting, feeling, and believing my reality, that is my endgame. All those things that seemed so important, tedious, depressing, ugly, and worthy of her stress or time. Forgotten. Switched off in favor of sweat, spit, skin, and cum. I want her messy, desperate, pulling/pushing, and completely enthralled in it. Intimacy is putting it lightly. And in the end, if you’re not dirty, then you’re not doin’ it right.

A wolf hunts, a slut sucks, a dog sits, and good girls get fucked into unconsciousness.

That’s how I feel

I like it.

 

[dirtyharry1981]

A little less conversation, a little more action...

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