Oral Servitude 3

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Excellent technique

 

[Farawyn]

I love the sensual aspect. The slow tender, enthusiastic part. I am showing my adoration. But, the other side of it is, it turns me on to have him in my mouth. To watch his reaction to the way my tongue teases. To know he's hard because of me... it's not really about control, it's a feeling of pleasure.. because I'm not in control no matter that I am the one giving the pleasure.

Do I want to take him in my throat? Oh, yes... but I like that I take my time getting there.

What if he wants it before it's your time?

 

[cookiecat]

and it does take practice.

Let's try that again

Nope

 

[The_gladiator]

I love the sensual aspect. The slow tender, enthusiastic part. I am showing my adoration. But, the other side of it is, it turns me on to have him in my mouth. To watch his reaction to the way my tongue teases. To know he's hard because of me... it's not really about control, it's a feeling of pleasure.. because I'm not in control no matter that I am the one giving the pleasure.

Do I want to take him in my throat? Oh, yes... but I like that I take my time getting there.

This post is incredibly hot, just sayin. I love the way you describe this, thank you.

 

[barefootgirl69]

What if he wants it before it's your time?

I'm not the one in control, remember?

And, not all guys are alike. Some want to watch and see what their submissive or lover is going to do, and they lay back to enjoy it.

 

[The_gladiator]

I'm not the one in control, remember?

And, not all guys are alike. Some want to watch and see what their submissive or lover is going to do, and they lay back to enjoy it.

This 100% I can be in control that's cool but I don't want to have to micromanage the whole damn time, you should be better at it than I am anyway. I want to see what creative things she can think of to drive me wild, to please me, not just do the same thing I would demand if I controlled every step.

 

[Farawyn]

I'm not the one in control, remember?

And, not all guys are alike. Some want to watch and see what their submissive or lover is going to do, and they lay back to enjoy it.

I agree. Yes.
The point is... if we are serving, is it on our time?

 

[Farawyn]

This 100% I can be in control that's cool but I don't want to have to micromanage the whole damn time, you should be better at it than I am anyway. I want to see what creative things she can think of to drive me wild, to please me, not just do the same thing I would demand if I controlled every step.

It's not about controlling her actions. Or micromanaging.
But what if you want it deep? Now.

 

[Farawyn]

Guys (and ladies)
I'm not trying to be confrontational. I'm trying to keep the questions going!

I love it. I'm getting a lot out of it. I'm sure the lurkers are as well.

 

[barefootgirl69]

This 100% I can be in control that's cool but I don't want to have to micromanage the whole damn time, you should be better at it than I am anyway. I want to see what creative things she can think of to drive me wild, to please me, not just do the same thing I would demand if I controlled every step.

I agree. Yes.
The point is... if we are serving, is it on our time?

How do I want to put it, to describe what is in my head?
My service is based on whatever he allows. He may want more and be demanding and take whatever he wants, when he wants. "Taking my time" is something he allows, therefore, he has control...so, yes, I can serve and take my time if he allows it.

If my Daddy takes me out to eat and tells me to order what I want - then, I have what I want at his discretion... cock worship is no different.

Everyone worships in different ways. Some time it hard and humiliating and make-up smeared, and some don't (both Doms and subs). For me, sometimes that's what I need and hope and plead for. I prefer sensual worship and, that's the type of Dom I want, too.

 

[Farawyn]

How do I want to put it, to describe what is in my head?
My service is based on whatever he allows. He may want more and be demanding and take whatever he wants, when he wants. "Taking my time" is something he allows, therefore, he has control...so, yes, I can serve and take my time if he allows it.

If my Daddy takes me out to eat and tells me to order what I want - then, I have what I want at his discretion... cock worship is no different.

Everyone worships in different ways. Some time it hard and humiliating and make-up smeared, and some don't (both Doms and subs). For me, sometimes that's what I need and hope and plead for. I prefer sensual worship and, that's the type of Dom I want, too.

 

[The_gladiator]

It's not about controlling her actions. Or micromanaging.
But what if you want it deep? Now.

Well if I really wanted it I could ask, or order, or gently urge her down fatter, it depends on partner and dynamic I suppose.

However there are times when sometimes not getting exactly what I want when I want is even hotter, sometimes if I give her time to work up to deep thrusting for example, she's going to be more willing because she doesn't feel forced and I will get teased by anticipating what she is going to do what she knows I want but I also get the pleasure of delayed gratification. If I got every single thing I wanted when I wanted I wouldn't learn other new things I might like even more. These are just my views, though.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Guys (and ladies)
I'm not trying to be confrontational. I'm trying to keep the questions going!

I love it. I'm getting a lot out of it. I'm sure the lurkers are as well.

I wish these lurkers would come out and participate!


Edit: I mean 'participate' as in post.

 

[The_gladiator]

I wish these lurkers would come out and participate!


Edit: I mean 'participate' as in post.

Yeah, I will go back to lurking when discussion dies and it goes back to pic and vid posting, I think the discussions are more interesting, personally.

 

[Mustang Sally]

I love giving oral. His cock in my mouth arouses me so. His moans and curses inspire me and direct my efforts. Like barefootgirl, I prefer to have time to savor the act on my terms, long and slow and sensual. I will do it my way for as long as he lets me -- and he does let me, because he loves what I do -- but I know that eventually he will take control. He will order me to make him cum (i.e., pick up the pace and intensity) and/or he will grab my head and fuck my mouth. I wouldn't have it any other way.

 

[The_gladiator]

I love giving oral. His cock in my mouth arouses me so. His moans and curses inspire me and direct my efforts. Like barefootgirl, I prefer to have time to savor the act on my terms, long and slow and sensual. I will do it my way for as long as he lets me -- and he does let me, because he loves what I do -- but I know that eventually he will take control. He will order me to make him cum (i.e., pick up the pace and intensity) and/or he will grab my head and fuck my mouth. I wouldn't have it any other way.

This post is also hot.

 

[cookiecat]

Whaaat? People go away when pictures are posted??

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Enthusiasm vs. technical skill. It all depends. I've learned along the way different techniques to get his cock down my throat deeper or when to take an extra breath because he's taking his time, pushing his cock all the way down my throat. Or, if I'm laying on my back my head hanging off the bed - when I can't see anything but his stomach as he's using my mouth, I've learned how to tilt my head a certain way and gauge my breathing so I don't totally freak out.

People have talked about oral being sensual and tender. Far talked about being used as a hole, the confusion of being used in a harder way. Both are valid. Both generally require enthusiasm. I see both as being in service. Offering up my mouth whether he wants me to adore his cock, worship him through his cock or just being a hole to deliver his cum. It just depends on the mood, his mood, what he requires.

At times, I've been unenthusiastic. Too tired, not feeling sexy. I just don't wanna. (Am I the only one who's been in that place??) Those times, I've still offered up my mouth because he wants it. Perhaps it's technical. Not as joyful. But I see that as super service oriented. Generally I get more, um, enthusiastic (horny?) as the blow job goes on.

When someone is eating me out, I do appreciate some technical skill. Mostly where my clit is located. I also appreciate someone who communicates. Maybe it's checking in with my pussy to see if biting my pussy lips is making me wet but also checking in with me to see if I like it hard or soft or bites or licks or whatever.

 

[Mustang Sally]

I'm not sure I have technical skill, not as you describe it, cookie, but I have lots of enthusiasm!

The word "servitude" makes me think of tenderness. The rougher stuff feels more like service.

Also, god yes, there are times when I'm thinking "just cum already!" or running through my to-do list. Surely that happens to everyone sometimes.

ETA: I would have elaborated but posted quickly when I got a text from my husband... wanting me to come upstairs to blow him, hahaha. Oh, and he assured me I do have technical skill, but I'm pretty sure it's limited to that thing I do with my tongue.

 

[The_gladiator]

I'm not sure I have technical skill, not as you describe it, cookie, but I have lots of enthusiasm!

The word "servitude" makes me think of tenderness. The rougher stuff feels more like service.

Also, god yes, there are times when I'm thinking "just cum already!" or running through my to-do list. Surely that happens to everyone sometimes.

Yes I think it does, in those situations most of my lovers know how to make me cum fairly rapidly although I would prefer it last a little longer in that situation I am ok with them getting me off more quickly.

 

[The_gladiator]

Whaaat? People go away when pictures are posted??

http://imgur.com/UCAszxV

http://imgur.com/Od6XXl7


Enthusiasm vs. technical skill. It all depends. I've learned along the way different techniques to get his cock down my throat deeper or when to take an extra breath because he's taking his time, pushing his cock all the way down my throat. Or, if I'm laying on my back my head hanging off the bed - when I can't see anything but his stomach as he's using my mouth, I've learned how to tilt my head a certain way and gauge my breathing so I don't totally freak out.

People have talked about oral being sensual and tender. Far talked about being used as a hole, the confusion of being used in a harder way. Both are valid. Both generally require enthusiasm. I see both as being in service. Offering up my mouth whether he wants me to adore his cock, worship him through his cock or just being a hole to deliver his cum. It just depends on the mood, his mood, what he requires.

At times, I've been unenthusiastic. Too tired, not feeling sexy. I just don't wanna. (Am I the only one who's been in that place??) Those times, I've still offered up my mouth because he wants it. Perhaps it's technical. Not as joyful. But I see that as super service oriented. Generally I get more, um, enthusiastic (horny?) as the blow job goes on.

When someone is eating me out, I do appreciate some technical skill. Mostly where my clit is located. I also appreciate someone who communicates. Maybe it's checking in with my pussy to see if biting my pussy lips is making me wet but also checking in with me to see if I like it hard or soft or bites or licks or whatever.

Don't be offput by my dislike of pictures. I am not a visual person is all. I just have much less to offer in that situation.

I agree someone can give a great technically pleasing blow job and their heart not be in it. I still get off though it is less emotionally satisfying, but not everyone can be 100% into it every time, we as humans just don't align enough for that all the time.

 

[brave6]

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