Oral Servitude 3

[Shankara20]

I like her butt.

so do I

 

[Farawyn]

Do you prefer skill or enthusiasm?

A mouth that can take you all in?

The gag when you hit her spot, and the tears?

Spill, please.

 

[ATPCTCDT]

Do you prefer skill or enthusiasm?

A mouth that can take you all in?

The gag when you hit her spot, and the tears?

Spill, please.

Fingers wrapped in her hair as my cock drives down her throat. The slight look of panic as she struggles to take it all as the cum explodes

 

[_Necrosomantic_]

For me, skill born from enthusiasm is the ideal. There is an intimate exclusivity there, one that is unique only to her and I. One leads to the other, around and around, new avenues open everytime we're together. Every time she's on her knees with her hair twisted up in my fingers. Where she belongs. Gagging, moaning, tears, these are part of it. I want it all, and I will give every bit as much as I take. She doesn't need much direction, she's a natural at satisfying my everything, I'm one of the lucky ones. I'm profoundly aware of that fact, and I make sure to show my gratitude... For fucking days at a time.

People get too hung up on things like experience and knowledge. Experience breeds confidence, ability and knowledge are gained via a thirst, all of these are important. But, every time you meet someone new, you start from zero, just like they do. Your past experiences don't matter, what's in front of you does. The knowledge you've gained is only worth something if you apply it properly, otherwise you may as well wipe the slate in order to make room for things that do matter. If you want it and you keep at it, you can have more than you ever thought you could ( trust me). But, if you think you know it all and take it for granted, you are deluded and don't deserve it anyway.

So, to answer the question, it's all important to me. None necessarily more than the other, they're all intrinsically linked. But if I had to label it, I wouldn't simply call it enthusiasm. Rather, desire. That is most important to me. Want. Need. If that is the motivation, the underlying cadence of what drives you, then the rest will follow.

Also, practice makes perfect, Cutey

 

[Farawyn]

Starting from zero. I like that.

 

[Shankara20]

Do you prefer skill or enthusiasm?

A mouth that can take you all in?

The gag when you hit her spot, and the tears?

Spill, please.

A hungry mouth is a joy beyond a skilled uninterested mouth, total take-in not needed but extra points for effort, tears and snot fine...

 

[Mustang Sally]

I'm in love with Necro's answer. Especially the first paragraph. Oh myyyyy.

 

[quicky1]

Do you prefer skill or enthusiasm?

A mouth that can take you all in?

The gag when you hit her spot, and the tears?

Spill, please.

skill can be learned, enthusiasm not.........

 

[TheWhiteBull]

Do you prefer skill or enthusiasm?

A mouth that can take you all in?

The gag when you hit her spot, and the tears?

Spill, please.

While I agree with Necro's answer as well I feel that the only attribute on this short list which is absolutely necessary is enthusiasm. As was pointed out, skill can and will come from confidence and experience built with multiple partners and/or within a relationship. But enthusiasm for performing and learning goes to the heart of this thread; the joy we all get from being served by or serving your partner.

 

[visioneer]

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[barefootgirl69]

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The last one....... I like when he holds my chin

 

[Farawyn]

While I agree with Necro's answer as well I feel that the only attribute on this short list which is absolutely necessary is enthusiasm. As was pointed out, skill can and will come from confidence and experience built with multiple partners and/or within a relationship. But enthusiasm for performing and learning goes to the heart of this thread; the joy we all get from being served by or serving your partner.

Joy.
That really does sum it up.
Welcome back.

 

[Zach_lost_in_Aus]

While I agree with Necro's answer as well I feel that the only attribute on this short list which is absolutely necessary is enthusiasm. As was pointed out, skill can and will come from confidence and experience built with multiple partners and/or within a relationship. But enthusiasm for performing and learning goes to the heart of this thread; the joy we all get from being served by or serving your partner.

Exactly right.

 

[Farawyn]

Fall asleep inside me and I'll wrap around you and put my hands in your hair and all over you ...and then your face kissing you until we can't anymore.

I awaken with you pulling up and telling me it's okay and to be a good girl as you kneel on me and gloss my lips with your Cock.

Half awake I try to suck at the same time saying Nooooo I'm asleep.
You caress my face as you open my mouth with your head and push and push and tell me to be your slut, your whore, your pretty mouth, yours.
and I suck you and it's not a dream, it's real.
You tell me to take it all and push a bit more.

I'm awake.
Sucking and gagging until you cum and I'm soaked and aching and wanting for more.

 

[txgent101]

A Repost No Doubt, But...

...captures some of the essence of just being near him...
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[TheAnimalWithin]

Do you prefer skill or enthusiasm?

A mouth that can take you all in?

The gag when you hit her spot, and the tears?

Spill, please.

Enthusiasm, to be sure. A few have already commented on this as an absolute must, and I completely agree.

I don't mind - hell, I enjoy - teaching a new pet how best to please me with her mouth. If, however, she doesn't want, need, to please me, it's going to feel joyless and dutiful. That is not at all a turn-on.

As for the gagging, and tears, it's never really been my thing. I love taking my pets, and taking them hard...but not their mouths and throats. I'll absolutely at times hold them firmly or lay them down on their back, head draped over the edge of whatever piece of furniture is handy, and take control of the depth and speed, but even then I rarely if ever deliver a true throatfuck as one sees so often in porn these days.

If there are to be tears, and there often will be, I want them to be tears of release and joy shed while I comfort and stroke her and murmur gentle words of support and love, not an involuntary physical reaction to abuse while I thrust mindlessly. I may be rare in this as compared to others on lit who identify as dominant, but for me blowjobs have always been one of the most tender and sensual aspects of my sex life.

 

[ViciousTease]

Enthusiasm, to be sure. A few have already commented on this as an absolute must, and I completely agree.

I don't mind - hell, I enjoy - teaching a new pet how best to please me with her mouth. If, however, she doesn't want, need, to please me, it's going to feel joyless and dutiful. That is not at all a turn-on.

As for the gagging, and tears, it's never really been my thing. I love taking my pets, and taking them hard...but not their mouths and throats. I'll absolutely at times hold them firmly or lay them down on their back, head draped over the edge of whatever piece of furniture is handy, and take control of the depth and speed, but even then I rarely if ever deliver a true throatfuck as one sees so often in porn these days.

If there are to be tears, and there often will be, I want them to be tears of release and joy shed while I comfort and stroke her and murmur gentle words of support and love, not an involuntary physical reaction to abuse while I thrust mindlessly. I may be rare in this as compared to others on lit who identify as dominant, but for me blowjobs have always been one of the most tender and sensual aspects of my sex life.

I agree with all of this. Oral is sensual for me. Giving, not taking. Taking is for other activities.

 

[Zionisacat]

Do you prefer skill or enthusiasm?

A mouth that can take you all in?

The gag when you hit her spot, and the tears?

Spill, please.

There’s a time and a place for technical proficiency but if it’s approached with the same relish as scooping the kitty litter or doing the dishes, I’ll pass. Lets do each other favour and I’ll get myself off while you go and do whatever was clearly on your mind.
That being said I agree with Necro. Enthusiasm is part of that for sure but it’s more for the task at hand rather than the reason for the task i.e. the pleasing and the servitude. Desire is the thing I’m after.
You may be very enthusiastic about putting things in your mouth (cocks, bananas, lolly pops) and if that’s what gets your motor running more power to you, but your desire to please me is what gets my motor running.
If I sit and think, I know you get something out of it mentally and emotionally. There’s also another part of my brain that acknowledges that you don’t physically. Some of it appears to be physically unpleasant. The tears, the choking, the drool, the lockjaw, the positions I put you in and yet you put my pleasure above all of that.
Sorry that turned into a semi coherent diatribe of why I like oral. Hope that makes sense to someone other than myself.


When the shoe is on the other foot, I’ve long maintained that whatever I may lack in technical ability, I more than make up for with enthusiasm. I may have to be dragged there by my hair, ears or the scruff of my neck, but that’s for different reasons.

 

[Farawyn]

Enthusiasm, to be sure. A few have already commented on this as an absolute must, and I completely agree.

I don't mind - hell, I enjoy - teaching a new pet how best to please me with her mouth. If, however, she doesn't want, need, to please me, it's going to feel joyless and dutiful. That is not at all a turn-on.

As for the gagging, and tears, it's never really been my thing. I love taking my pets, and taking them hard...but not their mouths and throats. I'll absolutely at times hold them firmly or lay them down on their back, head draped over the edge of whatever piece of furniture is handy, and take control of the depth and speed, but even then I rarely if ever deliver a true throatfuck as one sees so often in porn these days.

If there are to be tears, and there often will be, I want them to be tears of release and joy shed while I comfort and stroke her and murmur gentle words of support and love, not an involuntary physical reaction to abuse while I thrust mindlessly. I may be rare in this as compared to others on lit who identify as dominant, but for me blowjobs have always been one of the most tender and sensual aspects of my sex life.

I don't look at it as abuse. Sometimes my mouth is a mouth that wants to be used. Sometimes it's how I best serve. It gives me pleasure, the gag, as well as conflicts me... it makes me want to be better for him. I love being objectified and broken down into holes for him. I can say that because the whole of me is completely adored bh him.

 

[Farawyn]

There’s a time and a place for technical proficiency but if it’s approached with the same relish as scooping the kitty litter or doing the dishes, I’ll pass. Lets do each other favour and I’ll get myself off while you go and do whatever was clearly on your mind.
That being said I agree with Necro. Enthusiasm is part of that for sure but it’s more for the task at hand rather than the reason for the task i.e. the pleasing and the servitude. Desire is the thing I’m after.
You may be very enthusiastic about putting things in your mouth (cocks, bananas, lolly pops) and if that’s what gets your motor running more power to you, but your desire to please me is what gets my motor running.
If I sit and think, I know you get something out of it mentally and emotionally. There’s also another part of my brain that acknowledges that you don’t physically. Some of it appears to be physically unpleasant. The tears, the choking, the drool, the lockjaw, the positions I put you in and yet you put my pleasure above all of that.
Sorry that turned into a semi coherent diatribe of why I like oral. Hope that makes sense to someone other than myself.


When the shoe is on the other foot, I’ve long maintained that whatever I may lack in technical ability, I more than make up for with enthusiasm. I may have to be dragged there by my hair, ears or the scruff of my neck, but that’s for different reasons.

Thanks for the last paragraph.
When the shoe is on the other foot, I feel the same way. If I feel like a feast for someone, plant your face there and eat. His want gets me off as much as his skill.

 

[Farawyn]

I agree with all of this. Oral is sensual for me. Giving, not taking. Taking is for other activities.

What about him taking from you? Pushing?
(Glad to see you back, VT! )

 

[Dreamliner]

and it does take practice.

 

[Dreamliner]

Let's try that again

 

[barefootgirl69]

Enthusiasm, to be sure. A few have already commented on this as an absolute must, and I completely agree.

As for the gagging, and tears, it's never really been my thing.

I may be rare in this as compared to others on lit who identify as dominant, but for me blowjobs have always been one of the most tender and sensual aspects of my sex life.

I agree with all of this. Oral is sensual for me. Giving, not taking. Taking is for other activities.

I love the sensual aspect. The slow tender, enthusiastic part. I am showing my adoration. But, the other side of it is, it turns me on to have him in my mouth. To watch his reaction to the way my tongue teases. To know he's hard because of me... it's not really about control, it's a feeling of pleasure.. because I'm not in control no matter that I am the one giving the pleasure.

Do I want to take him in my throat? Oh, yes... but I like that I take my time getting there.

 

[grifin]

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