oral pleasure

[greg19yung]

Hey everyone,

This message goes out to mostly the women: As a 19 year old, I feel like I have had my fair share of sex. However, one area in which I was never comfortable was my oral performance. What are the most stimulating and pleasing ways a guy could please his girl orally, from a woman's point of view? What do women like men to do for them when pleasuring (or at least trying to) them orally? Im open to all suggestions, thanks!

 

[His_kitty]

The biggest thing you can do, to please your partner, is to ask them questions. No two people are the same, we all have preferences and dislikes.

Personally I like to be gently chewed and nibbled ....... the tongue teasing my outer folds before pressing inward. My clit sucked and flicked with the tongue ......

But as I said, not everyone likes the same things ...... don't be shy about asking ... trust me most like to be asked.

 

[xx_La_Reina_xx]

I agree

The biggest thing you can do, to please your partner, is to ask them questions. No two people are the same, we all have preferences and dislikes.

Since everyone is different, it is important to communicate with your patner. Spend some time finding out what she doe and does not like. Also, pay attention to how her body responds to your actions. Body language can sometimes be just as loud..maybe even louder...

If her legs are shakin so bad you have to hold em down while you lick and tease...then ya know you hit a good spot


*smile*
Reina

 

[SailorC272002]

xx_La_Reina_xx has the right idea. Some women will not tell you, directly, But their body always shows what they enjoy. Take your time and be observant.

Yeah, I know they expect us to be mind readers but that is just the way they are, deal with it.

For the ladies that do tell us what they like, Thank You.

 

[xx_La_Reina_xx]

shouldn't be any other way...

For the ladies that do tell us what they like, Thank You. [/B]

Well Sailor, the way I see it...it's is supposed to be a pleasurable experience ..so why let a man waste time doing something that does nothing for me.

A moan here, the slight rise of my hips when he hits the right spot, a little pressure on his skin from my fingers, or even a little guidance while my hands are tangled in his hair...all small, but very noticeable gestures that help him along.... ...and me along..hehehe



*smile*
Reina

 

[Phil333]

Re: I agree

If her legs are shakin so bad you have to hold em down while you lick and tease...then ya know you hit a good spot


*smile*
Reina

LOL not to brag, but when I am going down to my girlfriend I am always moving my head around because she moves so much.

Obviously, no two women are the same but here is what I do to please my girlfriend. First, I always go down on her before she goes down on me. Second, always do plenty of making out and touching of the nipples before hand. Then, while clothes still on, rub her pussy and her ass. Push into her pussy enough so she can feel it a little bit. Maybe sneak your hand down there and rub over her panties. Let there be plenty of build up. Slide her pants, skirt whatever off, but keep her underwear on. Kiss her some more, teasing her nipples for a few minutes. Let her anticipate whats coming. Then tease her pussy some more, once in a while slipping your finger underneath her underwear so she can preview what is about to come. Now, underneath her panties, rub your finger up and down, around, play with her clit. Slowly. Maybe enter her once with your finger, feeling every part inside her. Rub your finger along her inner walls. Slider your panties off and go down her. Lick slowly at first. All around, play with her clit lightly. After a couple minutes, go really fast ... This should drive her wild. Then slow down again. What my girlfriend loves is when I insert one finger into her and lick her clit at the same time ... that drives her wild

Hope that helps.

-Phil

 

[Guest]

ABC...d.e.f

K, have you ever heard of the ABC's ? Do that on her clit and most likely- she'll go wild, I know my g/f does- every time.... don't like the ABC's you say? Well then, count, spell her name, anything like that.... and also, when she's really getting into it, kind of stop and tease her a little, blow a little bit on her- it'll leave her begging

 

[WickedAsianBabe]

Re: Re: I agree

LOL not to brag, but when I am going down to my girlfriend I am always moving my head around because she moves so much.

Obviously, no two women are the same but here is what I do to please my girlfriend. First, I always go down on her before she goes down on me. Second, always do plenty of making out and touching of the nipples before hand. Then, while clothes still on, rub her pussy and her ass. Push into her pussy enough so she can feel it a little bit. Maybe sneak your hand down there and rub over her panties. Let there be plenty of build up. Slide her pants, skirt whatever off, but keep her underwear on. Kiss her some more, teasing her nipples for a few minutes. Let her anticipate whats coming. Then tease her pussy some more, once in a while slipping your finger underneath her underwear so she can preview what is about to come. Now, underneath her panties, rub your finger up and down, around, play with her clit. Slowly. Maybe enter her once with your finger, feeling every part inside her. Rub your finger along her inner walls. Slider your panties off and go down her. Lick slowly at first. All around, play with her clit lightly. After a couple minutes, go really fast ... This should drive her wild. Then slow down again. What my girlfriend loves is when I insert one finger into her and lick her clit at the same time ... that drives her wild

Hope that helps.

-Phil

When can you get to Toronto?

 

[Phil333]

I'll be there this summer actually

 

[KinkyKandy]

The one thing that always makes it better for me is when i get teased before i get eaten out. A build up before always makes it so much better.

 

[DuckLover]

Re: ABC...d.e.f

K, have you ever heard of the ABC's ? Do that on her clit and most likely- she'll go wild, I know my g/f does- every time.... don't like the ABC's you say? Well then, count, spell her name, anything like that.... and also, when she's really getting into it, kind of stop and tease her a little, blow a little bit on her- it'll leave her begging

Don't get too focused on the alphabet though! If she starts responding heavily to the letter R, stay with it! Roll that R! The first time I ever gave oral I got so focused on the alphabet I wasn't paying attention to her. Found out afterwards that she'd nearly climaxed but the XYZ didn't do it for her. (I made up for it later...several times...God, I love cunnilingus!)

 

[intrigued]

Wow!

Being as I have never had this for more than maybe....5 minutes...after reading this thread, I feel like I finally did. And it didnt matter that it took only 5 minutes to read it.

 

[Anna6]

what i like... uh, LOVE..is

Just to know that a guy is willing to take ALL the time in the world and nothing is more important to him than making you feel good, for as long as it takes... Ummmm! Not having to feel that his neck may be hurting (tired..? haha) or that it's time to go somewhere, just that HE has time for you, only you.... well, that goes a long way, right girls? And the ABC's thing is nice-- but for God's sake, If you have a good rhythm going guys and she is loving it and saying YESsss.. or moaning.. then please DONT stop what you are doing! Nothing can be much more frustrating to a woman (my opinion..) and I totally lose my whole arousal at times-- just when it felt SOOooooo good too..!! Love the topic here... Have fun ... Mmmmm!

 

[Anna6]

something i read earlier...

This is from www.improvingsex.com (if i am correct?!) I'll have to check that, but it is a great site and full of good points about a LOT of things-- sexual, of course. Great article about Tantric.. and massage of the genitals in order to feel 'release' of tensions... UMmmmm... i almost came while reading it!! wow...

<<The clitoris is very sensitive, to drive your lover wild, avoid direct contact with the clitoris at first. Spend some time warming up your partner by nibbling and kissing around it. Only after your partner is responding should you start direct stimulation.

Try the long wet kiss. Start by laying your tongue flat against the lowest part of the vulva, then take it long and slow, keeping contact and pressure all the way up as you slide your tongue over her entire vagina, ending at the clitoris.

Blowing on her lips and clitoris in between other actions will drive her crazy.

Try the old game of alphabet ecstasy; try writing letters over her clitoris.

Hum or buzz while you are exploring her most sensitive areas.

As she really starts to build up her excitement level, only then insert a finger or two and try to reach up inside to locate the g-spot. Hold steady pressure or move your finger tips just a little as you bring her to orgasm. >>

 

[Anna6]

Great topic... hey, dont go away!

Where'd everyone GO? I didnt mean to chase you off with that big post up there... Surely we arent all through talking about eating a woman, Are we? Oh NOooo!

 

[Richo01]

my fav subject

Now if Anna6 was in my part of the world we could practice her ABC's on me as long as I get to return the favour all the way to z and back then I'd start on the numbers !!!!

Anna


Richo

 

[LusciousRedLips]

Try this for a change

Sometimes change, even a subtle change, can work wonders for heightening the senses. One of these times you are in the mood to give your female partner a long, slow clitoral kiss, try a different position. Instead of having your partner lie on her back, flip her over so she is on her belly. That way her view will be only the sheets and the headboard, which I am sure she will be desperately grabbing before the night is over.

Slowly begin to explore your lover’s buttocks, thighs, behind the knees, the small of her back before going down on her. You’ll have her panting with anticipation as she wonders what you have planned for her next. S l o w l y begin to explore her pussy, purposely avoiding her clit. Before long, she will be bending her knees and arching her back to try to guide you to that sweet spot that needs a good tongue-lashing. And, of course, I am sure you will be happy to comply.

 

[Anna6]

Ooooooh Luscious!

What a great idea! MMmmmm.. makes me HOT just thinking about that; actually brings back a few memories too. And definitely ones worth repeating.. if i just find the right partner now! Ummm!

 

[Anna6]

Re: my fav subject

Now if Anna6 was in my part of the world we could practice her ABC's on me as long as I get to return the favour all the way to z and back then I'd start on the numbers !!!!

Anna


Richo

THANKS Richo!! you are So sweet to say that and YESsss, I'd do the ABC's on you, and would love to have that favor returned too! what lady wouldnt?? UMMmmm wow!! (get that green card, ok? )

 

[Kell_pj]

use that texas accent on me girl mmmmmm god your posts are making me squirm

 

[SXCRgirl]

All great tips! Communication is definitely the key.

Is it just me or is it HOT in here? WHEW!

 

[Kell_pj]

I have had the pleasure of both giving and receiving. I know that for me its having your partner being really into it enjoy it and focusing on your enjoyment. when being eaten I love it when pj is moaning slurping and getting pleasure from giving me pleasure.
Know that it turns him on turns me on. When giving I love to tease to bring her to the brink and back off, brink and back off, brink and back off, brink mmmmmm ahha ahhh ah ahhhhh goe babie cum on me ahhhhhhh ah mmmmm you taste soooooo good........ you know. God I am getting hot just thinking about this!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Anna6]

Texas accent... for Kell..? HA!

Not real sure how much the 'accent' will help out w/ the ORAL pleasures we are discussing here.. but HEY, you dont know until you try, right? I can say "Y'all COME!" ...but maybe you'd rather i say "Y'all CUM .... see me now, ya hear??" I think you'd get the message.... CUM ON Gents and Ladies, let's get back to posting here, we sure have a great topic, dont we? MMmmmmm...

 

[wannaknow]

I think the best part of oral for me is the trip down and the building anticipation. kisses on the back of my neck nibbles on my ear lobe, sucking a nibbling on my nipples, down my stomach, little teasing of my clit then sucking and kissing on each thigh (hey it is a fun trip, detours are okay..lol) by that time I do not care what he does to me as long as it involves his lips kissing my lips...so to speak...hmmmmm I cannot wait til he gets home from work....sigh...
wanna

 

[Guest]