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Oprah today...You HAVE to turn it on

A honest and total sex talk

they even have a couple on talking about their sex life... with their therapist there

and they are having a true talk about sex, relationships and how to help sex lives

apparently 60% of women have fantasies of being dominated
 
Elizabetht said:
A honest and total sex talk

they even have a couple on talking about their sex life... with their therapist there

and they are having a true talk about sex, relationships and how to help sex lives

apparently 60% of women have fantasies of being dominated
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Heh. I think 60% of women have fantasies of having 100% of someone's attention in bed-- That's what that's about.

Can't blame them!
 
They are talking about 'surrender dates'.

A date, an afternoon, something like that but a specific amount of time where the woman surrenders control over EVERYTHING to the guy (I assume this would work with lesbian couples as well, in this case the more dominant of the two ladies would give up the control). The man picks everything from what the woman wears to where they go to what they do to how they get there.

The premise behind this is that sometimes with the amount of stresses that women find themselves under and their attitude of "if I don't do it then it won't get done or it won't get done correctly' tends to make women demasculinate their men and infantilize them. Because the women are in control all the time - it takes away from the men and their masculinity.

It's really cool actually
 
Indeed. I've always been fond of the kitchen as a place to "pay attention" to a woman.

Afterwards we usually have to shower and that allows me more time to "pay attention" to them. :devil:
 
Elizabetht said:
They are talking about 'surrender dates'.

A date, an afternoon, something like that but a specific amount of time where the woman surrenders control over EVERYTHING to the guy (I assume this would work with lesbian couples as well, in this case the more dominant of the two ladies would give up the control). The man picks everything from what the woman wears to where they go to what they do to how they get there.

The premise behind this is that sometimes with the amount of stresses that women find themselves under and their attitude of "if I don't do it then it won't get done or it won't get done correctly' tends to make women demasculinate their men and infantilize them. Because the women are in control all the time - it takes away from the men and their masculinity.

It's really cool actually
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A retraining exercise. "Honey, You CAN make some decisions for yourself. And me. And it won't tax your brain as much as you think it will!"
 
Kissing Game

Try kissing for 10 seconds a day... instead of the quick peck on the way out

Try kissing your partner the way that they want to be kissed then you kiss them the way that you want to be kissed by them.
 
Ok, I have to say I'm a little shocked at Oprah. She seemed pretty uptight at the end there. What is so hard about looking at yourself in a mirror?
 
tickledkitty said:
Ok, I have to say I'm a little shocked at Oprah. She seemed pretty uptight at the end there. What is so hard about looking at yourself in a mirror?
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Honestly, I think its an age thing. She is 52 (I believe)... It could very well be a generational thing for her.
 
The last time I watched Oprah, Jordan still played. The one time I should have looked and I missed it.
 
Elizabetht said:
Because the women are in control all the time - it takes away from the men and their masculinity.
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I think my husband would say that it makes sure he gets a very nice meal at a really great place and he doesn't have to concern himself with finding it or making the reservations...but that's just me.

As for what I wear...there's an interesting story there, but let's just say that yes, he'd love to dress me up, but the one most recent time he asked me to follow his directions it all went horribly wrong :D
 
Uh, might I point out that it could just be that after a day spent making one damned decision after another, the guy is just too damned tired to care where they go or what they do? How does this get to be a question of who's in charge?
 
Elizabetht said:
They are talking about 'surrender dates'.

A date, an afternoon, something like that but a specific amount of time where the woman surrenders control over EVERYTHING to the guy (I assume this would work with lesbian couples as well, in this case the more dominant of the two ladies would give up the control). The man picks everything from what the woman wears to where they go to what they do to how they get there.

The premise behind this is that sometimes with the amount of stresses that women find themselves under and their attitude of "if I don't do it then it won't get done or it won't get done correctly' tends to make women demasculinate their men and infantilize them. Because the women are in control all the time - it takes away from the men and their masculinity.

It's really cool actually
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Christ! GOD I'm glad I'm a lesbian! What a bunch of whiny fucks! WTF is with "a woman in charge takes away their masculinity and infantilizes them?" They need to start thinking with their heads rather than their balls.

P.S. That AIN'T really cool actually!
 
Safe_Bet said:
Christ! GOD I'm glad I'm a lesbian! What a bunch of whiny fucks! WTF is with "a woman in charge takes away their masculinity and infantilizes them?" They need to start thinking with their heads rather than their balls.

P.S. That AIN'T really cool actually!
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Well put! More "academic feminist" twaddle.
 
3113 said:
I think my husband would say that it makes sure he gets a very nice meal at a really great place and he doesn't have to concern himself with finding it or making the reservations...but that's just me.

As for what I wear...there's an interesting story there, but let's just say that yes, he'd love to dress me up, but the one most recent time he asked me to follow his directions it all went horribly wrong :D
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Doesn't he read maps either?
 
Stella_Omega said:
Doesn't he read maps either?
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Stella, Stella, Stella...remember who you are talking about. You've driven with him. He doesn't need no stinkin' maps :D This is the man that people call when they're lost.
 
No thanks. Oprah and I have left each other alone this long. I think that we will continue to do so, especially after she has foisted a certain Senator from Illinois on the rest of us.
 
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