How many people, male and female, can say they truely enjoy bringing there lover the most intense pleasure possible? That foreplay is not dead. The act of discovering every inch of their body, every erogenous zone, to bring them the most pleasure. This is something I crave but have found it very lacking in my love life. Any one else feel the same? I'd love opinions.
Opinion.... Does any one else feel this way?
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julius_1975ct
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I am totally like this... giving her pleasure is what turns me on most. I love touching, rubbing, sucking, licking and making her cum as much as i can b4 i enter her.
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I always give 110% to my partner when she allows me (that's a different topic altogether...). I love foreplay with her because it makes her so wet and horny and makes her want to ravish me even more afterwards. It makes the time with her feel meaningful.
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Making sure that my partner is very satisfied before i enter is important to me. Some playful texting/emails during the day, kissing and/or touching in public and exploring every inch of her body with my fingers and tongue turns her on so much that she is begging for me to enter her.
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Oh yes. It's the buildup, the anticipation, the exploration, discovery, the experimentation, the tension, the heat, every little shiver, every little sound, every smell and taste.
All that and the promise of what's to come (no pun intended).
[goes lies down for a minute]
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In many ways, the journey is also the destination.
I dislike the concept of foreplay and afterplay/care as I look at it as all part of the continuum of pleasure.
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I know myself that if the woman does not want foreplay, I get a great let down. I prefer long sessions of touching, licking, kissing, and just enjoying her body as much as possible. The art of foreplay is not dead, but some women just have not had it done properly to her, once had, she don't want to give it up to easy!
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Boy where were you guys when my husband was getting lessons? He's wonderful in a million ways but often wants to get busy a lot sooner than I do... I have to hold his darn ears to keep him down there! 
As a giver though I really enjoy pleasing and teasing and oral and all that playful stuff. Unfortunately, guys are a bit like a gun... play with the trigger too much and it will go off before you really want.
As a giver though I really enjoy pleasing and teasing and oral and all that playful stuff. Unfortunately, guys are a bit like a gun... play with the trigger too much and it will go off before you really want.
You have to or it will force the other person to look elsewhere. If you want a healthy/happy relationshiop you need to ensure they are satisfied, especially in bed. All to often, men get theirs and then dont worry about the rest. You have to listen to your lady and let her tell you what she likes, then do it and do it until she is fulfilled...THEN you can get your 1min of relief lol.
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Absolutely love to give but just as much for me as for her... Love the taste, smell, feel, getting her off and myself off, who doesn't love that? Only problem is that she usually wants to get on with the fucking before I'm done playing. I usually stop during sex just to go down for a quick taste though...she doesn't mind.
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My pleasure IS bringing her pleasure. If she doesn't get off I don't get off. Best high in the universe.
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Yes please...
I LOVE to give my partner the most pleasure he's ever had. The taste, touch, feel of a mans skin, watching and feeling him respond to my touch, my lips is so very arousing. Foreplay, in all its forms, is some of the best part of the process. Rushing to the finish line is the least satisfying way to be with someone. I am a giver...and love to do it.
I LOVE to give my partner the most pleasure he's ever had. The taste, touch, feel of a mans skin, watching and feeling him respond to my touch, my lips is so very arousing. Foreplay, in all its forms, is some of the best part of the process. Rushing to the finish line is the least satisfying way to be with someone. I am a giver...and love to do it.
I totally agree!
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Yes! Foreplay is so important, although I agree with Noor, there shouldn't be a distinction between the two. It's all a part of it for me. I simply adore taking him to the brink over and over again. I adore the feel, the smell, the taste of him and it's such a kick to know I can make him extremely excited with the merely the very gentlest touch in a very specific area. In fact it can be almost a disappointment when sex finally happens because I know it'll be over sooner rather than later. It's one of the most wonderful ways to get to know your lovers body and what really flicks their switch.
Agree with you 100%
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Boy where were you guys when my husband was getting lessons? He's wonderful in a million ways but often wants to get busy a lot sooner than I do... I have to hold his darn ears to keep him down there!
As a giver though I really enjoy pleasing and teasing and oral and all that playful stuff. Unfortunately, guys are a bit like a gun... play with the trigger too much and it will go off before you really want.
I have to say I agree with this, my husband is exactly the same way. I love having everything played with and my husband has to get all my gears going before he gets anything else lol.
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The journey..........
The journey with your partner is the most amazing if it's prolonged. In my opinion it just doesn't get any better.hours of teasing, touching, kissing, licking,sucking, keeping us both on the edge over and over before we finally allow each other to orgasm makes for the most amazing explosions. But for me I almost love the journey more than the ultimate prize.
The journey with your partner is the most amazing if it's prolonged. In my opinion it just doesn't get any better.hours of teasing, touching, kissing, licking,sucking, keeping us both on the edge over and over before we finally allow each other to orgasm makes for the most amazing explosions. But for me I almost love the journey more than the ultimate prize.
