Opinion/Advice needed.

[marmic]

Hi
Found this place the other day and looks like some of you might be able to help with a query.

We are a gay couple who have been together for 10+ years and the sex is still great. We both love it still and are very happy.

Anyway the other day my partner expressed a desire to have another guy fuck him cause they are hung like a horse and he wants to experience a cock that big. I don't have a problem with that as it is something he wants to try and that is fine with me.
The guy who would be fucking my partner is also in a relationship so the two of us would watch while they had sex, maybe the other partner would suck my cock as well but don't know.

Anyone done this before or heard of anyone who has done so? How did it affect the relationship if at all? Anything to be wary of apart from the usual of making sure condoms are used?


Or should it just be left as a fantasy and we get a big dildo to use instead/as well.

Oh and just to give you an idea my cock is 7x5 while the one he would like to try is 10x7 inches.

All advice would be helpful so thanks in advance.

 

[DAZZED48]

try it

After 10 years the jealousy factor shouldnt raise its head. Try it with a lot of verbal help and loving remarks.A little sucking him as hes getting fucked would probably be nice as well.

 

[gaymm]

Get to know the other couple first

Really only you and your partner can answer how you will both feel, but I would strongly suggest getting to know the other couple, and get a feel for how it will effect them.

I regularly meet with a couple, together for almost 16 years. They are very stable together and open. I play with both of them, or either alone. They both are aware and encourage the openess of their relationship. But...we are all also good friends too. While the sex is wonderful, we take it lightly and view it as 3 guys having fun, getting exercise, whatever. If I ever felt I was becomming problematic to them, I would refrain from further bedroom activity.

They know that, and perhaps that is why it works. Because I am not a threat to their relationship.

Chris

 

[gagginforit]

Wouldn't you like to do it as well? If you both did it it'd be all fair and square and maybe it'd be better because it's something you both did together. Besides, how often do you get the chance to fuck a ten incher?

 

[webber1998]

I've had a few friends ( couples ) along the way that have either been in an open relationship or have, on occasion, added a third from time to time. Just from the outside, looking in, the ones with what I would call the strong relationship to begin with, didn't have any problems. In one case though, you could tell that things were going badly to begin with. One guy was always jealous, a little insecure and very clingy. Having someone join them didn't ruin their relationship, it just help in ending it, in my opinion.

I feel if you and your partner have a good relationship, communicate well and share the experience, it could be mutually rewarding.

 

[NaughtySmirk]

My father and stepmother, while obviously not gay, did introduce a third person into their relationship and it worked out. She even came on a family type vacation with us once. They have since told me that there were inevitably sometimes jealousy issues, but nothing they couldn't work through. So it can certainly work if you really want it to.