open eyes,open mind

[alisonwunderlnd]

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[Purple Sage]

Good morning everyone.I am new to all of this and have felt a draw to BDSM for some time now.I will admitt that I have not had much experience what so ever but would like to.I posted a similar thread in BDSM talk and Vixandra reccomended this and the Cafe Chateau to me.Just looking to learn all that I can and experience all that I can with this.So far,learning quite a bit from the sticky threads.

So... what's on your mind? Any particular area of curiousity that people can help you with?

 

[alisonwunderlnd]

 

[Salendire]

Maybe u should download some bdsm porn, might give u a better idea of your turn on's and off's... Other than than i would just advise finding an open minded male to "play" with, you never know u might like dominating and being dominated

 

[FurryFury]

That's it ! I am putting a request in at my library for the movie, Secretary!
I've just heard too much about it!

Now, here is my idea for you, find a local group (munch). The kind that meets in a public place for a meal and chat up some people. Later they may have a play party that you can decide you aren't ready for, decide you want to watch but not play or see if someone will play with you. If I were single, I'd be hitting that sort of group up for conversation, details and getting to know people. In fact, I think I'm going to do that anyway.

How does that sound to you?

Fury

 

[jadefirefly]

Careful with those sticky threads.

They're... y'know... sticky. And stuff.









Sorry. Doubly sorry because that really was the only point to this post -- I wish I could help you out, but I haven't any advice that hasn't already been offered. I found what I liked and didn't like by exploring with my partner at the time... and I know there's a lot out there I haven't tried yet.