Only if you reply honestly

[DenverFunguy]

Thank you sweetheart!
I agree with the quote, but would like to alter it by saying that if you don't stop and look you might get lost. (ack I am so bad today)

you say bad like its a ....bad thing... smiles

 

[just2damshy]

lol well I sure wouldn't want to get any more lost than I usually am anyway!

Right there with you hon! What was this thread about again? I am lost.....

 

[just2damshy]

you say bad like its a ....bad thing... smiles

I am in a funk today. :sigh:

 

[kitylady4more]

Wow, that's a pretty deep line from a movie, I can totally relate. Thats why we come on here, to find our new and fresh starts

Very true! Must Love Dogs is one of my fav movies! I can totally relate to her
(Diane Lane)! Thank you Chocolate Bear!

 

[DaBears34]

Right there with you hon! What was this thread about again? I am lost.....

I had to look - it was asking how many women crave being pampered. I have to say I really can't add much to that part of the conversation being a guy and all - but I will say that pampering women is a good thing and more of us men should do it regularly, and not just to see what it gets us.

 

[DenverFunguy]

well lets see

If we can’t get you out of your funk! What’s really fun for you!?
How can I help you smile! Are you ticklish? Do you like soft kisses all up and down your spine? Did you smile yet? Like to smile a lot more?

I am in a funk today. :sigh:

 

[just2damshy]

If we can’t get you out of your funk! What’s really fun for you!?
How can I help you smile! Are you ticklish? Do you like soft kisses all up and down your spine? Did you smile yet? Like to smile a lot more?

Well I kind of like this funk. I am being reflective. I don't want to smile all the time, sometimes I just like to pout.

 

[just2damshy]

I had to look - it was asking how many women crave being pampered. I have to say I really can't add much to that part of the conversation being a guy and all - but I will say that pampering women is a good thing and more of us men should do it regularly, and not just to see what it gets us.

Hmm very nice to hear a man say that. I think women should do the same for their mate too. Give and ye shall get back (or something like that).
Somebody has got to stop me!!!

 

[DaBears34]

Hmm very nice to hear a man say that. I think women should do the same for their mate too. Give and ye shall get back (or something like that).
Somebody has got to stop me!!!

lol I think you are doing just fine on your own (and I think you were looking for "give and ye shall receive")

 

[just2damshy]

lol I think you are doing just fine on your own (and I think you were looking for "give and ye shall receive")

Yes, that is it. Do unto others...etc.
Ok I am done for now :turning off serious side:
What about that thread your going to start up about what constitutes having a life?

 

[DaBears34]

Yes, that is it. Do unto others...etc.
Ok I am done for now :turning off serious side:
What about that thread your going to start up about what constitutes having a life?

lol thread I'M going to start? I think a thread that deep should be started by someone who is much more of asober and deep thinker than myself - maybe someone like you. But I bet it would be a big hit in the Playground.

Besides, I don't think I've ever started a thread - should I break my perfect record now?

 

[just2damshy]

lol thread I'M going to start? I think a thread that deep should be started by someone who is much more of asober and deep thinker than myself - maybe someone like you. But I bet it would be a big hit in the Playground.

Besides, I don't think I've ever started a thread - should I break my perfect record now?

Me? Deep thinker? Nah lol
I wouldn't even know how to begin. I don't know the answer to the question

 

[DaBears34]

Me? Deep thinker? Nah lol
I wouldn't even know how to begin. I don't know the answer to the question

That's why it would be a good thread - for Litsters to give their opinions and explore what it means to "have a life". And the great thing about the question is there is no answer!

 

[DenverFunguy]

pouting

Pouting can get you what you want sometimes othertimes its just cute. but always beautiful.

Well I kind of like this funk. I am being reflective. I don't want to smile all the time, sometimes I just like to pout.

 

[DenverFunguy]

never stop you!

It’s very true we get what we give and that’s a beautiful part of life love and the humans that inhabit this earth. We all need and we all want. The ones who have it figured out that the more we give to the ones we desire the better our lives will be.

I’m not talking about Democratic give it all away to those that don't want to work type of giving it away ether.

I’m talking about your friends and lovers! Give till they want no more and they will keep coming back and giving to you as well!

Hmm very nice to hear a man say that. I think women should do the same for their mate too. Give and ye shall get back (or something like that).
Somebody has got to stop me!!!

 

[Mustan]

I want to thank each one of you who are posting on this thread. I started this thread coz it was something that came from the depth of my heart and I am glad many of us are contributing.. God Bless you all with happiness and a fullfilled life - Keep the thread on the top - Cheers Mustan

 

[Macy02]

count me in

This thread caugh my attention, Yes I long for someone to .....(fill in the blank....)

Some one said that you get what you give. Maybe that's true, maybe it isn't. I've been married a long time and we are comfortable together. But do I wish for more - you are damn right I do. Have I asked for it? and tried to give more? Absolutely. Does he give back? Well in his defense, he works hard to support me and in his mind he does fill my needs. But the honest truth from my prespective, I often feel like I have to do all the "emotional" work....I have no intention of leaving my dh, but I have needs and just maybe I have to find ways to fulfill them..........discreetly of course.

Honest enough for ya?

 

[2ndchance]

This thread caugh my attention, Yes I long for someone to .....(fill in the blank....)

Some one said that you get what you give. Maybe that's true, maybe it isn't. I've been married a long time and we are comfortable together. But do I wish for more - you are damn right I do. Have I asked for it? and tried to give more? Absolutely. Does he give back? Well in his defense, he works hard to support me and in his mind he does fill my needs. But the honest truth from my prespective, I often feel like I have to do all the "emotional" work....I have no intention of leaving my dh, but I have needs and just maybe I have to find ways to fulfill them..........discreetly of course.

Honest enough for ya?

Honesty is best, and i like that perspective. I on the other hand, would love to find a discreet woman who would want to share the same things with me. But in my own little tormented mind, i have to admit that even when i find a woman to just chat with or share with, i always want to take that extra step, just to know that although i am that shoulder or ear for her, i want to be that sexual stimulation as well... Is that wrong?

 

[just2damshy]

It’s very true we get what we give and that’s a beautiful part of life love and the humans that inhabit this earth. We all need and we all want. The ones who have it figured out that the more we give to the ones we desire the better our lives will be.

I’m not talking about Democratic give it all away to those that don't want to work type of giving it away ether.

I’m talking about your friends and lovers! Give till they want no more and they will keep coming back and giving to you as well!

Well said. I think I sometimes forget it too. Nice reminder

 

[WinterBlueAbby]

Honesty is best, and i like that perspective. I on the other hand, would love to find a discreet woman who would want to share the same things with me. But in my own little tormented mind, i have to admit that even when i find a woman to just chat with or share with, i always want to take that extra step, just to know that although i am that shoulder or ear for her, i want to be that sexual stimulation as well... Is that wrong?

Not wrong.....as long as it is honest

 

[2ndchance]

Not wrong.....as long as it is honest

Well i like to be up front and honest about it... I will be a shoulder and an ear when a woman needs one, but I am a guy and YES ladies, we do think about sex more often than anything else.

 

[Macy02]

Honesty is best, and i like that perspective. I on the other hand, would love to find a discreet woman who would want to share the same things with me. But in my own little tormented mind, i have to admit that even when i find a woman to just chat with or share with, i always want to take that extra step, just to know that although i am that shoulder or ear for her, i want to be that sexual stimulation as well... Is that wrong?

Not wrong.