Online D/s Relationship Question

[Naughtyndngirl]

Forgive me if this question has been asked before, but how do these online d/s relationships work? I mean..is the ultimate goal to meet up? Or is it just a way to connect emotionally with someone you will never meet?

I'm kinda new to it, and trying to find the right person..so far, the messages I've been getting have been great and all..but I haven't connected with anyone yet.

Also sorry for not responding to some people..some people here are intimidating :/


- Aanchal

 

[cookiecat]

It's whatever you want it to be. Do you want to meet someone in person?

Online isn't so much different than real time in that you need to connect, feel safe, enjoy each other, actually talk about expectations.

This is a good thread about online relationships.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1419006

 

[LeinadVirgo]

Forgive me if this question has been asked before, but how do these online d/s relationships work? I mean..is the ultimate goal to meet up? Or is it just a way to connect emotionally with someone you will never meet?

I'm kinda new to it, and trying to find the right person..so far, the messages I've been getting have been great and all..but I haven't connected with anyone yet.

Also sorry for not responding to some people..some people here are intimidating :/


- Aanchal

That answer varies between people. I think most people here are more info keeping it online, there are better suited to connect in real life.

Again, can't speak for everybody. But i like having a life here that is completely separate from my own.

 

[Farawyn]

Lots of people keep it online only.
I don't.


Respond to only who you want to. You don't owe anyone a response just because they PM.

Welcome, and good luck.

 

[Miles Long]

It's whatever you want it to be. Do you want to meet someone in person?

Online isn't so much different than real time in that you need to connect, feel safe, enjoy each other, actually talk about expectations. But it is much different than real time in respects to the powerful odor.

This is a good thread about online relationships.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1419006

FYP

 

[Naughtyndngirl]

It's whatever you want it to be. Do you want to meet someone in person?

Online isn't so much different than real time in that you need to connect, feel safe, enjoy each other, actually talk about expectations.

This is a good thread about online relationships.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1419006

Honestly, I'm not sure yet! I'll definitely check out the link though! Thanks!

 

[ThreeInOne]

Respond to only who you want to. You don't owe anyone a response just because they PM.

I feel like this needs to be highlighted. This simple piece of advice right here could save you a lot of grief. It sometimes takes people a long time to realize it, but Farawyn hit the nail on the head.

Don't try to focus so much on where things are heading right now, talk to anyone you find interesting, but ultimately you should be exploring and finding out what you want to get out of any of this. This should be fulfilling you in some way and once you know what you are looking for you can find someone that fits your needs. Online can be somewhat of a safe place to figure things out if you're cautious about how you go about it.

 

[lilcuriouscatt]

I'm just going to give you a dominant's point of view, my own opinion.

All of the advice in this thread has been good. Especially about taking your time and getting to know people. Ask a lot of questions; anyone who has a problem with that will not be a good dominant. Don't let anyone push you into being a slave; a sub and a slave are two different things in most cases.

Wanting the same things, mutual respect, and good communication are important. Don't let anyone tell you that you aren't worth that.

Good luck in your journey.

 

[Naughtyndngirl]

Thanks for the helpful tips you guys!