Once more with feeling.

[the_outsider]

So because a girl likes to post pictures of herself somewhat anonymously, she should tolerate the demands of men who for, whatever reason, think she owes them something? Ridiculous.

I know who's going on Conn's ignore list next... and mine.

That is exactly what I am saying. People in general have a tendency to calculate/predict possible outcomes based on certain things others do or don't. A girl who posts naked pictures of her vagina is most likely okay with seeing naked pictures of a guy's cock. It's the reality of this world we live in. You're judged and categorized based on what you do, wear, etc. Neither you nor the girl I was addressing previously, can change that. So, my advise stands. If you don't like what these guys think of you/demand from you, stop sharing explicit pictures.

As for blocking me? I could careless.

 

[Connubium]

Oh fuck off you don't even write like an intelligent person and if you don't care so much why bother posting at all, you're probably just a Nirvision alt . It's not like the whole of lit is a twitter feed, it's my thread and I can post about what I damn well please, and to the same end it's not as though I'm broadcasting myself everywhere this a small thread on a subsection of a forum that I just do for fun and expression. Your views are lame and outdated, and you just aren't worth my time buddy . Nirvision I'll post your PM's like you requested when I get the chance tomorrow , I'm busy, I'm sure you understand how that is with all that sexy indexing you do.

 

[Connubium]

If everyone could ignore those two now I'd appreciate it, business will be resumed as usual tomorrow

 

[Nirvision]

Oh fuck off you don't even write like an intelligent person and if you don't care so much why bother posting at all, you're probably just a Nirvision alt . It's not like the whole of lit is a twitter feed, it's my thread and I can post about what I damn well please, and to the same end it's not as though I'm broadcasting myself everywhere this a small thread on a subsection of a forum that I just do for fun and expression. Your views are lame and outdated, and you just aren't worth my time buddy . Nirvision I'll post your PM's like you requested when I get the chance tomorrow , I'm busy, I'm sure you understand how that is with all that sexy indexing you do.

Paranoid, and passive-agressive (way to dig at a service I provide from which you sought out for, shows your maturity. ). You're firing on all cylinders today.

 

[Connubium]

Oh and your avatar is gay as fuck

 

[Nirvision]

If everyone could ignore those two now I'd appreciate it, business will be resumed as usual tomorrow

You do know you started this particular incident by blowing things way out of proportion, smearing me for no reason based on flimsy evidence? Right?

 

[Nirvision]

Oh and your avatar is gay as fuck

Mature, as always.

 

[morninwould]

You do know you started this particular incident by blowing things way out of proportion, smearing me for no reason based on flimsy evidence? Right?

Don't go away mad, just go away.

 

[Nirvision]

Don't go away mad, just go away.

Uh, no.

 

[morninwould]

Uh, no.

Mature as always.

I am not going to comment on anything you say on this thread anymore, just because it's not mine to hijack.

But that does not meant I don't think you're a douche.

 

[the_outsider]

Oh fuck off you don't even write like an intelligent person and if you don't care so much why bother posting at all, you're probably just a Nirvision alt . It's not like the whole of lit is a twitter feed, it's my thread and I can post about what I damn well please, and to the same end it's not as though I'm broadcasting myself everywhere this a small thread on a subsection of a forum that I just do for fun and expression. Your views are lame and outdated, and you just aren't worth my time buddy . Nirvision I'll post your PM's like you requested when I get the chance tomorrow , I'm busy, I'm sure you understand how that is with all that sexy indexing you do.

Please tell me you did not talk about intelligence. If you were slightly smart, or interesting, you wouldn't feel the need to constantly undress, and take nude pictures to amuse bunch of strangers on the internet.

You're so busy, you find the time to post pictures daily, and occasionally type long pathetic essays. The fact you're here on Lit, means your life isn't more interesting or busier than the rest of us. Nirvision included. So, stop with the lame disses.

And admit it already. You love victimizing yourself, and getting everyone's sympathy. It makes you feel important. Maybe even loved? Pathetic!

 

[hairball18]

Quick picture buffer

nice perky nipples.

 

[hairball18]

Please tell me you did not talk about intelligence. If you were slightly smart, or interesting, you wouldn't feel the need to constantly undress, and take nude pictures to amuse bunch of strangers on the internet.

You're so busy, you find the time to post pictures daily, and occasionally type long pathetic essays. The fact you're here on Lit, means your life isn't more interesting or busier than the rest of us. Nirvision included. So, stop with the lame disses.

And admit it already. You love victimizing yourself, and getting everyone's sympathy. It makes you feel important. Maybe even loved? Pathetic!

does someone need some attention? Start your own thread and you will get all the attention you need. Maybe that is what you are afraid of.

 

[k_m_d_]

http://www.buzzfeed.com/mjs538/puppies-the-size-of-soda-cans

http://i274.photobucket.com/albums/jj259/contactcare/rolleyes.gif

http://uber.dlrstudios.net/Thumbnails/awkward%20turtle.jpg

 

[ViolentSkye]

Wtf have I missed!?

BRB making a cuppa to drink while I catch up on dramaz.

 

[k_m_d_]

Wtf have I missed!?

BRB making a cuppa to drink while I catch up on dramaz.

I wouldn't say you've 'missed' anything.

Except adorable tiny puppies. And a huge rolleyes. And an even huger awkward turtle. Which is most definitely NOT an awkward tortoise.

 

[ViolentSkye]

I wouldn't say you've 'missed' anything.

Except adorable tiny puppies. And a huge rolleyes. And an even huger awkward turtle. Which is most definitely NOT an awkward tortoise.

Yeah. If only they were even huger so I couldn't miss them. /sigh.

 

[Que]

I do not sympathize with you, and frankly, I think every guy who is sympathizing with you is doing so to minimize the possibility of you discontinuing your exhibition. you're such a drama queen, but then again, I'm not surprised. You're an exhibitionist. You crave attention, and you take it in anyway you can get it.

Having said that, there is something called " the secret cause." Despite what your intentions were upon deciding to post naked pictures of yourself, you gave your viewers an opportunity to prey on you. In other words, you put yourself in harms way, and you have only yourself to place the blame upon. So, If you can't ignore the bad feedbacks, the uncalled for confessions, and requests, you might as well stop posting explicit pictures.

Besides, deep down, you know you're causing all the inappropriate comments which you're complaining about. Because, what you're doing (putting up naked pictures) is inappropriate too. If you really expected men to neither react inappropriately, nor force themselves on you; you'd be leaving your house naked, or flash guys in real life. So, save us the Drama, will you?

Nudity on an adult website is inappropriate according to whom? why are you here?

I will concur that amongst the fawning you will see a certain amount of syncophantastic flavor to SOME Of her fans. If you've actually follow this particular thread you will note that although I find that she's polite to all that are civil to her she tends to be a little bit more intrigued by those that aren't offering ego feeding comments. But that's the life of a beautiful girl on or offline anyway so what's your point?

Note before you accuse me of rushng in with a white knight complex to rescue the fair princess...(which happens to be true in my case however it is illrelevant to the argument at hand).... I'm confident that the lady can defend herself adequately against your specious assertions.

Your brand of moral relativism is not only immoral it demonstrates flawed thinking.

There's really no difference to your argument and those that argue, "well you were wearing an awfully short skirt or you were in the wrong part of town late at night so the rape was inevitable."

Even if one could predict with a high degree of certainty the rape is going to occur under those circumstances that makes it neither deserved nor something that could not be deterred by any number of factors after the woman allegedly places herself in harms way.

Anything from a random passerby with a set of balls to the girl having a sig sauer in her purse.

Personally I wouldn't encourage her to grapple in the muck with you but to be blunt you picked the wrong chick buddy- she might be English but she's definitely NOT disarmed.


NOTE: I fired of the above diatribe in 1 stream of consciousness as an immediate reaction to his post having not read anything below it.

I haven't followed this to know that there was even a discussion about nirvision... A couple of comments before I ignore-

People in general and progressives n particular love the trumpet their intelligence while they step on their cerebral dick.

Did you on notice that when nerdvisionless obvious alt was in a back and forth, he forgot his place and answered as nervous-gin in response as the alt...( I love the name calling my voice to text keeps coming up with him so I'm leaving them in with slight literary license taken)

I've never thought this the place for politics- there are better places if one is interested in politics to have actual meaningful discussion. (Not the one can have one with a liberal.) That said I was thought his avatar was pretty stupid; worshipping at the altar of Obama.

His entire attitude is typical of progressives- they are paternallistic protectors of women minorities and the downtrodden- as long as you stay subservient to their views...as soon as you step off the reservation you're a b**** a house n*****

There's a quote I'm not sure who its by that refers to this concept is the soft tyranny of low expectations. Liberals talk this way about women and minorities all the time just not in front of women and minorities. The other day this minority woman was talking about how conservatives need to change their tone to me be more inclusive or they're going to be made completely irrelevant did they need to quit listening to their crazy crackers on the fringe... she didn't even realize that she's making a racial slur wall talking about racial insensitivity.

Just because my tax dollars from working hard sent your lame ass to college for student loans that you're never going to be able to afford back with your lack of critical reasoning skills doesn't make you intelligent.

WTF are they teaching these Nimrods in universities? You can tell from the way he speaks and writes that he is definitely college educated and no I don't mean that as a compliment. There's no such thing as a secret cause; causes are either identified or not... Even if 1 by any number of message can identify a causation for an action that doesn't preclude the possibilities did that 1 still has causes yet to find. Reminds me of the commercials "it's a secret the bankers in the fat cats on Wall Street don't want you to know." Here's a clue spend less than you earn invest the rest... Similarly he should invest some of the time he spends whipping out his er...intelligence browsing a public library or a used book store. That list of books that you were forced to read in college that filled your head with such smart ideas actually aren't the only books on the planet believe it or not.

Since you don't probably know where your local library or used bookstores are why don't you go to the interweb to Wikipedia and look up voyeur and exhibitionist. The two need not coexist in the same body. As an example, although I'm quite comfortable with my body I neither feel the necessary need to show my dick to random women nor do I feel the need to grab a picture of some hot gay guy of the web to use my avatar... this makes me not an exhibitionist... not that there's anything wrong with being an exhibitionist (I own several trench coats these days just in case I become more open minded on the subject) at the age of about 12 or 13 I tried a little bit of an exhibitionist it and it went very badly. So now I stick to voyeuristic pursuits.

Wtf have I missed!?

BRB making a cuppa to drink while I catch up on dramaz.

And in other more interesting developments....

Where the hell have you been? I could go for a cuppa YOU.

Remember if our British Invasion of hot chicks stop posting explicit pictures, the terrorists win.

So grab grab a camera n scoot back over to your own thread for some long overdue objectification.

 

[k_m_d_]

Yeah. If only they were even huger so I couldn't miss them. /sigh.

I could rescale them to be even larger, but then they might be blurry.

 

[Adre]

You've already made this unreadable on my iPad. Thanks

 

[ViolentSkye]

I don’t really want to get involved in an argument, because I do love you Miss C, but I do feel more than a little sorry for Nirvision in all of this.

Was there really any need to name and shame? I know you didn’t “technically” name him, but anyone who has been on Lit more than five minutes could have worked it out. You have a big following on here and I think it is unfair to turn all of those people against him when he has, effectively, done nothing wrong.

I don’t think that, on a place like Lit, any of us should be surprised when other people send messages that would be considered inappropriate. Before I had even started posting, I had messages asking if I wanted to cyber. This is before anyone knows my age, sex or physical appearance. So, when we post explicit pictures of ourselves, those PM’s are naturally going to multiply and probably become a whole lot more inappropriate.

I don’t see anything wrong in Nirvision wanting to send you pictures of him masturbating over your pictures. It might not be your cup of tea, which is fine, but a lot of people would be into it and there was no way he could know that you would be so against it. To be honest, I would just be grateful that he asked as a lot of guys would just have dived straight in. I also don’t think it’s awful that he asked you twice. I know from when I had my thread, I got tonnes of PM’s. So many that I had to stop reading them because by the time I got round to them, they were 2 weeks out of date. So, rather than it being a case of him being overly keen, maybe he was just trying to make sure he got noticed. You’re a beautiful girl and I’m sure he knew you would have a lot of people sending you messages.

Anywayyyy. I don’t know what the point of my post is. I just felt a little sorry for him really.

Although, I don't get the psycho comment. At all. :/

 

[Que]

I don’t really want to get involved in an argument, because I do love you Miss C, but I do feel more than a little sorry for Nirvision in all of this.

Was there really any need to name and shame? I know you didn’t “technically” name him, but anyone who has been on Lit more than five minutes could have worked it out. You have a big following on here and I think it is unfair to turn all of those people against him when he has, effectively, done nothing wrong.

I don’t think that, on a place like Lit, any of us should be surprised when other people send messages that would be considered inappropriate. Before I had even started posting, I had messages asking if I wanted to cyber. This is before anyone knows my age, sex or physical appearance. So, when we post explicit pictures of ourselves, those PM’s are naturally going to multiply and probably become a whole lot more inappropriate.

I don’t see anything wrong in Nirvision wanting to send you pictures of him masturbating over your pictures. It might not be your cup of tea, which is fine, but a lot of people would be into it and there was no way he could know that you would be so against it. To be honest, I would just be grateful that he asked as a lot of guys would just have dived straight in. I also don’t think it’s awful that he asked you twice. I know from when I had my thread, I got tonnes of PM’s. So many that I had to stop reading them because by the time I got round to them, they were 2 weeks out of date. So, rather than it being a case of him being overly keen, maybe he was just trying to make sure he got noticed. You’re a beautiful girl and I’m sure he knew you would have a lot of people sending you messages.

Anywayyyy. I don’t know what the point of my post is. I just felt a little sorry for him really.

Although, I don't get the psycho comment. At all. :/

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I didn't follow it from the beginning but my read of her distaste for him as a person was neither his interest in exhibition ISM his kind offer or his persistence thereof.... rather it was his lashing out when she finally had to rebuff him.

Reading between the lines are in both his posts in hers I would agree that her rebuff was probably more strongly worded or more directive than it needed to be, but it was not at that time done in anyway publicly.

When she went semi-public she was speaking in general terms about him and yes I think if anyone that cared (and no one did then or now) you could have figured out who it was.... but I think her point was him revealing his true colors when he was rejected, and her rightful concern walnut outing him personally to explain that there are girls who really don't have as secure an ego as her who would be subjected to those same diatribes.

my guess is he's pleasant possibly even a little obsequeous up to and until he is quite sure that you are not interested, then he unleashed the full vitreal of his misogyny. Hey I can be a bit misogynistic myself being born male in the last 1/2 century ...its at times a bit trying.... but I recognize the when my life sux in regard to women it's due tomy own ineptness.

My personal objection to him isn't his original offense (which I agree is just standard maie erection fueled fantasy my original response to her semi anonymous objection to him was sort of boys will be boys as you more or less sad) or his purported lashing out at her at her rejection...

My objection was the things that he wrote that I am responding directly to. Those comments and his cowardly use of an alt were dumb, misogynistic and I felt personally insulting as a fan of this thread. When I was responding to the alt neither knowing that the alt was in fact nerve-issue ( haha I love the neverending choices that autocorrect gifts for him) or that nervous -when (giggle, again!) was the person we were even talking about..

Basically he says that she's got some fans that are a little over the top with praise.. he honestly thinks that back when he was praising her beauty that she was getting turned on by that I would have lumped him in from way back as atypical beta orbiter. A lot of girls do appreciate having kind of a court follower who compliments them all the time..

I was one of those at one time... at some point in some unrelated reading I came across a really great article about how being the nice guy is actually one of the rudest things you can do to a girl. You put her in the awkward position of having to wait until you finally grow a set of balls and approach her knowing all along that she's going to have to go through that awkward phase. The sense of dread is just not fun but guys like him do it and they think they're doing the girl huge favor... this is a stalker behavior. Note though she never referred to the person in her story who is on identified as a stalker but she did talk about how their tends to build in some men a sense of entitlement well you showed me this therefore I am due that.

 

[Que]

Oh, and sorry con-nubile one for my extremely long winded add-fueled contribution to the thread Jack which is now ended in total.


Kinda late to the fray i realize... I deliberately avoided looking for spot responses encounter responses which would have only for added for further father to my pressured speech need to get it all out.

You wanna know what I'm most f****** pissed off about?

Well I wasted my time and yours with all of the above, I had over a gallon of water on the stove to boil some rotini that I was going to make a lovely Italian sausage and marinara sauce lunch. When I go see my kids I carry my full field kitchen with me... since I'm trying to keep weight down I had a really good aluminum pan which I tend to not like... It is now ruined since I boiled it dry.

It may not stand up in a court of law but the mother f***** owes me a new pan. and a half hour of my a midlife that I'll never get back that I should have spent hitting on somebody's girlfriend who as disinterested as I am in todays football extravaganza.

 

[Que]

I don't think I had a chance to mention that the weather turned a bit warmer lately we did have that cold snap last week..

 

[Que]

In other news I've heard that there is a cold front coming in it's going to collide with warm front probably causing rain which I'm quite excited about because I love sliding in the mud