Once more with feeling.

It wasn't a big deal, but he initiated it, he was the prick, and he was the one who didn't even think 'hey maybe she has a life and that's why she's not getting back to me'.

That's just it - some of the people here really don't have much outside of Lit.

I'm sorry you've had to endure such douche-baggery. But as you've seen, at least you know you're not alone.
 
I don't have much to add to this conversation, but I appreciate you sharing your beautiful and sexy self with us. That includes your mind.

Here's wishing all the asswhipes bothering all the posters of Lit go away.
 
Interesting info about the seedy side of Lit. Hard to believe some act as they do. Your attitude is entertaining and your images are treasures.
 
I threatened you awhile back with a face pic, and i didn't even send it.

is stuff like that ok? :D
 
C, you've dropped some solid observations over the last few pages. It's a shame that certain guys need to pee in the pool for everybody and scare off posters who might otherwise have a good experience here. I've heard the same from some of my other friends.

Now I'm gonna send you a PM just to find out if I'm on ignore. :D
 
Sweet sexy one, well said, and YOU ROCK GIRL.
And wishing you a wonderful relaxing and naughty week-end.
:kiss::rose::rose::rose::rose:
 
Pointedly stated as it should be! Thanks for tolerating those that would choose to treat you like that so that others of us who appreciate all of you from your wit, to your humor, and of course your beauty combined with intelligence can still experience your presence with us.
 
Morning folks, hope everyone has had/is having a good weekend :D.

*Starts replying to comments*
 
As I'm sure is the case with many, I rarely (if ever?) post in this thread. My silence notwithstanding, I always look for new pics when you have them up. You are a true beauty and your pics evoke much more than just a reaction in one's loins.

You also actually post words, be it feelings, random silliness, or whatever. This, I think, is key to getting a more accurate picture of you as a person, which is why I find this site so enticing. I am one of those men you described as preferring this site because the women are "real" here as opposed to someone who gets paid to pose. Adding your bits of personality makes it that much more appealing.

I'm not sure where these guys get this entitlement attitude, but it's complete bullshit. I look at every picture any woman posts on lit as a gift from them to us. For someone to share themselves in the most intimate of ways is something to be cherished, not viewed as an invitation to berate.

It sucks you've had to deal with this, and I hope you are able to find solace in the probability that these guys are ass hats who can't get laid for real with that attitude so they turn to the internet, probably chatting with some 400lb trucker named "sexiihotbitch69." :rolleyes:

I'm going to go back to shutting up and looking at pics now, but I hope you voicing your frustrations is cathartic for you as well as admonishment for the offenders.

Thank you for sharing with us, even through all the BS. There are many of us who truly appreciate it.

Firstly thanks for reading what I said and I'm glad you like my thread,pics,etc :). However you and a couple of the other guys have said you view the things us girls post as gifts and you are grateful for them, I think that some of the problem stems from this sort of attitude as well (not with you with with others). I think maybe this is where some men get their sense of entitlement from...Imagine a lover who was constantly showered with gifts all the time regardless of their behavior, they would probably start acting out because they got rewards anyway (feel free to replace 'lover' with 'dog') and they would start to feel entitled to nice things. Maybe instead of viewing the things we post as 'gifts' you should see them more as works of art in a gallery, you appreciate them,they can benefit and inspire you, but they weren't made for YOU there could have been many reasons why that piece of art was made, but most of the time that reason was for the artist not the viewer. Hope that makes sense, I'm not criticizing what you said btw, just discussing.

Yep...that pretty much describes me perfectly! :cool:
:kiss:

Hahaha! Oh yes, I do know what you're talking about.

I'm trying to figure out this whole thread thing. As you are aware, it can be incredibly overwhelming at times. But I'm happy that you're checking in on me... us Lit girls have to stick together ;)

I think you should just do what makes you happy (of course ;) ) and I'm certain that when we stick together we're a pretty formidable team :cattail:.

This makes me think... maybe you really should stick together. If one of you gets a harassing PM, share it with the other women you talk to. Let them know that there's an asshole out there sending you that stuff so they can preemptively ignore them, too.

The problem is that with a board like this, there are always going to be new people coming on that won't know that other guys are on a bunch of ignore lists because they're misogynist assholes, but maybe if some of you ladies band together, sort of get each other's backs, you can collectively reduce the amount of it that you're all getting. Because you know if someone is going to do it with one of you, he's not going to hesitate to do it with others.

The thing is women not sticking together is like the female version of cock-blocking :(, sometimes it's easier to shut up and stay popular with the thousands of wannabe 'daddies' on here...that being said I might start a thread in the darkroom where all the ampics girls can openly discuss some of the less savory things that get said to us, also it would be funny to share stories :devil:

I'd be mortified if a woman ever found me to be anything but respectful. I'm pretty much myself here, I'm not clever enough to carry off an alter ego.


Don't be silly, you could obviously do a very convincing middleaged housewife from the Midwest :rolleyes:
 
Ever seen King of the Hill? The only episode that sticks out to me is the one where Boomhauer tries to teach Bobby how to pick up chicks. Bobby watches while Boomhauer talks to women, gets slapped in the face time after time, and then finally a girl gives him her number. He just kept plugging away until whatever it was he asked for worked. I guess that's what I lot of people do here.

I guess I'm less worried about being too perverted and more worried about not showing proper respect, if I can say those aren't the same.

Either way, thanks for the reply. Lets me know I'm not crazy :)

Of course I have, I :heart: cartoons everyone knows this. Maybe they do that? Maybe they just wait and see what works. I can guarantee that Boomhauer wouldn't have asked any subsequent girls if the first one had castrated him instead of slapping him.
I'm joking btw :rolleyes:.

^ this might be the most insightful and smart thing I've ever seen you post, and that is saying something.

At the very heart of why "asshole game"* works on women is the idea in a woman's head that yes he's an a****** but he's my a****** and I'm going to make it change him but he's only going to not be an a****** for me.

The fact that you instantly recognize that how a man treats other women is how he eventually at some point is going to treat you is genius.... one of those things that's just so obvious that most people miss it.

Meh I've had a couple of bad relationships (one was a massive narcissist so you can't blame me for getting into a relationship with him before I frealised how bad he was) and I learnt my lesson, plus I'm surrounded by good, kind, strong men, I've been raised by them so I know how a man is meant to behave. I'm also not so insecure about myself that I need affirmation from men that have shunned other women. I don't see a guy being a douche to another woman and think 'she must not have treated him right', I think 'he's a dick and I wouldn't ever give him the opportunity to treat me that way'. Plus I really like nice guys :D.

Oh, I'm very dickish. Dickin teh womenz, that is. :rolleyes:

I'm glad you take the time to talk to all of us and share your thoughts. You seem like an incredible woman and I for one enjoy the art of conversation.

Ahhh flattery, you are going to get along just fine in this thread feel free to stay as long as you want ;).


You. . .this. . .its fucking lovely.

And as for the PM guy. . .did that run him off? Please god, cause I hate his fucking avatar.

:heart: I don't know, I haven't seen him around but he's on ignore :rolleyes:

That was intended to be a 100% gender neutral! Scouts honor.
I believe you!

Wow. What an amazing picture. You are beautiful. I love your style. I can't put my finger on it but I love it.

Thanks!
 
I suppose there is a benefit to waking up early randomly on a Sunday morning...

Hope you are feeling better. :)
 
You're looking perky today. (The nipples help that look a little:rolleyes:).
 
Did anyone know that I am actually the best girlfriend in the world? Today I'm cooking roast chicken (organic,free range) AND I'm vegetarian.

:rolleyes:
 
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