On line hook-ups

[murlach09]

Does anyone have any experience with hooking up with someone online?
I am thinking about meeting some guy that contacted me from the squirt.org website.
I am a bi-curious male that has had fantasies about male to male sex most of my life.I am tired of waiting I want to make this a reality.

 

[SweetErika]

I have experience, but not for NSA sex purposes. I've heard a lot of success stories though. The important point is to meet in a public place first (even though you're guys) and be very, very careful in terms of personal safety and using protection for EVERYTHING. Good luck!

 

[ExistentialLuv]

Pollyjean and I met on-line. If you have read our thread you know how it has turned out for us. Good Luck but be careful. Meet in a public place with people around.

 

[scheherazade_79]

Mine turned into a 4-year relationship, but be warned - if it's long-distance love it can be quite painful. Guess it depends what you're looking for

 

[deezire1900]

I meet a girl on-line once that was really into Elvis...when I asked her how I would recognize her at the restuarant, she said she would wear be wearing a white button down shirt and she would wait by the bar.

Yep, she had on a white shirt with sequins and the pants to match, i didn't know girls could grown sideburns...oh and her Cadillac was in the parking lot.

True story.

 

[socalsurfer]

I have met about 4 women and about 12 men online. Every single woman I met was a great fuck but had some serious issues. I didn't realize it until I met them in person or after I banged them.

The men were great. Some had issues but mostly they are fun.

 

[Street Mystic]

i've met a few men and women online, and like everyone says, its hit or miss. the problem is that it's easy to be witty and charming and nice in an im, chat room or e-mail, though it can be a lot different in person. the good thing is that you can get down to business online without having to play the "will i get laid or punched if i ask to suck this guy's dick?" game that you would in a chance meeting at a bar, etc. (hey, he shouldn't be in the M4M chat room if he's not cruising for some cock...)

try talking on the phone first to get a sense of who the person you're meeting is and whether you do want to meet them. i used to have one of those pay-per-use cell phones (you can get one for $40-50) that i would use just for that purpose so that if it was a dead-end, i wouldn't have to worry about somebody tracking me down. some really great writers are absolute morons when you talk to them without a keyboard... that and sometimes you may not want your significant other to know that you're stepping out for some steak... "honey, who's bubba and why did he leave a voice mail that your cock is magnificent and his ass can't wait to see it again?"

safety first. meeting in public places is great, but with so many of the hook-ups being solely about sex (especially m4m) use common sense about getting a room or going back to his place if you do connect. damn sure don't get into bondage play until you know him better and feel pretty certain that you won't end up buried in his basement a la john wayne gacy...

 

[Etoile]

By "hooking up" do you mean one-night stands and no strings attached? Or are you referring to a relationship? You've gotten responses for both in this thread, but I'm curious to hear what you're interested in before I tell you what I think, lest I tell you the wrong thing!

Regardless of what you're looking for, though...play safe. Use a condom. Barebacking is the best way to get a disease.

 

[LarzMachine]

I hooked up with a guy from another site one time. We became fuck-buddies for something like 6 months. Loads of fun.

We're still on friendly terms (he found a boyfriend, and I'm not bf material at all), and if they ever get married, they want Me to do the ceremony (I'm an ordained Minister).

 

[LarzMachine]

[rant]I hate when people mis-capitalize words based on dominance or submission. I am a sub, and I use a capital letter for my personal pronouns. Seeing U/us and O/our and all that stuff just drives me up the wall.[/rant]

You too, huh? Nothing gets more annoying than the O/our thing. Capitalizing personal pronouns I can cope with (it pisses people off, especially self-righteous christians and PC drones), but the M/me and O/our deal is just awkward, ugly, and silly.

 

[socalsurfer]

By "hooking up" do you mean one-night stands and no strings attached? Or are you referring to a relationship? You've gotten responses for both in this thread, but I'm curious to hear what you're interested in before I tell you what I think, lest I tell you the wrong thing!

Regardless of what you're looking for, though...play safe. Use a condom. Barebacking is the best way to get a disease.

Most of them have been one nighters. I have only seen 3 of them more than once.