On interracial sex...how do people really feel? Sex only, or relationship potential?

[ardenlowe]

I'm curious, as a woman of asian descent, I wonder if men are more likely to simply indulge in a wildly erotic sexual expereince but not face up to a foreign girl in the morning light for more...Who wants to be a booty call girl only...do men really feel they can do it, and hold it, but not commit to it if they are of a differnt race?

We look just as good in white as those white chicks, and I can damn guarantee our asses don't get as wide!

Also--we still like to get it on well past the time relationships with white women start to slide and they cut you off.

LOL

 

[Speakeasy]

Re: On interracial sex...how do people really feel? Sex only, or relationship potential?

Originally posted by ardenlowe
I'm curious, as a woman of asian descent, I wonder if men are more likely to simply indulge in a wildly erotic sexual expereince but not face up to a foreign girl in the morning light for more...Who wants to be a booty call girl only...do men really feel they can do it, and hold it, but not commit to it if they are of a differnt race?

We look just as good in white as those white chicks, and I can damn guarantee our asses don't get as wide!

Also--we still like to get it on well past the time relationships with white women start to slide and they cut you off.

LOL

I'm about as whitey as they come, but I've had WONDERFUL relationships with Asian and black women and two of my friends are married to black women, one of my female friends is married to a black man, I have a Panamanian friend who is married to a Jewish woman and my daughter is married to a Peurto Rican. My wife is Jewish.

It matters only that you know that people are people. Race, creed, origin are of no consequence. Internal beauty is what matters, and we have to take the time with the person (not the color coded idea of what that person is) to discover love, lust, or whatever we need discover.

Of course, I'm in Los Angeles. We tend to be a bit more open-minded about some things. My sons have both had long term relationships with Asian and Hispanic women. One actually looks like he *might* be willing to commit soon... the other has found a lovely white chick (the first he's dated for any length of time.)

My best friend (a Syrian Jew) tells me my house is the true "Rainbow Coalition."

May everyone have the same wonderful luck as I.

Best,

S

 

[Gamelover221]

Speaking as a fellow Texan, I can say that as time passes I see myself drawn less towards typical white girls and more towards girls with some color. I've developed a huge thing for asian women in the past year or so. The best sexual experience of my life has been with an Asian girl.

I had one roomy in college that actually told me that a guy is really lucky if he can find a good Asian girl. He was sick at one point and he called her over to cheer him up a bit. She came over with some soup and wearing nothing but a raincoat...she really took care of him!

Seriously though...I don't think race has anything to do with willingness to commit. Culture would be a different story, but race...nah.

 

[MacGuffinn]

All are equally relationship potential or just good sex whatever the race, creed, faith (or faithlessness) or color. I have no objection to one or the other.

Mac

 

[God of Threads]

Mac Speaketh Truth

All are equally relationship potential or just good sex whatever the race, creed, faith (or faithlessness) or color. I have no objection to one or the other.

Mac

Well spoken, Mac. Right-on target.



I only draw the line at interspecies stuff. And that's only because of a bad experience in New Zealand but I'd rather not get into that now.

 

[rumandcoke]

Re: On interracial sex...how do people really feel? Sex only, or relationship potential?

I'm curious, as a woman of asian descent, I wonder if men are more likely to simply indulge in a wildly erotic sexual expereince but not face up to a foreign girl in the morning light for more...Who wants to be a booty call girl only...do men really feel they can do it, and hold it, but not commit to it if they are of a differnt race?

We look just as good in white as those white chicks, and I can damn guarantee our asses don't get as wide!

Also--we still like to get it on well past the time relationships with white women start to slide and they cut you off.

LOL

being half white and half black i guess that would make me a huge hipocrit of sorts if i had problems with an interacial relationship. i don't care one way or another what race a woman is if im in a relationship with her

 

[MissIntrigue]

Re: On interracial sex...how do people really feel? Sex only, or relationship potential?

I'm curious, as a woman of asian descent, I wonder if men are more likely to simply indulge in a wildly erotic sexual expereince but not face up to a foreign girl in the morning light for more...Who wants to be a booty call girl only...do men really feel they can do it, and hold it, but not commit to it if they are of a differnt race?

We look just as good in white as those white chicks, and I can damn guarantee our asses don't get as wide!

Also--we still like to get it on well past the time relationships with white women start to slide and they cut you off.

LOL

Darlin we arent all like that so please dont lump us all together... it matters how a woman feels about herself and I bet you have your days too honey. I am 41 years old looking like I am early thirties and not a pound over 130! I will never be fat or heavy it is just how my body happens to be, and that is after childbirth too. All races have their lazy people and people that find comfort in food and some of those poor creatures just simply have to fight their size all their lives too. I have sen some very beautiful big women and men out there.. there are folks who love them too....and they are lovable as well.
Sorry it just felt like you were demeaning some folks.

 

[MissIntrigue]

My first marraige was interracial also. I have heard many people say that one day we will all be brown skinned.....

 

[Derya]

Re: On interracial sex...how do people really feel? Sex only, or relationship potential?

I'm curious, as a woman of asian descent, I wonder if men are more likely to simply indulge in a wildly erotic sexual expereince but not face up to a foreign girl in the morning light for more...Who wants to be a booty call girl only...do men really feel they can do it, and hold it, but not commit to it if they are of a differnt race?

We look just as good in white as those white chicks, and I can damn guarantee our asses don't get as wide!

Also--we still like to get it on well past the time relationships with white women start to slide and they cut you off.

LOL

Sounds like you've met some really shitty men, or had some bad experiences with how men have treated you or friends/family.

I feel a person of just about any or all ethnic or racial groups (that includes male or female, straight, gay, or bi) could feel they are being used for just sexual experiences vs. pursuing trusting relationships if circumstances flow that way, because there are cultural differences, that can enhance sexual interest in some cases as well as myths and/or misconceptions of certain groups' behaviors or abilities etc. and there are those that have fantasies or fetish desires fulfilled by encounters with individuals of a particular ethnic background or race.

The second part of your post conflicts with what it sounded like you started to try to convey. Your post starts by questioning why men wouldn't try to get to know the whole person and just approach an Asian (or person of any particular group) for the sexual encounters, yet your aggressive comments regarding "white women" suggests Asian females excel or are superior in some manner to these females in the sexual arena. It seems it is contradictory to state that Asian females should be appreciated for more than sexual playthings, yet comment that white women aren't sexually attractive or fulfilling over time.

The men (or persons) who use someonelse sexually and are not being upfront about where they are coming from are who needs the criticisms and judgements, not innocent ladies who no more need or would want to be judged or viewed only as a "wide ass" or whatever, than anyone would want to be viewed as a "foreign booty call".

 

[MissIntrigue]

Well said Derya!

 

[Dweezil44]

I've always said that were I to begin a relationship with another woman (i.e., if my wife and I broke up or she died or something), it would be with a Latina or Asian woman. Typically, they are (to me) better looking, more polite, and more family oriented than many caucasians I have met.

D--

 

[cyr0n_k0r]

Asians are the best. so frail.

Although I havent had one yet, only 18.. I am always looking!

 

[FRENCHIE44T]

I had a good relationship with a black woman when I was younger and it was fantastic. Not just the sex, but the passion and lust between us was something else. Also when eating pussy on a black girl, the taste is incredible.