Older-Younger Relationships

[Ford_Racer]

To this day i kick my own butt for loosing a relationship i was involved in about a year ago in March...But would like a few opinions from the lady's

I was 33 and then dating an 18y/o woman, we meet through my work at the time and just clicked sexually, mentally, emotionally after finally gettting into a serious relationship with each other sharing many interests together that we openly discusssed and experiemented with....but it all ended last March due to problems with work and family and injury (see below)aggravations.

What I would like to know is there many younger females that find older men attractive or was this a blessing that I should not again try to again persue with another younger female again.

I know many older guys have this interest in younger females but i am serious...and single..

I will give youa brief description of myself then and now

When we were dating
33..230lbs proir to a major injury at the gym,(tore a trap... musle while getting ready for a competition)...( hello_nurse?? the muscle that runs from the middle of the upper back to the neck to the shoulders) Kept me from going to the gym while healing

sligthly buzzed balding brown hair blue eyes 6'1"

Now 212 getting it back but much leaner 34..still buzzed brown hair blue eyes.

Looking forward to a few opinins from the ladys..

Thanks in advance!

 

[BareMandy]

What the hack Racer, GO FOR IT ! it´s a pity your so far away, otherwise i´ld be more than happy meeting you, I´m almost 20 and in fact I prefer my lovers to be older than me !
And believe me, I´m not the only girl feeling this way, so.........

 

[Greg Lee Hunt]

When I turned twenty-one, I had a short but very torrid affair with a lady who was about to turn fifty. Hot dam..I wasn't a virgin, but she taught me so much more about sex than anyone before or since.

 

[Endlessly]

As a rule, I don't date anyone my age or younger. Period. I don't think I've ever even been attracted to a guy my age or younger in my life. Himself is 20, and I'm 18-- And he's younger than I usually like. Go for it, she definitely wasn't the only one who appreciates older men. I'd say my favorite are mid-20s to late 30's.

 

[Dawn]

I've always loved men that were older than me. My first one was eleven years ago when he was 40 and I was 24. After a huge mistake on my part....we parted company. I then married my husband who is 13 years older than me.

However

I have recently been back in contact with my first love (yeah for us) and all the feelings are still there.

So to answer your question....yes, we are out there, lovin' those older men.

Good Luck Racer (what do u race if I may ask?)

 

[Eve_of_destruction]

I'm just curious, but why would problems with work, family, and the injury you spoke of have caused your relationship with this woman to end? Age shouldn't really matter - if two people click, then they click, and problems OUTSIDE of that relationship will usually cause the two people WITHIN that relationship to draw together and become closer... this has been my experience, anyhow, in matters of the heart. But good luck, ford racer... if it is meant to be, then, sooner or later, the two of you will hook up again.

And Greg... will there be a story any time soon about the "older woman" you mention???
Just curious...

Peace,
Eve

 

[Ford_Racer]

To answer your question Dawn:

1994 Mustang, 302 bored and stroked to 374.
dual stage NOS, balanced, blue printed, tubbed, 4link suspension, etc etc etc....BIG Money pit there...but no other feeling like it....(sometimes sex can not give you a rush like covering a 1/4 mile in 8.96sec's at 145mph

Eve: things that caused the realtionship to end is a long drawn out story.....with those factors included.....

 

[Lil' Debbie]

I love older men, and always have because they know how to treat a woman. I'm 29, and my current boyfriend is 58, and let me tell you that it's the best cock I've ever had. If he and I ever break, up, I would definetly turn to another older man.

 

[Gary1]

Lil'Deb and Dawn ... thanks for the words ... it is encouraging that younger ladies appreciate older men that are more mature, dependable, and have so much to offer. We may not be buff physically, but mentally and in so many other ways ... we really do try to demonstrate our appreciation of our ladies.

 

[Whispersecret]

Ford Racer, I think you're focusing too much on age. I agree with Nurse. Look at the woman, not how old she is. If you meet a woman that you click with, go for it. If she has a problem with your age, screw her--I mean, leave her.

However, hypocritically I do think that there is a limit to how many years constitute an acceptable age difference. Like, didn't Tony Randall (80 something) marry some young chick in her twenties? Personally, I think that's kind of sick.

If I were out on the single scene, I would be looking for a more mature man.

 

[Guest]

Originally posted by gary1:
... it is encouraging that younger ladies appreciate older men that are more mature, dependable, and have so much to offer. We may not be buff physically, but mentally and in so many other ways ... we really do try to demonstrate our appreciation of our ladies.

Gary, you know I luv ya!!

You're my Dirty Old Man!!!

 

[GuyJD]

A long time ago, when I was 25 I was dating a 16 year old. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So it's against the law in most states. So how did I get away with it. I stand 5'10 and she stood 6'3. When I first met her, I could swear that she was about 21. By the time I learned of her real age, we had both grown feelings for each other.

 

[wolfie69]

OK so where are all these younger women????? lol Hi EVE>>>> I miss you baby!!!!

 

[Iris]

I love older men. I agree w/Endlessly on this one, very few times have I ever wanted someone my own age or close to, and never younger.

My lover is 15 years older than me, and no I won't say how old I am, you all will just have to guess. To me, he's beautiful. Silverish grey hair, aqua eyes...mmmmm...there's just something about him.

When I was 19 I dated a 36 year old. One of the best relationships I've ever had. We'd still be together except he moved, and the long distance thing just hurt too much.

 

[stud 3;16]

i only date older women.

im 23 years old. and the woman that im going out with now is 38 years old.

 

[brazenblaze]

I agree with all the ladies here, I have always preferred older men. During my dating years I rarely dated anyone less than 10 years older than me.

How I ended up with my hubby, who is two years younger, is still a mystery.

Guess,it had to be Love.

 

[DarlingBri]

I think it depends on how young the younger party is. In your teens and early twenties, being with someone "older" than you can create some lifestyle tensions. The older you both get the more those tensions lessen.

In my relationship, my partner is 11 years older than I am. Its not much of a difference at our age... I'm almost 30, he's almost 40. He has this annoying habit of getting better looking every year, which is lovely. Unfortunately, I am *not* getting better looking each year, but never mind.

I think any age issue is only really important depending on how serious the relationship is. In this case, I'm going to grow old and die with this man, so I worry about it. I worry he'll die young, or die first. I worry about how I would cope with life without him, and don't know how I would. I worry about having kids, and leaving it late: if we have children when I'm 35 or 40, he'll be playing footie in the back yard with a 10 year old at 55 or 60. I don't know if its fair for him to head into retirement with young kids. I worry about lots of things, but none of it overshadows the way I feel about my partner.

Most of you sound like you're in your early 20s and not settling down with these people, so first and foremost: you should be with the person who makes you happy. No matter what.

[Edited by DarlingBri on 04-07-2001 at 01:20 PM]

 

[lavender]

 

[Chaton]

When I met jas.~~

I was almost 18. He was going on 24.

 

[christo]

Older women...sigh...

I've two brief flings with older women. One was a friend I worked with who was a 40-year old widow and she was kind and sweet and it was a wonderful experience (I was 20). The other was with a woman who was sharp and manipulative and she used sex as a (very effective) weapon to keep me in line and turned out to be married to boot. Left scars that will last till they put me in the ground. Most of my stories focus on older women and younger men, and I think those two relationships are a big reason for that. They didn't last long, they weren't all wine and roses, but they were INTENSE.

I mostly date girls my age now, not that I wouldn't go out with an older woman I liked a lot. But that's my biggest criterion now--do I LIKE her? That second older woman was a real nasty piece of work. but when you're young and getting sex you'll overlook a lot of faults. Now that I have a few more years under my belt I'm trying to listen to my mind and my heart a bit more than I used to.

 

[prettytits]

I like younger men! At 45, but looking much younger, I find most men in my age group to be worn out, washed up, and dull. I think for me an ideal age range is 37-42, but each individual case must be given special consideration.

I recently found one really great "younger man," but i think he's afraid of me (smart guy). I think my libido frightens him. He does make valiant attempts to combat his fears...and succeeds in giving me endless pleasure. But will we ever meet? I think not.

While I don't mind the 20-something women taking away all the washed-up 40-something men (have fun, y'all), I DO mind it if they're the ones who have snagged all the still-frisky 40-something men! Maybe that's why there aren't any good'uns around....they're all driving around in red convertible Miatas with nymphettes...

What are we 40-something women supposed to do? I am always hornier than a 3-peckered billygoat, with no relief (except "B.O.B.") in sight...

By the way, it seems that society fairly readily accepts the young woman-older man thing (since making babies is still a viable option for them) but the older woman - young man is fairly taboo, at least here in the place where the Civil War is still a daily topic of conversation...

Suggestions?

 

[Myrrdin]

~Looks in his animal encyclopedia, for a three peckered billy goat. Looks like it could be the source of naturally obtained viagra.

I've always fancied being a toyboy.

 

[prettytits]

Hehehe...toyboy, Myrrdin? Hmmm...maybe you'll be under my Xmas tree with nothing but a leather cock harness on?

BOB better start taking flying lessons...

 

[Skibum]

The woman Ilove is slightly older than I am, but not so much that it would be noticed by anyone seeing us toether. If you eove someone, age is not a problem. You love the person they are, not their age, hair color, shape, or any other physical attribute.

 

[Problem Child]

This sounds more like a thinly veiled personal ad than a serious question.