Older Women with a Thing for Younger Men?

[penandpenis]

I’ve met a few older women who like their toyboys but this dynamic appears to be far less popular online judging by the much greater popularity of younger women’s love for older men.
I’m wondering if the few women I’ve met who are into younger guys are an oddity. Younger women seem to love older men but does that dynamic change for some as the years go by?
What do you have to say, Literoticers? Are there any women out there who love their younger men?

 

[traill]

Young men tend to pester women online, especially women that may fill their fetish. Hence, a lot of women looking for XYZ will not openly post about said interest to not get pestered. But yes obviously they exist as I've met several both on here and in real life in general. It's just a preference like any other, or sometimes it just randomly happens that way. I have personally often dated women older than myself, but many people in my group of friends were always older than me, hence it feels normal and not a "fetish".

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife was the older woman when she was 40 and younger men kept pestering her for sex. She had sex with younger men in their 20's on three different occasions and found it to be disappointing. The guys loved it, but their inexperience made it less enjoyable for her.

 

[Hipshot1554]

Wife is 62 now. She prefers men her own age on down to the low 40s. Basically she wants to avoid guys who haven't yet figured out that there's more to sex than how long/hard you can pound away like a jackhammer. Other than that, it's more about whether the guy is nice and likable than his age.

Mature women know what they want, and that's a huge plus!

 

[BoredAsianWifey]

Once I got into my 40s. A lot of the guys I been seeing has been younger.

I am with a guy half my age right now. Some younger guys might be inexperience, but they always seem to be ready for round 2, 3, etc.

 

[penandpenis]

Interesting responses. Thanks, everyone who replied. I’d gathered that there wouldn’t be as much of an older women-younger men dynamic online owing to the reasons some of you gave above. Still it’s been interesting when I’ve come across it in real life.

 

[penandpenis]

Once I got into my 40s. A lot of the guys I been seeing has been younger.

I am with a guy half my age right now. Some younger guys might be inexperience, but they always seem to be ready for round 2, 3, etc.

It all depends on the person and what your after would you say?

 

[pace_purr]

My wife loved younger guys they had more stamina than older ones

 

[amber1312]

Prefer older men they know how to please its quality not quantity for me.

 

[sohorny469]

Wife of 46 years is 12 years older than ne

 

[Justme216918]

Younger men can only do one thing for me - move my furniture. Sexually they are a huge turnoff for me. I'm 48, and when I was looking for a match on a couple of dating apps over the last couple of years I had guys as young as 19 pleading with me to just "give a younger guy a chance! I LOVE older women!!!" even though I always clear about my parameters. These guys typically match none of them. I like men who are maybe a year or two younger than me (MAYBE!) and up. I never wanted to be a mom and I don't want to date, screw or mess around with someone who would make me feel like one. Even when I was in my 20s I had no time for younger guys. I have zero interest in them beyond the eye candy factor.

Perfect!! I'm 47!

 

[Older_Pervert]

Prefer older men they know how to please its quality not quantity for me.

Thank you amber!

 

[Uncut1969]

Being in my 50 would love to be with a 70 year old would be hot

 

[K0fcali]

Younger men can only do one thing for me - move my furniture. Sexually they are a huge turnoff for me. I'm 48, and when I was looking for a match on a couple of dating apps over the last couple of years I had guys as young as 19 pleading with me to just "give a younger guy a chance! I LOVE older women!!!" even though I always clear about my parameters. These guys typically match none of them. I like men who are maybe a year or two younger than me (MAYBE!) and up. I never wanted to be a mom and I don't want to date, screw or mess around with someone who would make me feel like one. Even when I was in my 20s I had no time for younger guys. I have zero interest in them beyond the eye candy factor.

A woman who knows what she wants. I respect that. May i kiss your feet and suck your toes at least??

 

[Hipshot1554]

Once I got into my 40s. A lot of the guys I been seeing has been younger.

I am with a guy half my age right now. Some younger guys might be inexperience, but they always seem to be ready for round 2, 3, etc.

The inexperience doesn't last...

 

[luckyseven]

When my wife was in her forties, she worked in an environment where it was not uncommon for employees to have sex with co-workers. They worked hard and played hard, and there were many opportunities to have unconditional sex.

I was often away at work for long spells, so she had the opportunity and took it.

We enjoyed our sex life, but I later discovered she wanted to explore her sexuality further as she had a capacity for sex that needed to be satisfied.

She is beautiful, with an outgoing personality, and dresses smartly, so she has no trouble attracting prospective lovers.

She had sex with younger men in their twenties on several occasions but found it disappointing. The guys loved it, but their inexperience made it less enjoyable for her. When she just wanted to be fucked, they were always ready to go again. However, despite their inexperience and shortcomings, they served their purpose.

 

[the_single_gal_unconfidential]

I discovered those fountains of youths when I basically gave up on my true love search.
or rediscovered, learned to appreciate etc.
what is sex enjoyment to me - a hard cock. and that they deliver with exuberance unleashed.
and I just enjoy their company, fun lite chat etc.
I don't need anything from them, like a gf - just basic fun.

 

[petes478]

When my wife was in her forties, she worked in an environment where it was not uncommon for employees to have sex with co-workers. They worked hard and played hard, and there were many opportunities to have unconditional sex.

I was often away at work for long spells, so she had the opportunity and took it.

We enjoyed our sex life, but I later discovered she wanted to explore her sexuality further as she had a capacity for sex that needed to be satisfied.

She is beautiful, with an outgoing personality, and dresses smartly, so she has no trouble attracting prospective lovers.

She had sex with younger men in their twenties on several occasions but found it disappointing. The guys loved it, but their inexperience made it less enjoyable for her. When she just wanted to be fucked, they were always ready to go again. However, despite their inexperience and shortcomings, they served their purpose.

I think I worked at the same place. When I was in my twenties I worked with several older women in their 40’s, 50’s, and 60’s. It was common there for young men to work intensely with an older woman and lines were crossed regularly. It did not seem unusual to be fucking a co worker. Something draws people together when they have faced challenges, fought to overcome them. It’s a very sexy feeling.

 

[Vitriolhack]

When my wife was in her forties, she worked in an environment where it was not uncommon for employees to have sex with co-workers. They worked hard and played hard, and there were many opportunities to have unconditional sex.

I was often away at work for long spells, so she had the opportunity and took it.

We enjoyed our sex life, but I later discovered she wanted to explore her sexuality further as she had a capacity for sex that needed to be satisfied.

She is beautiful, with an outgoing personality, and dresses smartly, so she has no trouble attracting prospective lovers.

She had sex with younger men in their twenties on several occasions but found it disappointing. The guys loved it, but their inexperience made it less enjoyable for her. When she just wanted to be fucked, they were always ready to go again. However, despite their inexperience and shortcomings, they served their purpose.

That’s very interesting.

When you later discovered that she was exploring her sex life, how did that make you feel?

Answer only if you want to share; loved your comment.

 

[chandler22]

I would love an older woman to talk with.. 25 here

 

[Scareltt]

I discovered those fountains of youths when I basically gave up on my true love search.
or rediscovered, learned to appreciate etc.
what is sex enjoyment to me - a hard cock. and that they deliver with exuberance unleashed.
and I just enjoy their company, fun lite chat etc.
I don't need anything from them, like a gf - just basic fun.

I agree with you! Younger lovers always make me feel energized. I feel like a vampire draining their energy.

It’s also like a sexual mentorship. It’s important to guide them!

 

[gbhl44]

my wife is 60YO. a few years back, i discovered that she had cheated with me with 2 guys from our catholic parish -- an older priest and a much younger stay-at-home husband who is in her bible study group.

i also suspect ... but have not been able to pove ... that she has slept with our son's 28YO best friend.

i get that. i was 16YO when my best friend's mom slept with me.

 

[Vitriolhack]

I agree with you! Younger lovers always make me feel energized. I feel like a vampire draining their energy.

It’s also like a sexual mentorship. It’s important to guide them!

teaching is a very honorable profession!

 

[Islander55]

Not sure I have a thing for younger men but I do seem to bed mostly younger men. Of course since I am 64, my concept of a younger man is about 50. If the vibes are right, I think I would be fine with sex with a man of any age but it seems like men in their 50's is mostly what I run into.

 

[petes478]

I agree with you! Younger lovers always make me feel energized. I feel like a vampire draining their energy.

It’s also like a sexual mentorship. It’s important to guide them!

I was the younger man. I had a sexual encounter with a married white woman. I was 18. She was 37. She mentored me In sex. We were fucking sucking licking every moment. She was so hot for me it turned me on so strong. What I thought was going to be a onetime fuck turned Into a long term secret sexual affair.