Older Men

[Milo9012]

If I pick up a vibe, I look further and not worry about getting caught looking -- probably like everybody

Same here, but my heart is pounding wildly while doing it hoping for his mutual interest.

 

[Bi4Older84]

I'm almost exclusively attracted to older men-my two regular buddies are 58 and 61, respectively. The only time I've ever played with a guy who was near my age was in an MMF with him and his wife. Otherwise, it's only ever been older guys.

 

[Milo9012]

It also explains why the old men were trying to chat me up, way back in the day. Now I'm that old "perv".

Don't know if it's a quirk, flaw, or plain ol' mistake of nature, but I'm an old guy still tremendously turned on by older guys.

 

[vandelayatx]

Don't know if it's a quirk, flaw, or plain ol' mistake of nature, but I'm an old guy still tremendously turned on by older guys.

Same

 

[tall758]

Was raised and trained to pleasure men 20 to 30 years older than me. Today, I’m in my 60’s and find that I still like to get on my knees and service guys who are at least 50 and up to the 70’s if they still like to be touched and sucked!

 

[MaturemanAJ]

Was raised and trained to pleasure men 20 to 30 years older than me. Today, I’m in my 60’s and find that I still like to get on my knees and service guys who are at least 50 and up to the 70’s if they still like to be touched and sucked!

Do you eye them up as you go about your day in public? Thinking man I want to suck his cock

 

[klippert]

I'm Bi married 56 (soon to be 57) my buddy's marries as well he's 54.... no games just enjoy each others bodies..

 

[tall758]

Do you eye them up as you go about your day in public? Thinking man I want to suck his cock

I have always found it easy to start a conversation with a stranger (so to speak). I’ll often start talking to them about something and if, by chance, it seems that he may even be remotely interested in playing, I’ve learned how to move the conversation in that direction without being too obvious. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t, but it always surprises me how many old guys are out there secretly desiring to have their cocks sucked!

Believe it or not, the three best places to “troll” for this are the grocery store, fast food joints, and golf courses. I’ve known this since I was in my 20’s and in 40 years of finding and sucking older cocks, all three have been regular sources of what I need…

 

[MaturemanAJ]

I have always found it easy to start a conversation with a stranger (so to speak). I’ll often start talking to them about something and if, by chance, it seems that he may even be remotely interested in playing, I’ve learned how to move the conversation in that direction without being too obvious. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t, but it always surprises me how many old guys are out there secretly desiring to have their cocks sucked!

I have thought about putting my phone number on a business card to hand out when I think there is interest

 

[tall758]

I have thought about putting my phone number on a business card to hand out when I think there is interest

Haven’t tried this. What I have found, though, is that if I come across someone in a fast food spot eating alone, that same person is usually there as a “regular” (especially if older). If we don’t spark up a conversation the first time, I’ll try the second or third. Usually, the person, who is also seeing a “familiar face” for the second or third time is more inclined to at least engage in small talk. If there is someone that I am especially attracted to, I’ll take my time and work on building rapport before going straight for the crotch, heh heh. This has worked often enough through the years that I’ve never stopped “looking” when I go to these places.

 

[MaturemanAJ]

Haven’t tried this. What I have found, though, is that if I come across someone in a fast food spot eating alone, that same person is usually there as a “regular” (especially if older). If we don’t spark up a conversation the first time, I’ll try the second or third. Usually, the person, who is also seeing a “familiar face” for the second or third time is more inclined to at least engage in small talk. If there is someone that I am especially attracted to, I’ll take my time and work on building rapport before going straight for the crotch, heh heh. This has worked often enough through the years that I’ve never stopped “looking” when I go to these places.

My problem is I am not a shopper in other words places I go it's a focused get in and get out. I need to learn to skow down.

 

[tall758]

My problem is I am not a shopper in other words places I go it's a focused get in and get out. I need to learn to skow down.

I’m not either, but when in the mood, i will slow down and say good morning to someone who is alone. Simple, but effective!

 

[MaturemanAJ]

I’m not either, but when in the mood, i will slow down and say good morning to someone who is alone. Simple, but effective!

It is surprising when I do that how many guys make eye contact and smile.
I just don't know how to make the next step.

 

[phil1955]

I'm Bi married 56 (soon to be 57) my buddy's marries as well he's 54.... no games just enjoy each others bodies..

That is the way to do it. Even if the wife is still putting out, you can always use a little more and the no nonsense approach makes it even more enjoyable. Find the right place and just get down to business on his cock or he on yours.

 

[phil1955]

I have thought about putting my phone number on a business card to hand out when I think there is interest

I would not unless you have a burner phone. An email address might be a better option.

 

[Mike198042]

I’m not either, but when in the mood, i will slow down and say good morning to someone who is alone. Simple, but effective!

I need to go shopping more often...

 

[wifes_fag]

When I had just turned 18 I got broke in by a guy about 40. He was single and gave me a ride home one night and flirted with me. We had been swimming and I had on some short cutoffs. He had his hand on my leg, Never had a guy do that to me. I had sucked a few guys in school and liked doing it so I didn't do anything. He started feeling me up. I knew where this was going then. It felt good. He was running a finger up shorts leg. I was getting so hard. He rubbed my cock and said wow you are hard you like that huh. I said yeah. he told me to take his out. It was rock hard. He told me to take all my clothes off. then he pulled my head down to his cock and told me to suck it. He got stopped on a country road somewhere and I went to town on him. He said he was about to cum. I was so horny I wanted every drop of it and put all I could of it in my mouth. He shot what seemed like a cup load of cum. I drank it all down. He said good boy. He turned me over and laid me back on top of him and pinched my nipples real hard. Then he reached down and jacked me off all over myself. he raked up some of it and fed it to me. First time I had tasted my own cum. But I was so horny I didn't care. he took me on home and wrote his number down on a piece of paper and told me to call him I wanted more. i told him I would. he lived 2 towns over about 30 miles away. I started seeing him about every Sunday. He took me in his bedroom and fucked me and told me I was his girl. I liked the sound of that. It played on my mind and I wanted to be his girl. He had me wearing girls shorts and tee tops. I was smooth and had girlish legs. i was young cute and fairly long hair. He took me to a Walmart salon and had my ears pierced. Kind of a spur of the moment deal. I was wondering what the woman was thinking. I was embarrassed sitting there in those shorts and my smooth legs shining. She said just relax it's all right. She put studs in and told me how to take care of them and said they looked great on me. Jinks had a another set of ear rings I didn't see what they was but after he paid the woman he showed them to me. They were short dangly girls ear rings. I felt so humiliated as we walked out. He was my daddy for a few years and didn't mind showing me off. It was a turn on though.

 

[Britva415]

It is surprising when I do that how many guys make eye contact and smile.
I just don't know how to make the next step.

Sometimes you just need to keep looking and smiling, and they will make the next step.

But if you want a better success rate than that, and you want to do something proactive to move things along, look at either his crotch or his mouth, depending on what you want.

If you want to suck, look at his crotch and make sure he sees you doing it. Lick your lips when you see that he's watching what you're doing.

If you want to get sucked, look at his mouth, then back to his eyes. See if he licks his lips. See if he looks at your crotch. Touch your crotch and draw his attention to it.

This should be enough to know that you both want it. Once you know, one or the other of you can say something. "Want to find a place to go?" Have a place in mind. Your car? The bathroom? A motel?