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ForeverHisAngel
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Raidho
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Tequila Sunrise said:It is wonderful to be appreciated. The posts I've read on this thread remind me that there are still sensible people in the world. As I look back on my own life, I'm dumbfounded by my ignorance. It took me years to understand the beauty of this world. I am not old; I am mid 40's, but it isn't until recently that I began to appreciate the people and things around me. Hell, I can even remember taking sex for granted. What a fool! A woman willing to share herself with me in the most intimate way possible, and I didn't appreciate it. Yes, ladies. Give us more mature fellas a chance. As Toby Keith said, "I ain't as good as I once was, but I'm as good once as I ever was."
TS
Ain't that the truth?
I'm in my early thirties, and I feel like I just woke up from some almost three-decade long sleep.
I appreciate things now in a way I didn't before. Seeing the things that have always been there with new eyes.
I look for certain qualities -- age, really, is irrelevant. It's just that those particular qualities don't seem to exist in men my age or younger. And not to pick on you, TS, because I thought your post was lovely, but I think what you've experienced is the crux of it : Men and women are "maturing" later in life. It takes a while to form a true appreciation for people, and not just in that "Oh, I'm appreciative of sex" sort of way, but true appreciation : understanding how past mistakes helped form the person who stands before you today. Appreciation for who they are, what they do, how they live their life.
Isn't that the most basic of human needs beyond food and shelter? To be appreciated?
And I've gone off on a tangent.
My point is this : Gotta love the older lads. They're the whole kit and kaboodle.
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Raidho said:Ain't that the truth?
I'm in my early thirties, and I feel like I just woke up from some almost three-decade long sleep.
I appreciate things now in a way I didn't before. Seeing the things that have always been there with new eyes.
I look for certain qualities -- age, really, is irrelevant. It's just that those particular qualities don't seem to exist in men my age or younger. And not to pick on you, TS, because I thought your post was lovely, but I think what you've experienced is the crux of it : Men and women are "maturing" later in life. It takes a while to form a true appreciation for people, and not just in that "Oh, I'm appreciative of sex" sort of way, but true appreciation : understanding how past mistakes helped form the person who stands before you today. Appreciation for who they are, what they do, how they live their life.
Isn't that the most basic of human needs beyond food and shelter? To be appreciated?
And I've gone off on a tangent.
My point is this : Gotta love the older lads. They're the whole kit and kaboodle.
ForeverHisAngel
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Goodmorning
Good morning, everyone. I adore my older man. He treats me like I'm a treasure. You just don't find that in guys today. Even ones my age. And of course, I treat him equally well. We appreciate each other.
TS, that was a lovely post. It's a lot of the way I feel, too. I see so much more beauty now. Really helps with my photography, too.
TS, that was a lovely post. It's a lot of the way I feel, too. I see so much more beauty now. Really helps with my photography, too.
LustfulOne50
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Good morning to all the sexy and wonderful young ladys who adore older men and those who don't have a good day too.
who adore older men and those who don't have a good day too.CADreaming
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*raising my hand* Yes, please! I've always been attracted to older men, and any older guys in Southern California looking to make it a reality for me, let me know! There's just something about the "lessons learned" kind of guy, who's experienced (well, sexually experienced, but also just life-experienced ) and mature... *sigh*
) and mature... *sigh*
koalabear
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CADreaming said:*raising my hand* Yes, please! I've always been attracted to older men, and any older guys in Southern California looking to make it a reality for me, let me know! There's just something about the "lessons learned" kind of guy, who's experienced (well, sexually experienced, but also just life-experienced
Welcome to the thread......
fyrfyter_1961
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Foof76 said:
After reading the posts by both Foof and Raidho I have to say that i'm very impressed. Both of you ladies have really thought things out and any man whether older or younger would be glad to be with you. I've always been concerned about the maturity of a younger woman, but you have both changed my mind.
to you.CADreaming
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Thanks! I lurked about for awhile, but I'm glad I posted!koalabear said:Welcome to the thread......
Raidho
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fyrfyter_1961 said:After reading the posts by both Foof and Raidho I have to say that i'm very impressed. Both of you ladies have really thought things out and any man whether older or younger would be glad to be with you. I've always been concerned about the maturity of a younger woman, but you have both changed my mind.
I won't lie, with my last partner, I've definitely become extremely prejudiced toward older men. They rock my socks.
But I think the point is (maybe I have a point, it may be around here somewhere) I'm not inclined to blow anyone off anymore just because they don't fit into my pre-conceived notion of what I want in terms of physical characteristics or age preferences.
True, meaningful connections are far too rare for me to be that foolish.
