older men

[tn_greeneyez]

Older men are wise (usually) and experienced beyond younger. What some might lack in youthful experience, is more than covered by their knowledge of women and how to play a woman's body like a fine guitar, plucking each string perfectly........creates wonderful tonal harmony........in my opinion.

 

[Shoshisexy]

Which is why my boyfriend has 11 years on me...although when I have my birthday that will only be 10. *LOL*

Having gone through the years of dating guys that couldn't find their way out of a paper bag with a flashlight when it came to a woman's body...and dating the guys that thought they were so great they didn't have to -concern- themselves with their partner's satisfaction...I have learned that an older man is WELL worth it.

 

[big salami]

I still have that daddy fantasy of mine

I have had 2 "daughters" how old are you in your fantasy?

 

[Mary Hall]

how old are you in your fantasy?

18 of course

 

[big salami]

18 of course

MMMM, 18 huh, quite an old girl huh? my other daughters have been 9 and 11 and stayed there for quite a few years too!! lol

You are quite the grown up young lady and I wonder if you are still looking for a real daddy or, maybe even a nice "uncle?"
I would be a lovely daddy or uncle even to any little girl who contacted me and told me a little about herself!

I seem to remember you live somewhere in the South or South East, is that right?

 

[Mary Hall]

I have a fantasy where my ''daddy'' licks my anus

 

[big salami]

I have a fantasy where my ''daddy'' licks my anus

well, that's funny because I always do whatever I can to satisfy my "daughters" and I like licking anuses and vaginas and all things female really!

 

[big salami]

B U M P ! !

 

[big salami]

B U M P ! !

AGAIN!!

 

[Lorrie Flash]

From what I've heard, MANY women want an older man for financial security. Most guys at an older age are already set for life.

 

[big salami]

Re: Re: older men

From what I've heard, MANY women want an older man for financial security. Most guys at an older age are already set for life.

Dunno about that Lorrie, financial security is important of course but, I don't think most women are thinking about that at the time they meet a man, whatever the age difference!
Naturally some womens brains work that way but, I think most of the women that go with an olde man have either done it before or, have had pointed out or worked out for themselves that an older man has been there and done that, in other words, we know how a womans body and mind works and know how to look after a woman, how to show her a good time, to make her feel safe and cherished and when he takes her to bed, is more interested in making sure that she has proper satisfaction, that she enjoys the experience and that they both have a good time and that she will want to repeat the experience! After all, the older man will not be in a position to find a younger woman who will be interested in him every night and therefore he will want to make sure that the women he does meet will want to see him again.
Of course, if he has money too, that could ultimately be a bonus but, we're not all Peter Stringfellow or Donald Trump after all!

 

[Mary Hall]

I dont know why i like older men, i just do

 

[big salami]

I dont know why i like older men, i just do

I suppose analysis is not needed but, if you like older men, why is it you never reply to any of my enquiries to see if you may like THIS older man, I don't even know where you are and whether we would be close enough to make a meeting viable, You won't tell us anything about yourself.
You just come on, post once or twice and then disappear in a puff of smoke!
Why not open up a little and see if you, being a younger woman could be compatible with me, being an older man?

 

[Imi]

Re: Re: older men

From what I've heard, MANY women want an older man for financial security. Most guys at an older age are already set for life.

For me, I was answering a thread a long time ago about who you are attracted to. When I started thinking about the common features of everyone on that list, well, they were all over 50. So it's just pure attraction.

I married an 'older' man--older in the sense that he was at the top of the age bracket for the available pool at the time. Hubby is only 3 years older than me, but when we met in college, he was more of a grad student and definately had moved out of that awkward guy phase into the driven man that I'm attracted to.

 

[Lorrie Flash]

Re: Re: Re: older men

Dunno about that Lorrie, financial security is important of course but, I don't think most women are thinking about that at the time they meet a man, whatever the age difference!

Not from what I've heard from women around me, and those I've worked with in the past.

No matter how successful a woman is in her job, women still want a man for that extra financial security--at least that's with the women I have known. Women still love to be taken care of.

 

[big salami]

Re: Re: Re: Re: older men

Not from what I've heard from women around me, and those I've worked with in the past.

No matter how successful a woman is in her job, women still want a man for that extra financial security--at least that's with the women I have known. Women still love to be taken care of.

I don't doubt your experieces but, in my experience I have found that there are women who are not quite so mercenary, women who are searching for something other than money and these women are not all rich women who don't need the security but, some of the women I have met would really benefit from some extra security and they have been lovers of mine for something other than financiall reasons, this I know to be true because I have not so much as spent a penny on my current sexual partner and she is as keen now as she was at the start!

Have a look at my thread on Am. Pics. Me and a Married Woman.


Btw honey. love the Av! Is that what's known as "splendid" parakeet?

 

[dulcita]

Well im a young girl 25 years old to be exact and I love older me on. I dont know what it is but they are sooo sexy and masterful and really know how treat a women.

I love to talk to an older man online...

 

[Mary Hall]

The oldest guy i liked was 51....and one closer to my age is 8 months older than me

 

[big salami]

Well im a young girl 25 years old to be exact and I love older me on. I dont know what it is but they are sooo sexy and masterful and really know how treat a women.

I love to talk to an older man online...

Well honey, here's an older man to talk to, why not chat with me?

 

[Mary Hall]

Just bumping this thread for those who forgot it.

 

[foofoo416]

I have never been with an older man in R/L. I have wanted to more and more. Most of the men I chat with are about 10 to 15 years older than me, if not more. I don't know what it is...sure, security is always something a woman wants, but that isn't all for me. I think that is part of what makes them so attractive, though. Not for their money, but it is attractive to see a man who is in control of his life, who has lived it and figured it out for himself. I am married to a man a year younger than me, been together since right out of high school. He is still a big kid, and it drives me crazy. I like being able to be silly and have fun once in a while, but I am turned on by a man who knows when it's time to put the toys away and get down to business. When I think back to my younger years, I had always assumed I would end up with an older man. Not to support me so I didn't have to pay for anything, I had always planned on working, but to guide me. To be the one in control, to be the one who made the arrangements. I am a fast learner, I would be willing to learn and grow with the right guidance, but instead I ended up with someone more immature than me, who constantly puts me in the mommy position, needing to scold and say NO to like he is a child. I have had to be the one in control, to try and hold this all together, and I never wanted that all to be on me. So I like the type of man who is in control of his life, set in his career, set in himself. He has made his mistakes and learned from them, grown to be a MAN, not a little boy. A provider. I don't mean money. Yes, money makes the world go round, but a man having money is attractive to me simply because it means he's a grown up and knows what a savings account is, not because I want it for myself. Sure, when you are really broke, who wouldn't like the idea of a sugar daddy coming in and taking all your worries away? But that is just a fun fantasy, because I like to contribute the best of myself. I would expect no less from him. I have always wanted a provider...take me to this life you have made, show me how you work it, teach me to be a partner that would make you proud. And sexually...older men just seem to have a lot more figured out. They aren't all as hung up on whether you are a supermodel, if you have huge fake tits or a tiny unrealistic waist. They tend to look more at your soul, your personality, and find the inner sexiness waiting to be unleashed. They have been through the fake beauties and found that it only goes so far...when it's over you need someone you can talk to in the morning. They know what they like and aren't embarrassed to explore it. That....that is a sexy man. Makes me wish I'd waited around longer for him to find me, lol.

 

[Raidho]

Foof, what a great post about why chicks dig the older guys. (Or you, at least, and some of it resonated with me).

Here's my thinking on it.

I'm currently rebuilding my life, literally from the ground floor up. I've been the "mommy" wife, and decided it wasn't for me. In the process of rediscovering myself, I've discovered all sorts of passions (non-sexual) that are much more important to me than I ever thought possible -- and I'm pursuing those passions. I'm settling into all those little quirks that make me who I am, eccentricities, whatever. And I'm loving them. I'm loving, life, period. I'm passionate about life, I'm passionate about things in a way I wasn't before.

The older guys I've met seem to have that passion for life that guys my age (early 30's) don't seem to. THAT is sexy as hell to me. Someone who realizes that time is finite, therefore, you have to make the most of what you have. They're passionate about something; they're into the whole experience and not just the act of sex. And they bring that passion for life into the bedroom.

My desire for an older guy isn't so much guiding as it is learning. One of those things I'm passionate about is learning. They have that good ol' "experience" and aren't afraid to share it. They're usually comfortable in who they are, and don't care what others think. The ones I've found were passionate, and not afraid of expressing appreciation or emotion. They help me remember what I want to become

Money isn't really an issue for me. Hell, I'm going to be a teacher -- I've taken a vow of poverty But there has to be some financial maturity there. If your paycheck is X amount, you can't spent X amount and expect bills to be paid on the $50 that is left over.

And, granted, I know that it doesn't fit *all* older men. But it fits the ones I'm drawn to, and it fits what I want.

 

[foofoo416]

Foof, what a great post about why chicks dig the older guys. (Or you, at least, and some of it resonated with me).

Here's my thinking on it.

I'm currently rebuilding my life, literally from the ground floor up. I've been the "mommy" wife, and decided it wasn't for me. In the process of rediscovering myself, I've discovered all sorts of passions (non-sexual) that are much more important to me than I ever thought possible -- and I'm pursuing those passions. I'm settling into all those little quirks that make me who I am, eccentricities, whatever. And I'm loving them. I'm loving, life, period. I'm passionate about life, I'm passionate about things in a way I wasn't before.

The older guys I've met seem to have that passion for life that guys my age (early 30's) don't seem to. THAT is sexy as hell to me. Someone who realizes that time is finite, therefore, you have to make the most of what you have. They're passionate about something; they're into the whole experience and not just the act of sex. And they bring that passion for life into the bedroom.

My desire for an older guy isn't so much guiding as it is learning. One of those things I'm passionate about is learning. They have that good ol' "experience" and aren't afraid to share it. They're usually comfortable in who they are, and don't care what others think. The ones I've found were passionate, and not afraid of expressing appreciation or emotion. They help me remember what I want to become

Money isn't really an issue for me. Hell, I'm going to be a teacher -- I've taken a vow of poverty But there has to be some financial maturity there. If your paycheck is X amount, you can't spent X amount and expect bills to be paid on the $50 that is left over.

And, granted, I know that it doesn't fit *all* older men. But it fits the ones I'm drawn to, and it fits what I want.

Amen, sister, preaching to the choir!

 

[CADreaming]

I've been looking for an older (40-50s) guy to teach/guide me, sexually, but I want it to be real life. Fantasy is great, but I'm to the point where fantasy starts to feel... empty, you know?

So bring on the older guys!

 

[Raidho]

I've been looking for an older (40-50s) guy to teach/guide me, sexually, but I want it to be real life. Fantasy is great, but I'm to the point where fantasy starts to feel... empty, you know?

So bring on the older guys!

Good luck in your search. I've found, like anything else, it takes a while to find what you want, but it's worth the wait.