older men younger women
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I like older men, but not too very much older. I'm 33, though, so I don't really think of men as "older" unless they are 20-30 years older than me -- when they are old enough to be my father is my personal cut-off.
Five to fifteen years older, though, is very sexy indeed.
Older men generally know where they are in life and are confident about who they are, which is unbelievably, incredibly sexy to me. They also tend to be appreciative of women like me -in their thirties, still got it, and know how to use it to full effect.
Five to fifteen years older, though, is very sexy indeed.
Older men generally know where they are in life and are confident about who they are, which is unbelievably, incredibly sexy to me. They also tend to be appreciative of women like me -in their thirties, still got it, and know how to use it to full effect.
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Just_Jess said:I agree!! I'm 27 and older men are more mature and grounded. More secure - and I find that confidence sexy
Welcome Jess, I'm from Rockford area welcome aboard.
31/m not old enough to be here on this thread.
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I was never into older guys at all but I went to a formal event recently where a really big powerful white-haired burly man saw how drunk I was and started trying to grope my pussy under the table. At first I let him because it felt so good. It was something about the way he moved his fingers. But then it dawned on me that he might be old enough to be my grandfather and I tried to stop him. All I could do was sit on his hand as hard as I could to keep him from diddling me. In hindsight that probably turned him on more because I was sitting pushing my pussy hard onto his hand.
I left soon after but he had turned me on and when he told me he wanted me to stay I almost considered finding a way. Since then I have had an older thing for older men in suits and tuxes.
I left soon after but he had turned me on and when he told me he wanted me to stay I almost considered finding a way. Since then I have had an older thing for older men in suits and tuxes.
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PattyCake said:
Older men can be wonderful... my hubby is 20 years older than I.
Unfortunately we are in the midst of divorcing.. for many reasons.
It's not all its cracked up to be.
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I like older men for aboput 5 to ten years older, they seem more mature
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An older man's perspective:
I've been fortunate enough to connect with two younger women from Lit. One is about 14 years younger than me and the other is 28 years younger. In both cases, the experience has been great. Unfortunately, neither live close to me so meeting is a problem.
When the youngest one and I first met, I wondered if the age difference would be too much. I mean, what would we talk about? To my surprise and joy, we got along great and had a wonderful time together talking and laughing. It has been a long time since I have seen her, but thinking of her still brings a smile to my face.
I've been fortunate enough to connect with two younger women from Lit. One is about 14 years younger than me and the other is 28 years younger. In both cases, the experience has been great. Unfortunately, neither live close to me so meeting is a problem.
When the youngest one and I first met, I wondered if the age difference would be too much. I mean, what would we talk about? To my surprise and joy, we got along great and had a wonderful time together talking and laughing. It has been a long time since I have seen her, but thinking of her still brings a smile to my face.
Well,
OK I am known on these boards for really liking them old. I am talking retired and collecting Social Security age you know?
For me it's not the money for I am an independent business professional. Although there have been times where I wouldn't have minded being spoiled by a rich dirty old man, but not into the drama that comes with that sort of thing.
I have found that REALLY older men still have lots of passion left. Since they may be a little floppy down there or unable to produce multiple orgasms they learn to appreciate the art of foreplay, cuddling, kissing, oral and toys.
I am seeing a man whom I met here. Originally he told me he was 69 but found out he's 73. I was pretty shocked. He looks great and performance ROCKS.
Me? I am 41.
OK I am known on these boards for really liking them old. I am talking retired and collecting Social Security age you know?
For me it's not the money for I am an independent business professional. Although there have been times where I wouldn't have minded being spoiled by a rich dirty old man, but not into the drama that comes with that sort of thing.
I have found that REALLY older men still have lots of passion left. Since they may be a little floppy down there or unable to produce multiple orgasms they learn to appreciate the art of foreplay, cuddling, kissing, oral and toys.
I am seeing a man whom I met here. Originally he told me he was 69 but found out he's 73. I was pretty shocked. He looks great and performance ROCKS.
Me? I am 41.
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Re: Re: Re: older men younger women
Sorry I didn't get back here sooner, lol....
being with an older man, is what I meant.
We seemed so compatible at first, but after a while the differences started to come to the surface... ideals, values, he doesn't fit in with friends your age, sex is lagging, etc etc etc. I knew this to happen to another couple as well, where she was quite a bit older than he was. It's sad.
I've been to Ohio and love it. Can't wait to go
thanks!
rl_dylan said:If I may be sold bold
Sorry to hear of your split up, and know that Ohio is a world apart from Florida!
Sorry I didn't get back here sooner, lol....
being with an older man, is what I meant.
We seemed so compatible at first, but after a while the differences started to come to the surface... ideals, values, he doesn't fit in with friends your age, sex is lagging, etc etc etc. I knew this to happen to another couple as well, where she was quite a bit older than he was. It's sad.
I've been to Ohio and love it. Can't wait to go
thanks!
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hausfrau said:I know money is the absolute last thing I am thinking of when I am interested in a man. I can make my own money, thanks.
amen ma'am!
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I would agree as well, I know that my fling with my seasoned honey is exactly that. I am enjoying his company and exploring something new on my "to do" list. He's a special friend and have no expectations of anything more.
However, I don't gel with the guys my age 40ish as they need another 20 yrs to mature out of their midlife crisis mode.
Then again, I do enjoy plucking a few young ones from the stud orchard.
Ohhh me Oh myyyy.
babydoll2u said:Sorry I didn't get back here sooner, lol....
being with an older man, is what I meant.
We seemed so compatible at first, but after a while the differences started to come to the surface... ideals, values, he doesn't fit in with friends your age, sex is lagging, etc etc etc. I knew this to happen to another couple as well, where she was quite a bit older than he was. It's sad.
I've been to Ohio and love it. Can't wait to go
thanks!
I would agree as well, I know that my fling with my seasoned honey is exactly that. I am enjoying his company and exploring something new on my "to do" list. He's a special friend and have no expectations of anything more.
However, I don't gel with the guys my age 40ish as they need another 20 yrs to mature out of their midlife crisis mode.
Then again, I do enjoy plucking a few young ones from the stud orchard.
Ohhh me Oh myyyy.
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I like older guys too, out of several reasons.
1. In general older men do not play head games in a way younger men do. They know what they want and they know how to communicate it.
2. Older men usually know how to treat a women in bed.
3. Older men are more stable in their work and home life. That does include financially. Now, up until recently when I went back to college I made more than enough money myself, and even know I just cannot see myself having a men who pays may way through everything. But it is nice that when you take a roadtrip together he picks up the hotel tab (and no, I hve done that too before, on more than one occasion, and even after I went back to college) and there is no question that you go to a hotel instead of a youth hostel. I could go on forever, but my point is just that older men usually worry less about the little things (like, when the car is broke, they get it fixed instead of driving with broken breaks for weeks)
4. Older men are usually more interesting. They have more life experiences. When I tell someone my age about a trip I took recently than all they ask is how I financed it, my older friend asked if I had a chance to check out a certain part of town and how I liked the food. Just leads to a more interesting conversation.
5. Older men usually know how to treat a women in bed (cant be said enough!)
1. In general older men do not play head games in a way younger men do. They know what they want and they know how to communicate it.
2. Older men usually know how to treat a women in bed.
3. Older men are more stable in their work and home life. That does include financially. Now, up until recently when I went back to college I made more than enough money myself, and even know I just cannot see myself having a men who pays may way through everything. But it is nice that when you take a roadtrip together he picks up the hotel tab (and no, I hve done that too before, on more than one occasion, and even after I went back to college) and there is no question that you go to a hotel instead of a youth hostel. I could go on forever, but my point is just that older men usually worry less about the little things (like, when the car is broke, they get it fixed instead of driving with broken breaks for weeks)
4. Older men are usually more interesting. They have more life experiences. When I tell someone my age about a trip I took recently than all they ask is how I financed it, my older friend asked if I had a chance to check out a certain part of town and how I liked the food. Just leads to a more interesting conversation.
5. Older men usually know how to treat a women in bed (cant be said enough!)
A Personal Perspective
Somebody said there is only one in a thousand younger women who are interested in middle aged men - what an egregious error!
Although I was blessed with good looks, health, a gifted athlete, popular in school, a star academic performer and very successful in my chosen career, I never really seemed to be attractive to women, especially my own age. Maybe I felt too superior of just never let women think I was interested in them.
Then I turned 45 and suddenly I noticed more and more very sexy attractive women in their 20s and 30s coming on to me. Everywhere I went it seemed beautiful women were flirting with me and making it quite obvious that they were interested in me as a sexual man. I could not figure out what changed in me. Where were all these hot women who were falling all over themselves to impress me when I was single and young?
Since then I have had several torrid affairs with agressive willing and passionate beautiful younger (10-28 years) women, some more than half my age. They beg me to have sex with them over and over, as if it is a personal addiction to multiple orgasms. I must admit that I love nothing more than to give long, screaming body-shuddering multiple orgasms to lovely passionate women for hours and hours of love-making. When I ask my lovers what makes me something other than normal, and more appealing than men their own ages, they tell me many things about myself that attracts them. Number one is my sense of sophistication, self-confidence, frankness and honest, athletic body, adventurous spirit, sense of humor, intelligence, education, worldly experiences and enculturation, my consideration and ability to listen to their concerns, encouragement of them to achieve their dreams, my gentleman's manners, my sense of fashion, personal appearance, cleanliness, full head of hair, quickness to laugh and smile, and ability to control my ejaculations for hours of passionate sex. The fact that I am an accomplished, successful man with a comfortable income, an American, with a soft Texas drawl, probably adds to the allure, but I am still personally embarassed by the level of attention and public flirtation displayed by so many of my female acquaintances. So those of you who say being middle aged is not wonderful, must not be living my life. God I love it!
Somebody said there is only one in a thousand younger women who are interested in middle aged men - what an egregious error!
Although I was blessed with good looks, health, a gifted athlete, popular in school, a star academic performer and very successful in my chosen career, I never really seemed to be attractive to women, especially my own age. Maybe I felt too superior of just never let women think I was interested in them.
Then I turned 45 and suddenly I noticed more and more very sexy attractive women in their 20s and 30s coming on to me. Everywhere I went it seemed beautiful women were flirting with me and making it quite obvious that they were interested in me as a sexual man. I could not figure out what changed in me. Where were all these hot women who were falling all over themselves to impress me when I was single and young?
Since then I have had several torrid affairs with agressive willing and passionate beautiful younger (10-28 years) women, some more than half my age. They beg me to have sex with them over and over, as if it is a personal addiction to multiple orgasms. I must admit that I love nothing more than to give long, screaming body-shuddering multiple orgasms to lovely passionate women for hours and hours of love-making. When I ask my lovers what makes me something other than normal, and more appealing than men their own ages, they tell me many things about myself that attracts them. Number one is my sense of sophistication, self-confidence, frankness and honest, athletic body, adventurous spirit, sense of humor, intelligence, education, worldly experiences and enculturation, my consideration and ability to listen to their concerns, encouragement of them to achieve their dreams, my gentleman's manners, my sense of fashion, personal appearance, cleanliness, full head of hair, quickness to laugh and smile, and ability to control my ejaculations for hours of passionate sex. The fact that I am an accomplished, successful man with a comfortable income, an American, with a soft Texas drawl, probably adds to the allure, but I am still personally embarassed by the level of attention and public flirtation displayed by so many of my female acquaintances. So those of you who say being middle aged is not wonderful, must not be living my life. God I love it!
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I'm 46/m, a soldier stationed in NY, and I'm fascinated by the idea of being with a younger woman, someone who expects a certain amount of maturity, can appreciate experience, but doesn't expect you to act "old".
Re: A Personal Perspective
Well stated.
I re-iterate...guys my age (40ish) are looking for gals in their 20's to early 30's.
I will state though...and please don't take this personally that most of the dates I have been on with guys my age whom I should have more in common with, have been mostly sessions of hearing what they have accomplished in their lives as well as what they have accumulated and how they managed to keep their first wives from getting their share.
Most of the young studs I have fooled around with are hot but too dumb to get beyond the drink or beer specials. But hey they have tight abs and hard cocks and that gives them automatic 10 pts. "Shut up and fuck me baby."
The young girls I have enjoyed whom are as naive and dumb as their hot boyfriends are easy to impress, thus, my middle aged guy friends don't have to work hard to appear sophisticated etc.
What I have discovered with the older men (65 and up) is that after sowing their wild oats, falling in love, getting married, having kids, accumulating stuff, buying Porches and chasing younger women, then finding themselves alone or lonely in the latter part of their lives have finally slowed them down enough and have "gotten it."
Now they have the wisdom, experience and time to invest their true selves into ME! No more lies or excuses. I enjoy encouraging them to push the envelope and find the courage to be themselves. I also find them more loyal and giving.
However, being old school they can be a bit possessive. With the sweet man I am seeing, I am not finding that he is sexually conservative AT ALL!!!!
Ok enough of my rambling.
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Well stated.
I re-iterate...guys my age (40ish) are looking for gals in their 20's to early 30's.
I will state though...and please don't take this personally that most of the dates I have been on with guys my age whom I should have more in common with, have been mostly sessions of hearing what they have accomplished in their lives as well as what they have accumulated and how they managed to keep their first wives from getting their share.
Most of the young studs I have fooled around with are hot but too dumb to get beyond the drink or beer specials. But hey they have tight abs and hard cocks and that gives them automatic 10 pts. "Shut up and fuck me baby."
The young girls I have enjoyed whom are as naive and dumb as their hot boyfriends are easy to impress, thus, my middle aged guy friends don't have to work hard to appear sophisticated etc.
What I have discovered with the older men (65 and up) is that after sowing their wild oats, falling in love, getting married, having kids, accumulating stuff, buying Porches and chasing younger women, then finding themselves alone or lonely in the latter part of their lives have finally slowed them down enough and have "gotten it."
Now they have the wisdom, experience and time to invest their true selves into ME! No more lies or excuses. I enjoy encouraging them to push the envelope and find the courage to be themselves. I also find them more loyal and giving.
However, being old school they can be a bit possessive. With the sweet man I am seeing, I am not finding that he is sexually conservative AT ALL!!!!
Ok enough of my rambling.
Licks to all.
Mom
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older and younger
I wonder if at 65 I will want a young lady because right now at 54 I could care less.I really prefer to find a woman near my own age..older gals are very sexy..
I wonder if at 65 I will want a young lady because right now at 54 I could care less.I really prefer to find a woman near my own age..older gals are very sexy..
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