Okay, so explain to me this Daddy/daughter thing...

[BurningMonkey]

I've read about it, and I do have some incest fantasies, but how does one play it out in real life?

So I meet a younger woman who's into Daddy/daughter...what's my role? How do I act?
Is it some variation on the Dom/sub thing? Do I order her around? Punish her? Spank her? Rough sex?

Or is it a seduction scenario mostly? And if so, who does the seducing? Does daddy seduce the daughter, or the other way round? Does it switch off between them?

Does it carry over outside the bedroom? Is money or gifts involved, like a sugar daddy/sugar baby kind of deal?

Help me understand, please. I'd love to get involved in that community/lifestyle, but I'm green as a frog and don't know where to start.

 

[CBM514]

I've read about it, and I do have some incest fantasies, but how does one play it out in real life?

So I meet a younger woman who's into Daddy/daughter...what's my role? How do I act?
Is it some variation on the Dom/sub thing? Do I order her around? Punish her? Spank her? Rough sex?

Or is it a seduction scenario mostly? And if so, who does the seducing? Does daddy seduce the daughter, or the other way round? Does it switch off between them?

Does it carry over outside the bedroom? Is money or gifts involved, like a sugar daddy/sugar baby kind of deal?

Help me understand, please. I'd love to get involved in that community/lifestyle, but I'm green as a frog and don't know where to start.

Well not to give you a vague "non-answer", but it could be any or all of the above, I think it's how you and her define it and what works for you...it doesn't have to be incest related either (although I'm sure it is for some)...we have a variation on this where I call her "baby girl" and she calls me "daddy", but not in a daughter kind of way...more of that kind of "respect"/ authority figure that she wants to please and I recporocate in kind and otherwise take care of her, in and out of bed...for us it's a fun little dynamic but we don't make it overly serious in any significant interactions and it doesn't impact our marriage/ partnership...

If it's something you like, many women are also into it in one form or another...not sure if I really helped you or not as I re-read this...

 

[SgtSpiderMan]

It's a pity you don't live in England

Work on convincing him to move.

 

[MooFloss]

The Daddy/baby girl relationship is not always linked to fantasies of incest. My boyfriend and I live the lifestyle of daddy and baby girl but it has absolutely no connotations to my relationship with my actual dad.

I call him daddy because he is my daddy dom. It's a more caring side to the d/s relationship and is full of nurture. He does look after me and keeps me safe but instead of calling him Sir I call him Daddy.

The daddy/daughter or baby girl relationship is different depending on what you both need and what your other desires/ fetishes are.

I am an abdl which I know isn't everyone's cup of tea but thats my link to having a daddy.

Some people like have a sugar daddy who is older than they are and who will spoil them.. where as others are into the incestuous side of things.

Everyone is different so it depends which suits you

 

[Prince Albert]

Burning monkey, I think you have gotten a lot of good answers to your question. Youneed to find out what you & she want. Communication is the key!!

 

[CBM514]

Burning monkey, I think you have gotten a lot of good answers to your question. Youneed to find out what you & she want. Communication is the key!!

That's the biggest thing in any relationship! Especially when there are variations from any "norm" for one or the other...this kind of stuff doesn't have rules or standards to measure by, it truly is what both people want it to be...

 

[BurningMonkey]

Thanks everyone, especially MooFloss. I understand better what this is and how I think I'm supposed to act.

I didn't know if I was supposed to be seducing her, letting her seduce me, or just use "baby girl" in dirty talk during sex.
Turns out it can be any and all of those, depending on what she wants.
I say depending on what she wants because this is all new to me, but evidently not to her.
And as long as I get mine, I'll do whatever she wants...as long as I don't feel uncomfortable doing it.

Again, thanks all.

And JessicaRabbit, I'd be happy to be your daddy ANYtime!
Too bad you live so far away; I'm sure there are many, many interesting things you could teach me about this, and I assure you I'm a willing student!

 

[MooFloss]

Glad to be of assistance

Best of luck to you

 

[MumSisterTgirlLover]

It's a pity you don't live in England

Then I'm glad I do live in England.

 

[Sutefani]

My previous relationships were as any daughter would, I love to please my daddy. If he asked something of me, I did it as long as I was comfortable with it. He knew what I was and was not comfy with. We went on father daughter dates, he paid as though he was, and general relationship as such of a father daughter but we also fucked. Naughty pictures were also a thing with him. He loved to buy me things and they would be sent to his house and he would open and wrap them again for me to open as a new present

 

[TJReilly]

I've read about it, and I do have some incest fantasies, but how does one play it out in real life?

So I meet a younger woman who's into Daddy/daughter...what's my role? How do I act?
Is it some variation on the Dom/sub thing? Do I order her around? Punish her? Spank her? Rough sex?

Or is it a seduction scenario mostly? And if so, who does the seducing? Does daddy seduce the daughter, or the other way round? Does it switch off between them?

Does it carry over outside the bedroom? Is money or gifts involved, like a sugar daddy/sugar baby kind of deal?

Help me understand, please. I'd love to get involved in that community/lifestyle, but I'm green as a frog and don't know where to start.

If you want to roleplay Daddy/daughter with a woman, first find out what are her limits and what she wants. You don't want to start roleplaying something outside her comfort zone. *You find out by talking to her.* No one here can tell you what is in her mind. Women don't like to roleplay with a guy who takes off after he gets himself off, they like to have a little conversation with it.