Okay, I feel like I'm being ignored by someone I thought was a friend.

Ms_Lilith

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The last conversation we had was a good one, and we signed off happily, and the next morning I left him a message on his yahoo, and now he's not talking to me. I've sent him a few messages, and seen him online, but he won't write back! What gives?! I feel terrible! I just wish there was something I could do that would get him back!
 
Ill be your friend...I know Im not that person but:D you can yahoo me anytime!:kiss:
 
Maybe he went out forgetting to change his status - I've done that and upset some people for a while.
 
I am experiencing much the same thing, to a lesser degree.

You would think that if there is a problem, we have done something wrong or interest is waning, they would be men enough to say so.

Hmmmm


Oh well. I suppose I do set the bar rather high!

:D

hugs, vixenshe
 
You have many many friends. He or she might have something they need to work out. I hope your days are filled with joy.
Take Care and Lust Always,
Ezarc
p.s. how did the suprise work out?;)
 
People are strange... things happen... you'll drive yourself crazy trying to figure it all out...

Plenty of other friends out there and here :)
 
Give him the benefit of the doubt. Speaking from personal experience, sometimes I've got a lot on my mind, and I'm not chatty, or I'm in the middle of a project and I'm not answering anything: email, PMs, anything until it's done. Doesn't mean I've suddenly stopped liking someone.

Not knowing who it is, I can't venture a guess at what's going on, but don't be too quick to assume the worst.
 
naudiz said:
Not knowing who it is, I can't venture a guess at what's going on, but don't be too quick to assume the worst.

I have to, I know you hate me.
 
vixenshe said:
The last conversation we had was a good one, and we signed off happily, and the next morning I left him a message on his yahoo, and now he's not talking to me. I've sent him a few messages, and seen him online, but he won't write back! What gives?! I feel terrible! I just wish there was something I could do that would get him back!


This is more common than you think.

Been there, done that, and still never heard from him again. Four or five times in the last couple years. Never did know why, either. You WILL drive yourself crazy trying to figure it out.
 
It happens to me. I just move on and let them have their space.

Outright ignoring is rude though, usually they'll at least give a disinterested reply.

Hmmm. I'm going with 'they're busy' guess.
 
Once is forgivable, but if they do it repeatedly, dump 'em. I hate that "I'm busy" excuse. You're never too busy for a short note explaining that you're busy. If that made sense. Just disappearing is inexcusable. Same with ignoring.
 
April said:
Once is forgivable, but if they do it repeatedly, dump 'em. I hate that "I'm busy" excuse. You're never too busy for a short note explaining that you're busy. If that made sense. Just disappearing is inexcusable. Same with ignoring.

Great advice, April.
 
hmmm

Hey everyone, has anyone here considered that the dude might be on vacation or something like that?

If that or some medical complication is not the case, than you can always message me about whatever it was you wanted to talk about and I'll answer best I can whether it be erotic or some more mundane but still interesting subject.
 
Ice Cold said:
People are strange... things happen... you'll drive yourself crazy trying to figure it all out...

Plenty of other friends out there and here :)


I would agree with this one...
 
Well, make a new friend

there are plenty of well mannered new people that would love to get to know some of the others *Whistles and looks at the ceiling*
Besides it might be that there is more going on than you know and when it gets straightened out you would have yet another friend
 
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