Ok there are lots of OVER 40's in lit

[1sexylady]

LOL... I am about 5'1"

and while they are at it.... can I have long straight blonde hair?

Sure...why not... I like my hair so I will keep it..it is curly but I can make it straight and it is brownish red with blonde hightlights and thick....I will take blue eyes though..

 

[Gil_T2]

Glad to see you are settling in to the thread

People here seem to be settling into the thread and freeing up on things we can relate to.

I have a few questions for you all:
*How many had wild sex experiences in their 20's ?
I had several friends who like me were very open about sex and we eventually started meeting up at my place Friday nights where we would drink,smoke pot and talk about sex then we started having couples getting naked and having sex which was great while having a breather we watched each other having sex.
Well it went on and on and we started swapping partners but staying in the one room and we had to spread as we ended up with a group of about 15 couples every Friday night all through the house exploring each other.

*At what age did you discover that there was more to sex than just YOU getting satisfied ?
I think I was lucky as my first lover was a lady who was twice my age (I was 18 she 36) and she taught me more than I realised at the time.

*How old were you when you had your first orgasm with a partner?
I was 14yo and during summer we all used to meet at the beach and the older guys would go get the booze...well we all got drunk and I ended up with a girl I knew wasn't a virgin and was 17 and she gave me my first blow job and it was fantastic...I without thinking bent down and kissed her and said thanks which she liked as most just did their pants up and said CYA to her.I have always done thins to show my thanks for a BJ.If you can't face the taste of your own cum how can you expect the lady to want to let you cum in her mouth.

At what age did you discover "role play" or have you ?
Alas I was in my late 30's before I discovered it but got into it real quick with an ex g/f who rang saying she was horny and could she come over.When she got there she told me what she wanted and I being just as horny said lets try and see.I now enjoy it whenever I can.

I'll think of some more and cya soon.


I'm so glad I started this thread finding out about other 40+ ppl cope.

 

[lilrosie lips]

Re: Glad to see you are settling in to the thread

Geeze Gil.... thats assignment enough for a while.....

1: Wild sex in my twenties?

I think I started before my 20's, at about 18. It was the early 70's, pre aids, pre herpes, I was an army nurse, exposed to tons of horney young men. I had a good time!!!. I did have a couple of MFM 3 ways around that time which I didn't find that satisfying. I think it was the combination of 3 people who did it more to be able to put a notch in there belt (or say they had actually done than really desiring it. I frankly found it hard (no pun intended) to concentrate on satisfying two men at the same time and consequently didn't really enjoy myself as much as I would have liked. But shortly after those experiences, I did join the mile high club, under a blakent in an airline seat with a very sexy airman on a military flight to Germany. I think I must have been either out of my mind or I was too young to consider what kind of military trouble I could have gotten myself into with that stunt. I was lucky we weren't caught and courtmartialed. That would have been very hard to explain to my parents. Yikes.. Then there was the Ocktoberfest in Munich... we won't get into that adventure, since it's a little bleery (beery) in my memory LOL But I have calmed down. At least in practice. My imagination still runs wild.

#2: What age did I learn that there was more to sex than just getting myself satisfied?

I think I instinctly knew that. I have always from the begining enjoyed my partners pleasure and seeing him really have a good experiance. That is an aphrodesiac to me.

#3: When did I have my first orgasm wirh a partner?

At about 18. He was my second partner and he introduced me to oral sex... Enuf said. Still one of my favorite activities.

#4: At what age did I discover Role Playing?

Never. I might enjoy it with the right partner, but it hasn't ever been a fantasy or priority in my life.

Dang that was alot of stuff...

 

[Angelofsex]

Re: Glad to see you are settling in to the thread

People here seem to be settling into the thread and freeing up on things we can relate to.

I have a few questions for you all:
*How many had wild sex experiences in their 20's ?
I had several friends who like me were very open about sex and we eventually started meeting up at my place Friday nights where we would drink,smoke pot and talk about sex then we started having couples getting naked and having sex which was great while having a breather we watched each other having sex.
Well it went on and on and we started swapping partners but staying in the one room and we had to spread as we ended up with a group of about 15 couples every Friday night all through the house exploring each other.

*At what age did you discover that there was more to sex than just YOU getting satisfied ?
I think I was lucky as my first lover was a lady who was twice my age (I was 18 she 36) and she taught me more than I realised at the time.

*How old were you when you had your first orgasm with a partner?
I was 14yo and during summer we all used to meet at the beach and the older guys would go get the booze...well we all got drunk and I ended up with a girl I knew wasn't a virgin and was 17 and she gave me my first blow job and it was fantastic...I without thinking bent down and kissed her and said thanks which she liked as most just did their pants up and said CYA to her.I have always done thins to show my thanks for a BJ.If you can't face the taste of your own cum how can you expect the lady to want to let you cum in her mouth.

At what age did you discover "role play" or have you ?
Alas I was in my late 30's before I discovered it but got into it real quick with an ex g/f who rang saying she was horny and could she come over.When she got there she told me what she wanted and I being just as horny said lets try and see.I now enjoy it whenever I can.

I'll think of some more and cya soon.


I'm so glad I started this thread finding out about other 40+ ppl cope.

You ask a questions..............that I have to think............let me put on my thinking cap and I be back..........................................
............40 was the magic age for alot of things.

 

[psyche]

Re: Glad to see you are settling in to the thread

People here seem to be settling into the thread and freeing up on things we can relate to.

I have a few questions for you all:
*How many had wild sex experiences in their 20's ?
I had several friends who like me were very open about sex and we eventually started meeting up at my place Friday nights where we would drink,smoke pot and talk about sex then we started having couples getting naked and having sex which was great while having a breather we watched each other having sex.
Well it went on and on and we started swapping partners but staying in the one room and we had to spread as we ended up with a group of about 15 couples every Friday night all through the house exploring each other.

*At what age did you discover that there was more to sex than just YOU getting satisfied ?
I think I was lucky as my first lover was a lady who was twice my age (I was 18 she 36) and she taught me more than I realised at the time.

*How old were you when you had your first orgasm with a partner?
I was 14yo and during summer we all used to meet at the beach and the older guys would go get the booze...well we all got drunk and I ended up with a girl I knew wasn't a virgin and was 17 and she gave me my first blow job and it was fantastic...I without thinking bent down and kissed her and said thanks which she liked as most just did their pants up and said CYA to her.I have always done thins to show my thanks for a BJ.If you can't face the taste of your own cum how can you expect the lady to want to let you cum in her mouth.

At what age did you discover "role play" or have you ?
Alas I was in my late 30's before I discovered it but got into it real quick with an ex g/f who rang saying she was horny and could she come over.When she got there she told me what she wanted and I being just as horny said lets try and see.I now enjoy it whenever I can.

I'll think of some more and cya soon.


I'm so glad I started this thread finding out about other 40+ ppl cope.

I had sex for the first time in my 20's. Prior to my 20s there were a number of times that guys tried to pop my tight, little cherry to no avail! I was lucky because my first real sexual partner was 10 years older than me, he was very gentle with me, and he was a sexual animal! He was married, and I was working for him and his wife. He really made love to me, and my virginity was taken in an extremely positive way. I'll never forget the experience. We fucked everywhere, in his truck, in the woods, in the barns, in every room in the house, I gave him blow jobs while he was driving. He was like many of you guys on lit - his fantasy was two women and he eventually talked his wife into a three way, which we did a few times. Once again it was a very positive experience. After I lost my virginity, I made up for it by having sex with a number of partners. No matter what you think you know about sex - your partner makes all the difference in the world. You bring in certain things yourself but you may not know what you are capable of achieving until a partner opens up a door for you and pushes you beyond anything that you imagined. I also had my first orgasm with my first sexual partner. My first experience with role playing came in my marriage to add variety and spice to a long term sexual relationship with one person. Unfortunately, as I've mentioned before my husband is not very open to anything beyond basic sex, but he did try this briefly, and I had some fun with it. As I said your partner makes all the difference in the world.

 

[Lance Hardrock]

5'4" 5'7" 6'1"

wow, all you ladies worried about being a certain height. I'm just happy to get up to 7"


And Sexyone, I love tall women. Why would you want to be shorter? Tall women have so much more skin to touch, kiss, lick and caress. mmmmmmm.

 

[lilrosie lips]

Re: 5'4" 5'7" 6'1"

wow, all you ladies worried about being a certain height. I'm just happy to get up to 7"


And Sexyone, I love tall women. Why would you want to be shorter? Tall women have so much more skin to touch, kiss, lick and caress. mmmmmmm.

Well Dang it Lance....

That hurts my feeling *pouty face*.... I have less skin....but means you can get to the meat faster... LOL....LOL....LOL

 

[Lance Hardrock]

Re: Re: 5'4" 5'7" 6'1"

Well Dang it Lance....

That hurts my feeling *pouty face*.... I have less skin....but means you can get to the meat faster... LOL....LOL....LOL

You know I was going to add that the little gals sure make me hot too. It is the quality that counts. And baby, you sure are high quality.


<trying to get off the hook with smaller ladies, cause I love them too>

 

[lilrosie lips]

Re: Re: Re: 5'4" 5'7" 6'1"

You know I was going to add that the little gals sure make me hot too. It is the quality that counts. And baby, you sure are high quality.


<trying to get off the hook with smaller ladies, cause I love them too>

LOL... your forgiven Lance.... for now...

 

[RainWizard]

Re: Re: Glad to see you are settling in to the thread

No matter what you think you know about sex - your partner makes all the difference in the world. You bring in certain things yourself but you may not know what you are capable of achieving until a partner opens up a door for you and pushes you beyond anything that you imagined.

I can't agree more psyche! &nbspMaking love is most definitely a team effort. &nbspOne or both partners can enjoy it. &nbspBut when they both work together...now that'd be toe curlin time

 

[MissTaken]

Re: Re: Re: Glad to see you are settling in to the thread

I can't agree more psyche! &nbspMaking love is most definitely a team effort. &nbspOne or both partners can enjoy it. &nbspBut when they both work together...now that'd be toe curlin time

I could use some toe curling!



How is everyone on this slowwwww Saturday night?

 

[RainWizard]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Glad to see you are settling in to the thread

I could use some toe curling!



How is everyone on this slowwwww Saturday night?

&nbspMissTaken...there's just nothing better than a good toe curling! &nbspUnless it's the second toe curling

 

[MissTaken]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Glad to see you are settling in to the thread

&nbspMissTaken...there's just nothing better than a good toe curling! &nbspUnless it's the second toe curling

Garcon?


A bit of toe curling with my coffee, please?

 

[RainWizard]

RE:Curling them toes...

Garcon?


A bit of toe curling with my coffee, please?

Sugar with your coffee &nbspWould the lady like the curling to start from the bottom...or the top???

 

[Dragonette]

Re: so wonderful Dragonette

That was a wonderful little vignette with your friend. mmmmmm. I remember a few events like that myself. ahhhh....... <whoops getting lost in my memories there>



OH, you may not be a vampire, but you can bite, suck and drain me anytime you want, honey.



Psssst <check your pm box>

Thanks honey, I will take it to bed with me!
That was so very sweet of you!

 

[Dragonette]

Hmmm

My height I am happy with, I was 5' 7" now I am about 5' 6", yeah I shrunk! But I fit so well into a 6' plus male body!
I'm blonde, but always wanted thicker wavy hair and green or brown eyes. Mine are a kinda murky blue, no colour really.
I have always had a weight problem since I took the pill, when I got married. I hate the way I look! Weight won't go away!
So, new body should be slim.

Actually just before I met my young man, my fate, (I knew about him from earlier, it was a fantasy fate, I might write the story one day. He was 26 I was 45) I had lost 3 stone, no idea how, I wish I knew, it just melted away. I want to do that again, the years since have let the weight creep back on. 2 stone is back, I try, but it won't go away!

Gil, I got married at 20, and I was so disappointed, I was a virgin, on my wedding night I expected bells to ring, the earth to move, sadly nothing.

Took me a long time to learn!
And it never was with hubby, I learnt later.
I learnt some interesting but frightening things at a boarding school for young ladies, 3 to 15, but now I know how much was so wrong!
My upbringing was as an Army brat so we moved around, I never really had a boy friend until the boat coming to Australia.
My hubby was my 3rd boyfriend.
Sad indeed. I tried to teach my daughter, things I wasn't even sure about, as I had to bring her up myself.
Somehow I did it right, she is beautiful, open and loving.
Even her friends came to me to ask questions their parents didn't tell them.
My parents never told me anything, now I know they couldn't as they didn't know either!
A very sad generation indeed.

My young man was magic, things I felt with him, things I had never felt before or since!
I know what I like, I am not so shy about talking now, but I can't find a mate that makes me feel that way.
Maybe I expect to much now, maybe I am just to picky, who knows.

I am getting old and lonely.
Enough rambling!

 

[lovemetender]

peeking in & saying Hello
to all the fellow over 40s folks...
are we having fun yet?

 

[enjoyingitall]

Good Morning, everyone.

Hope everyone had a wonderful weekend.

 

[lovemetender]

Re: Good Morning, everyone.

Hope everyone had a wonderful weekend.

had a good weekend here...& always nice to see you love...makes the day brighter for sure

 

[enjoyingitall]

Re: Re: Good Morning, everyone.

had a good weekend here...& always nice to see you love...makes the day brighter for sure

Great to see you, too. Glad your weekend was a good one. Hope your Monday goes well.

 

[Dragonette]

Purrs

had a good weekend here...& always nice to see you love...makes the day brighter for sure

Ohhhhh, now that avi makes me purr.....

Weekend is gone, new week ahead
Nothing new, nothing fun, just same!

Just purring at lovely avatars!

Purrs and growls softly...

 

[tonitits]

peeking in & saying Hello
to all the fellow over 40s folks...
are we having fun yet?

Babe it's always fun when you are around.

 

[enjoyingitall]

You've posed some interesting questions, Gil...

*How many had wild sex experiences in their 20's ?

I did a lot of exploration in my 20s. Don't know that I would call any of the wild, though. I had a few experiences with a college room mate in my very early twenties. I learned a lot about oral sex with her.

*At what age did you discover that there was more to sex than just YOU getting satisfied ?

In my mid twenties, I had a wonderful sex partner. He was a very good teacher. He was the one that really taught me that there was so much more to sex that just the act of pv penetration. He was the first man I was with that really got pleasure himself from pleasing me. He was very attentive to my needs and in turn he taught me to be so for him.

*How old were you when you had your first orgasm with a partner?

I was 20. I had sex for the first time when I was 19. It was nothing to be too excited over. But over time, he and I did learn a bit more about what to do and how to do it. It was through oral sex that I had my first O with a partner.

At what age did you discover "role play" or have you ?

I haven't yet introduced role playing into my sexual adventures. I've never been with a partner who seemed interested. I wouldn't rule it out, though.

 

[tonitits]

To the questions Gil posed, my answer are kind of boring but here we go:

**Wild experiences in 20's - I can't remember any.In my 20's I was still learning about sex in general. Nothing wild. Had alot of one night stands. In my early 30's before I had my son I do remember one particular wild time. I used to go to the Wrestling matches here in town and had met and became friends with alot of the wrestlers. Well one weekend one of them and his brother who was also a wrestler came into town to wrestle for the weekend. They were staying in a dumpy hotel that they put the out of towners in, cheap. Well I went over to their hotel room and was visiting them and a friend that they had brought with them. Well after a short while me and the older brother were getting into some pretty heavy petting and he had my blouse off and sucking on my titties and I was going down on him. Well the other brother and friend opened the door and walked in and some of the other wrestlers spotted us and gave an eye full. Well later one of the wrestlers came over and asked me to come next door someone wanted to meet me. So I go over there,there were about 5-6 big wrestling guys and I ended up fucking one of them while the others watched and cheered us on!!! It did not turn out to be a gang bang which I think it could have easily happened. At the time I was relieved, but now looking back on it....it might have been exciting!

** when did i discover there was more to sex than Me getting satisfied - I think always, even when I was married and had been a virgin, he never satisfied me but I was always satisfied him. And all the men I have been with since I have always aim to please!

**My first orgasm I was probably 25 had a hot boyfriend of 20 who taught me lots, he would eat my pussy, fuck me for hours and then if i still was not satisfied he would finger fuck me! I came and came and came. Oh to be yound, dumb and full of cum again! But actually not to be DUMB, just full of CUM!

**I have never done roleplay!

 

[Dragonette]

Growls

peeking in & saying Hello
to all the fellow over 40s folks...
are we having fun yet?

Nope, no fun here - yet!

But my opions are open, wanna have fun?