OK so She wants to watch....

[JerryEdwards]

Since we started talking about some ideas one night we came to the thought that it would be exciting to have a guy suck me of while she either watches or takes me from behind! I'm all for it and really get excited about getting to have the opportunity. She really gets smokin hot when i let her take me from behind with her special strap on toy. We just need to find the right one to help us fulfill the dream.

Any idea on finding the right willing participant in the Va Beach area?

 

[PredatorSmile]

Your wife/girlfriend is okay with your being bi ? And she wants to watch ? You're a lucky bloke. My bisexual BF hides what he is, even from me. I'm gonna confront him about it. Not to hurt or alienate him but to convince him that it's okay. I've heard that some gay/bisexual men are self-loathing due to their sexual orientation.

 

[Shankara20]

Your wife/girlfriend is okay with your being bi ? And she wants to watch ? You're a lucky bloke. My bisexual BF hides what he is, even from me. I'm gonna confront him about it. Not to hurt or alienate him but to convince him that it's okay. I've heard that some gay/bisexual men are self-loathing due to their sexual orientation.

IMHO - the self-loathing comes from lack of support for being something outside the norm. Being accepted helps that change. Go easy with him, you may be the best gift he ever ever gets - I hope he does not push you away because of his own inner "stuff"

And being watched is very very hot...

 

[badger9]

Women who want to explore and watch....

Don't ever let her go. Women like her are priceless!!

 

[lastingpassion]

Since we started talking about some ideas one night we came to the thought that it would be exciting to have a guy suck me of while she either watches or takes me from behind! I'm all for it and really get excited about getting to have the opportunity. She really gets smokin hot when i let her take me from behind with her special strap on toy. We just need to find the right one to help us fulfill the dream.

Any idea on finding the right willing participant in the Va Beach area?

You are one lucky guy!! Good luck in your search.

 

[fingermagic]

Since we started talking about some ideas one night we came to the thought that it would be exciting to have a guy suck me of while she either watches or takes me from behind! I'm all for it and really get excited about getting to have the opportunity. She really gets smokin hot when i let her take me from behind with her special strap on toy. We just need to find the right one to help us fulfill the dream.

Any idea on finding the right willing participant in the Va Beach area?

Sounds like a lot of fun. Wish I could help you out but alas, I am stuck down here. But, you should have no trouble finding a suitable candidate in your area.

 

[ShayD84]

You might could try finding gay bars in your area. Both of you go and scope it out! I soo wish my guy would let me watch him get sucked by another dude, thats so hot! But alas he's totally straight

 

[fingermagic]

You might could try finding gay bars in your area. Both of you go and scope it out! I soo wish my guy would let me watch him get sucked by another dude, thats so hot! But alas he's totally straight

You need to come over to the fun side. That vanilla stuff gets boring after awhile.

 

[badger9]

...I soo wish my guy would let me watch him get sucked by another dude, thats so hot!

I need a woman like you in my life!! Bless your little kinky heart!

 

[ShayD84]

HAHA! It can get boring at times, but it does make it better because he is open to sharing a woman. So I can't complain too much. But I have exausted myself in trying to find any kind of hope of guy guy girl, oh well.

 

[badger9]

HAHA! It can get boring at times, but it does make it better because he is open to sharing a woman. So I can't complain too much. But I have exausted myself in trying to find any kind of hope of guy guy girl, oh well.

You've only got 7 posts here on Lit. Try placing a post on the GLBT Personals. I don't think you'll have any problems getting some bi-guy volunteers.

 

[ShayD84]

You've only got 7 posts here on Lit. Try placing a post on the GLBT Personals. I don't think you'll have any problems getting some bi-guy volunteers.

Is that a bad thing?

 

[badger9]

Is that a bad thing?

No, not at all. It's just that you're new here. Don't give up on your dream just yet. Lit is a wonderful place to make friends, and possibly some 'connections'. Just give it a little time.

 

[ima6uldv8]

I agree. You just need to visit more threads and such, make yourself known.

 

[williby]

Sounds like you have some fun coming your way soon.
Very exciting lady you have there.
My partner and I have talked a little about having bi relations ships but thats about all.

 

[Samuelx]

It's refreshing to know that some women in relationships with bisexual men are open-minded enough to let sexy activities like these take place. Anyhow, I am seeing a guy these days. I'm bisexual and so is he but....both of us have had relationships with women and we're sort of...taking a break from them for awhile. I've been with a few. Tomboys. Lipstick feminists of the bisexual persuasion. female wrestlers. Black girls. White girls. Latin girls. Asian girls. I've noticed that I feel a strong sexual desire for women, especially BBWs of color but I also feel an overwhelming need to bond emotionally, spiritually, intellectually and yes, sexually with a man. What can I say ? A guy just knows what a guy needs. I've had to explain it to my kinky ex-girlfriend, who tried to seduce me after I fell for a guy. It's not a dick thing. ( She was under the impression that since I was bi, I was into strap-on play, but I'm not) It's so much more. I just like this guy. I want to see how it goes. That's all there is to it, I guess.

 

[Stegral]

I let him know I was curious about A)watching him either blow a guy or B)be taken anally...
he chose A, so now we need to find someone we both agree on....
My S/O posted in the personals... to no avail yet but I will not give up....
I have strict standards.... clean appearance & STD free is a must(I am & expect no frigging less) there are a few bars in the area but I have hang ups still about being seen by the wrong people & what ppl will think... I think "S,S&D" is what is used alot.... this is a curiousity only right now... & because that is all it is he is willing to deviate for me ...

 

[badger9]

...now we need to find someone we both agree on. My S/O posted in the personals... to no avail yet but I will not give up...

I wouldn't think it would take too long to find a couple willing guys for your adventure. Then again, I'm not sure where in Canada you live, and what the volume of bi or bi-curious guys there is.
Keep looking, don't give up. And stick to your standards! It will happen!