OK people I need some advice!!!!

[Mrs_Jeep25]

Ok so heres the story.

I went out to the bar last weekend and met a nice guy. Had a blast together. He knows I am married and knows my limits(which are few) So I told him to meet me back at the bar this weekend knowing that hubby would be out of town. Now I havent heard anything from him all week. And the friend I was going to go with cancelled on me!!! So now I have to see if I have the guts to go by myself. And my question is he going to be there??? I dont want to look totally stupid waiting there and him not show up.

???hmmmmm???

 

[Starblayde]

Go, and don't look like you're waiting for someone....

Did you meet him when you were alone, or when you were out with friends? if you were alone then there'll be no difference to the first time.....

 

[Mrs_Jeep25]

I was out with friends the first time. But they kinda lost me after I found him.

(going to pour myself some liquid courage!!)

 

[Nogard]

Get divorced. He deserves better than you

 

[Mrs_Jeep25]

hmmmmm

Well hubby knows about the guy I met also, we have an open marriage!! But not that you asked or anything!

Hubby knows I am planning to meet up with the other guys this weekend also.

I am NOT sneaking around at all!

 

[SXCRgirl]

Just go. If he doesn't show up, have a good time anyway. At least you'll never have to wonder about that one.

 

[Mrs_Jeep25]

Well I went and......

He wasnt there


He has my e-mail address so we will see if he gets in touch with me.
I really hope he does!! We actually really got along well not only sexually but as people!

 

[Starblayde]

if you like him that much email him....

 

[Mrs_Jeep25]

didnt get his address.....

 

[prettygrneyes]

addy

didnt get his address.....

I would of got his address and or phone number...so u can call and see why he didnt show up ,I mean if you guys clicked then maybe something came up ,well good luck anyways!

 

[Starblayde]

well you're screwed without his address....

or not screwed.... depends how you look at it

 

[Starblayde]

Re: addy

I would of got his address and or phone number...so u can call and see why he didnt show up ,I mean if you guys clicked then maybe something came up ,well good luck anyways!

holy mackrel thats a hot Av!

 

[prettygrneyes]

Re: Re: addy

holy mackrel thats a hot Av!

if ur talking about me,thanks!

 

[Starblayde]

Re: Re: Re: addy

if ur talking about me,thanks!

too right i am!... without meaning to hijack mrsjeep's thread, of course

 

[Mrs_Jeep25]

I know that was pretty dumb of me!!
But I think/hope I will run into him again. We live in a kinda small city so chances of running into him again are pretty good I think. I do know where he works but its a pretty big company, so screwed there too. He was on days off so all I gotta do is count days and go back to the same bar the first weekend of his next days off. Or I could try checking out his work.....
But one other dumb thing I did was forget his name!!!
OMG I know that is pretty bad but for the life of me I can not remember!!

 

[prettygrneyes]

WOW....

I know that was pretty dumb of me!!
But I think/hope I will run into him again. We live in a kinda small city so chances of running into him again are pretty good I think. I do know where he works but its a pretty big company, so screwed there too. He was on days off so all I gotta do is count days and go back to the same bar the first weekend of his next days off. Or I could try checking out his work.....
But one other dumb thing I did was forget his name!!!
OMG I know that is pretty bad but for the life of me I can not remember!!

the next time you meet someone ,next time ask his name ...and phone number .....*giggles*

 

[Quiet_Cool]

First off, I don't get the whole "Open marriage" thing, seems like the terms is an oxymoron, that they don't go together...but that's just me.
To each his own, with no judgements passed. I just figured I should say that in case it shows in what I'm saying next.
To me, and this might just be me, it seems like you're putting a lot on this guy, worrying a lot about someone you only met once. It's good that you clicked, but examining the possibilites of finding and talking to him in terms of knowing where he works and whatnot seems a little too needy, or maybe clingy is the right term. Anyway, maybe you should consider the possibility that this guy isn't healthy for you, given the fact that you ae married, and seem to be attaching yourself to him at an early stage.
Also, the fact that you can't remember his name isn't a good sign either. It would seem that your desire to see him may have more to do with want of something to distract you from somethign than it actually does with him. A large statement based on a small amount of information, I know, and you should probably jsut ignore this given that, but what I mean is that such things, that often seem trivial, tend to mean much more than you'd guess in most cases, they're often a good sign that something isn't what you think it is.
Just a thought.

 

[Mrs_Jeep25]

I am not going to obsess about this guy. I really would like to meet up with him again and we will if its meant to be.
To go into it a little more that was the first time I had been out without my hubby in a very long time and I have recently just shed a few extra pounds, so I was feeling pretty good about myself. And to have had somebody pick ME up like that felt incredible!! I think maybe I read a little more into it, but it just felt so damn good to feel actractive again!

So today I drop this and see what happens. I do hope we get together some time but I am not gonna turn into some kind of stalker or anything!!

 

[TWB]

Re: Re: Re: addy

if ur talking about me,thanks!

It is hot. Can I borrow it?

 

[Quiet_Cool]

I am not going to obsess about this guy. I really would like to meet up with him again and we will if its meant to be.
To go into it a little more that was the first time I had been out without my hubby in a very long time and I have recently just shed a few extra pounds, so I was feeling pretty good about myself. And to have had somebody pick ME up like that felt incredible!! I think maybe I read a little more into it, but it just felt so damn good to feel actractive again!

So today I drop this and see what happens. I do hope we get together some time but I am not gonna turn into some kind of stalker or anything!!

I didn't mean to imply you'd stalk him, so i'm sorry if I came off that way. I just meant that, well, you're married, so even if it's pen, it would seem like the person you'd plan to be in your life in terms of an actual attachment is already in your life. That was all. I thought the point of an open marriage was to have meaningless sex outside of it, then love the one you're with. Maybe I just misunderstand the concept of open marriages.

 

[Mrs_Jeep25]

The sex is the reason I want to get ahold of this guy!!!

I am not looking for a relationship by any means. The fact that we clicked just makes it that much more interesting is all. If we could hook up I would like to be with him more than once. And that is fine with hubby also. He likes the idea of me haveing a lover that can come over and satify me during the day when he is at work and I am home, as long as he knows about it all is fine.

So, yes, it is the sex and only the sex that is keeping me wanting this guy. We didnt have sex the first night cause I wanted to make sure that I wanted to try this. Now I know I want it.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Well I went and......

He wasnt there


He has my e-mail address so we will see if he gets in touch with me.
I really hope he does!! We actually really got along well not only sexually but as people!

I would leave well enough alone. Guys (and gals) say anything to avoid bieng perceived as a bad person. He may email you, he may not, but I wouldn't waste my time. He could have been just lying to save face.

Ebony

 

[Mrs_Jeep25]

Very true

Like I said before I am going to drop it today, if he get in touch with me that means I didnt scare him off and he is as interested as I am about giving this a try. But I am not gonna think aobut it any more. (except in my dreams!!)

A girls gotta have a fantasy right!!