OK just a lil census

[i_love_myself76]

Just wondered if it was just me or are there more male doms then femdoms in here. I am starting to feel like I am the only one out there. hehehe

 

[FurryFury]

Just wondered if it was just me or are there more male doms then femdoms in here. I am starting to feel like I am the only one out there. hehehe

You are not the only one here at all. However I would say that the male Doms are greater than number. We have some wonderful Dominant ladies here who post many thought provoking comments as well many who switch. I admire most of them a great deal.

Fury

 

[neonflux]

Hi! Switch and love being Dominant, although also enjoy the luxury of not having to think sometimes & enjoy receiving pain as much as I do giving it - perhaps more of a "full power bottom" than completely sub? I was saying 50/50 couple of weeks ago, now suspect it's closer to 60/40 (am only 6 months into "formal" BDSM, so still figuring myself out)

 

[Netzach]

Here on Lit BDSM, yes.

No you're not alone, though.

 

[Aeroil]

The population of these boards seems to be as such.

fem subs
doms
dommes
switches
male subs


srsly, there are like 4 male subs, three of whom don't post very often (ghosst, bronn, Xele) and myself.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Hmmmm, there are actually a couple more male subs who post here from time to time.

Catalina

 

[Chicklet]

yeah that list of male subs seems seriously lacking... i know there're tons more ><

 

[i_love_myself76]

well Im glad I am not the only one And love it here been learning alot thanks for posting

 

[neonflux]

OOPS! Sorry! I was so tired when I first posted... Completely missed the point.

Do male switches help? Aren't there more men who switch around?

 

[i_love_myself76]

OOPS! Sorry! I was so tired when I first posted... Completely missed the point.

Do male switches help? Aren't there more men who switch around?

I have found that most of the men do switch there arent that may who are just subs anymore. We need a few more good men who are subs

 

[neonflux]

I have found that most of the men do switch there arent that may who are just subs anymore. We need a few more good men who are subs

I know a couple... Perhaps I should I try to get them in here???

 

[i_love_myself76]

Hmmmmm well i only need one hahaha and have talked to a few but most havent been sure of where they want to be but sure get em up need someone to spank today

 

[Netzach]

I'm sensing fewer out male switches than male subs, but correct me if I'm wrong.

Which is weird because IRL in my circles there are male and female switches alike out the wazoo, maybe that just says something about who I tend to make friends with.

 

[perryem]

edited

 

[Aeroil]

I lumped all switches in together, perhaps that's not very fair. also come to think of it I don't recall seeing a whole lot of dommes around anymore.... things have changed, I must update that list.

 

[neonflux]

I lumped all switches in together, perhaps that's not very fair.

stamps feet, glares, then winks as she breaks out in hearty switch laughter
(being lumped in with switches? in a dungeon, I hope )

 

[i_love_myself76]

yes well there ar still some of us out there and I for one wish everyone had a great TGIF

 

[Aeroil]

stamps feet, glares, then winks as she breaks out in hearty switch laughter
(being lumped in with switches? in a dungeon, I hope )

lawl.

Some of the awesomest people I've known were switches.

All of the craziest people were, too...

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Male Dom with a female slave

 

[i_love_myself76]

Well seems like more doms with female slaves then femdoms with male slave but us mistresses are trying to change that
lol

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Well seems like more doms with female slaves then femdoms with male slave but us mistresses are trying to change that
lol

Methinks it takes all kinds to make this lifestyle work

 

[i_love_myself76]

yes it does take all kinds to make this lifestyle or any other work just feeling abit outnumbered online lol

 

[MasterPhoenix]

makes sense

But remember we are not against you...

In fact, I hope to become friends

 

[i_love_myself76]

AWWWW didnt mean to make it sound like i thought you were against me lol you guys have been great and learning alot more about the lifestyle that even i didnt know everyone has been great and I can always use more friends

 

[MasterPhoenix]

AWWWW didnt mean to make it sound like i thought you were against me lol you guys have been great and learning alot more about the lifestyle that even i didnt know everyone has been great and I can always use more friends

Me too...

The more friends I have the more I can learn