Ok is somethig wrong with me

[Kianna104]

I think of my self as a Dom. But I'm in a Chair Had areally crappy childhood with a lot of abuse mental emotional verbal and physical so no pain and abuse is not a turn on. Nor is humilation.

I'm 32 yrs old and sick of BS. I came here becuse I was tired of trying to play the game. So I came here and posted an ad. In reply to my ad , ALL OF THEM HAVE DONE NOTHING BUT LIE.

NUMBER 1 CLAIMED HE WANTED A RELATIONSHIP WE START TALKING AND HE DROPPED OFF THE RADAR. oNLY TO REAPPEAR SAY HE DOEST HAVE TIME FOR A RELATIONSHIP - YET WANDERS AROUND HERE BEGGING FOR A RELATIONSHIP.

nUMBER 2 JUST LIED

3 WANTED ME TO PUNISH HIM FOR BEING AN ADULT.

4 SAYS I'M JUST NOT dOMME ENOUGH FOR HIM. when asked he cant seem to say what he thinks a Dom is.

Yes eventually I wanta life possibly with this person. I'm very open about that from moment 1.

Is there something wrong with me , that I'm attracting nothing but people who lie? Or isthis just a part of the process ?

 

[unregistered]

 

[Netzach]

"Or isthis just a part of the process ?"

Yes.

Get less invested in the end result right off the bat. Approach it scientifically to start. It will bother you less and drag on less.

 

[Harmony_1985]

The internet tends to be full of morons like that, but as the saying gong patience is a virtue.

 

[Sweetheart25]

To be honest, maybe searching on the internet for someone is not the best thing for you to do. Yes, it works for some people but many internet relationships dont work out because dishonesty is more likely to happen online then in person. So the only advice I could give to you is to collect your self respect and move on. You might have a greater chance of meeting someone right for you when you go out somewhere.

 

[WriterDom]

You can narrow down what you are looking for. But being female, once you open a gate, thousands of guys pour through with little in common. Other than a penis and looking for a female. Any female. So you will end up with piles of burning chaff and very little wheat in the barn. But you only need one grain right?

 

[FurryFury]

The internet and life is like this. You just have to wade through and even kiss a LOT of frogs.

 

[incubus666]

I would pretty much echo what the others have said. I will add that it is not impossible to find the right person on the net. I met my wife/slave on the net 10 years ago. We have been together for 7 years and married for 3 come this V day. So while it may be difficult it can happen.

Mike S.

 

[sirgary]

To be honest, maybe searching on the internet for someone is not the best thing for you to do. Yes, it works for some people but many internet relationships dont work out because dishonesty is more likely to happen online then in person. So the only advice I could give to you is to collect your self respect and move on. You might have a greater chance of meeting someone right for you when you go out somewhere.

...very true.....on the other hand, one just might find the one true love of their live online....

 

[Adakgirl]

You have been here a little over a month and have gone thru 4 submissives already. They "played" you or lied to you or didn't know what they were looking for. I suggest you make up some kind of protocol that must be followed for potential submissive males.

What I mean is, make up a list of well thought out questions that are important to you. For example, "
"Do you think it is possible for you to be submissive without needing pain?" Include multiple choice questions and questions that will take a paragraph to answer. Send them the question form
(application for consideration form?) and give them a deadline to have it completed and turned in. If they answer all of those or at least 98% of them satisfactorily

Then before you go any further, ask them to write a 3000 or 5000 word essay using their own words with correct spelling, proper form and punctuation. Topics include, What they think D/s relationships are about. What it means to them to be a submissive. What qualities they are looking for in a Mistress, future goals ect.

That protocol should eliminate the dipshits and provide you with plenty of information...to help you find out right off the bat, if they are players or serious. Players may make it thru the questions but they will not come thru with the essay. You may even be able to tell if they are liars too. Tis is not to say that some won't get thru all that successfully and still end up playing you. But it will cut out a lot of the crap u have to go thru before you figure out it's just crap.

 

[Adakgirl]

and yes I know it's awful for me to use "thru"- in place of using the proper word "through"...but i sometimes can't help doing it.