OK, he's ready!

[graceanne]

Yes, I understand what a mentor IS, but WHERE do you get one?

 

[A Desert Rose]

find a local group, and perhaps a mentor for your Dom.

 

[A Desert Rose]

and then he said this...

More experienced local Doms usually will take a neophyte and show them the ropes, and chains, and whips...etc

 

[graceanne]

there aren't any local groups in my area. *sigh*

 

[A Desert Rose]

there aren't any local groups in my area. *sigh*

If you are looking for a Dom/me to train you or a Dom to mentor your husband, there are people online who do that sort of thing. Many train/mentor couples, too.

 

[graceanne]

I'm not looking for one to train me. But he wants a mentor. He's done some reading, but he's feeling a bit lost. I'm not real sure where to start looking for people who are willing to mentor.

 

[Kajira Callista]

I'm not looking for one to train me. But he wants a mentor. He's done some reading, but he's feeling a bit lost. I'm not real sure where to start looking for people who are willing to mentor.

how about right here? im sure there are dominants willing to help or give advice....or answer questions.

 

[graceanne]

how about right here? im sure there are dominants willing to help or give advice....or answer questions.

Well, here's the problem. He's really smart, but he's not a very good speller, and he is a 'hunt and peck' typist, so he's very uncomfortable with forums like this. He prefers to talk to people.

 

[Kajira Callista]

Well, here's the problem. He's really smart, but he's not a very good speller, and he is a 'hunt and peck' typist, so he's very uncomfortable with forums like this. He prefers to talk to people.

set up a time and find someone willing to talk on the phone?

 

[graceanne]

set up a time and find someone willing to talk on the phone?

Well, that's kinda what I'm hoping to do, but first I gotta find someone. lol. I'm getting pretty frusterated.