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Erectile Dysfunctional .. still able 'to perform' but only just, and that takes a bit of coaxing and persuasion .. not on meds, and don't want to be .. so .. if you are like me, how do you get it - hopefully - standing up like it used to ?
 
There is nothing wrong with taking a pill to obtain a more youthful erection and there is nothing to be ashamed of with talking to your Dr about it either .
 
First if you are taking meds perhaps the meds are causing your problem. Ask your Doctor.

Second and most important. Just from my point of view. If I was your partner in a M to M couple I would Lust love having you not bone hard. Kissing and fondling a semi hard is so nice and Having you in my mouth would be divine.

It sounds as if you still climax and Honey That is all I care about You climaxing
 
blue pill

Go TRY the blue pill.

I can hang a shirt on my cock when I take it. I know some guys who use it and don't need it.

Acceptance - first. Then action. Take the pill. Enjoy the results. Repeat.

My signature says it. TRY IT.

an Analogy: When your bald spot appears on the top of your head, you try the comb over and try to hide it. As the hair line continues to recede, you opt to wearing a baseball cap as much as possible and worry about it.

After you accept it, you cut your hair short, smile at people and people smile back. It is no longer a big deal.

Aging is a good thing. The alternative is not so good.

Try the pill. lol
 
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Surgery cut nerve endings, and now I get inconsistently hard. But before that happened, without 'needing' it, it was GREAT to use the ED pills (Cialis and Levitra both have less flushing side effect than Viagra). A multi hour hard on, and an eager partner. What's not to like???

But now because of surgery, those pills have no effect on me. Like 4yourpleasureiam sez, the important thing is cumming! But there is another solution...I have a medical grade vacuum pump/cock ring thingie that gets me nice and hard and allows for penetration, and cumming!

http://www.amazon.com/Pos-t-vac-BOS...?srs=7592471011&ie=UTF8&qid=1454090212&sr=8-1
 
Mate, take a look at two of the threads I host - click from my signature - the one about a ring around your whole junk balls and cock all; and the one about herbals Some grand discussion there. Take it further on this thread, those threads, or in pm, as you choose pal.

Simon
 
Erectile Dysfunctional .. still able 'to perform' but only just, and that takes a bit of coaxing and persuasion .. not on meds, and don't want to be .. so .. if you are like me, how do you get it - hopefully - standing up like it used to ?

I confess, I have the same problem. In order to keep my cock hard it takes the constant stroking, or else I start going soft. The blood just doesn't stay trapped in my penis. I've seen the Dr and I've tried the pills but it only had a small affect.
I still enjoy masturbating to my kinky/bi fantasies tho.

I do , however, wonder if i'll be able to have a loving relationship with a woman if I cant perform sexually. Even in my younger days I've only been able to last about 30 seconds so I was never able good in bed anyway. I still think I have some good qualities and have love to offer a woman, just not in bed. I am open to having an open relationship tho, and I have a lot of bi/cuckold fantasies ( just no abuse and no real humiliation) that turn me on anyway.

I also wonder if there are women in a loving relationship with a man who has problems with E.D , and how they deal with it. I would love to hear about it.
 
I confess, I have the same problem. In order to keep my cock hard it takes the constant stroking, or else I start going soft. The blood just doesn't stay trapped in my penis. I've seen the Dr and I've tried the pills but it only had a small affect.
I still enjoy masturbating to my kinky/bi fantasies tho.

I do , however, wonder if i'll be able to have a loving relationship with a woman if I cant perform sexually. Even in my younger days I've only been able to last about 30 seconds so I was never able good in bed anyway. I still think I have some good qualities and have love to offer a woman, just not in bed. I am open to having an open relationship tho, and I have a lot of bi/cuckold fantasies ( just no abuse and no real humiliation) that turn me on anyway.

I also wonder if there are women in a loving relationship with a man who has problems with E.D , and how they deal with it. I would love to hear about it.
Hey,betabrad. Couple of things:

What a guy has to offer a woman in bed is much more than his erection. You got a mouth? Fingers? You can take a gal to the stars and her response to all that just might have you solid more than you expect.

And - I know from experience - a woman who loves her man can give all the assurance and calming he needs when things are not good, and help him talk about the issues as they are presenting themselves, and begin to see a way forward.

ps in light of what you posted - you gonna try a junk ring? right one, right inner diameter, and it might well hold all the blood you pump in there as you get aroused.
 
I know a lot of people swear by the ED pills. Even I used to feel that way. However, do be very carefulll about taking them. I seldom took a whole pill, but I wanted to take the full dossage. It was a bad thing for me. I ended up with ringing in the ear (tinnitus). Do pay attention to the to the warnings that you see/hear even on the TV commercials --- erections lasting more than 4 hours, changes in vision and hearing. My doctor guessed that perhaps my problem was that being on the brink of diabetes, capillaries probably aren't working the best, and drugs like ED pills do affect your blood pressure.

I would love to have a firm erection, but as much as I love penetrating men I don't want to be a burden to anybody by loosing more of my hearing, or possible vission issues. I would suggest anybody trying them, to perhaps try half a pill. If you have circulation problems, pre-diabetic, or fully diabetic, think twice.

I too use toys and fingers on my partner. I know he would prefer my cock, but seldom can do it. I'll start to get kind of hard, then by the time I get in place, It softens up a bit. Even masturbation can be a problem as whipping a semi-erect penis simply is not as nice as whipping it when fully hard. I'm just thankful that I'm in a meaningful relationship. If I was on my own where sex was all there was, I would be a piss poor choice for a partner. That is what sucks for tops like me as I age. Being a top isn't about just getting off, but the joy and privilege of being inside another man. ED simply makes you realize never to take forgranted that we as men are not perfect --we have our struggles.

Bottom men on the other hand simply get better with age. Even if they have erection problems, they are still wonderful partners. Some look down on them, but the fact is the world would be a lot happier and peaceful place with more of them.
 
Soft one

I have the same problem my todger doesn't work in sinc with my head which is still very active even though I am in my sixties. But I discovered the joy of cross dressing late in life and realised that guys liked to see me when dressed and also after spending most of my sexual life being the macho man I now find it a great turn on being submissive and don't need a hard one to give pleasure.
 
I know a lot of people swear by the ED pills. Even I used to feel that way. However, do be very carefulll about taking them. I seldom took a whole pill, but I wanted to take the full dossage. It was a bad thing for me. I ended up with ringing in the ear (tinnitus). Do pay attention to the to the warnings that you see/hear even on the TV commercials --- erections lasting more than 4 hours, changes in vision and hearing. My doctor guessed that perhaps my problem was that being on the brink of diabetes, capillaries probably aren't working the best, and drugs like ED pills do affect your blood pressure.

I would love to have a firm erection, but as much as I love penetrating men I don't want to be a burden to anybody by loosing more of my hearing, or possible vission issues. I would suggest anybody trying them, to perhaps try half a pill. If you have circulation problems, pre-diabetic, or fully diabetic, think twice.

I too use toys and fingers on my partner. I know he would prefer my cock, but seldom can do it. I'll start to get kind of hard, then by the time I get in place, It softens up a bit. Even masturbation can be a problem as whipping a semi-erect penis simply is not as nice as whipping it when fully hard. I'm just thankful that I'm in a meaningful relationship. If I was on my own where sex was all there was, I would be a piss poor choice for a partner. That is what sucks for tops like me as I age. Being a top isn't about just getting off, but the joy and privilege of being inside another man. ED simply makes you realize never to take for granted that we as men are not perfect --we have our struggles.

Bottom men on the other hand simply get better with age. Even if they have erection problems, they are still wonderful partners. Some look down on them, but the fact is the world would be a lot happier and peaceful place with more of them.

A wide ranging discussion here - my thanks for all of the input. Sure I would like to hang my shirt on it like I used to be able to and viagra could be the means to the doing that, but being diabetic with high blood pressure, and as you describe them, capillaries not working at their best along with other circulation problems, I appreciate your 'go slow' caution.

But it is your praise of the bottom man that has brought me up short. Getting it up to top would be great, yeah, but being bottom by inclination, could be I should be less concerned with raising a flag, and simply getting on with giving pleasure by receiving it. I am all for making the world a happier more peaceful place !

Gotta think that your guy is one lucky dude!
 
Again, I urge all guys who can't use the ED pills for one reason or another to check out medical grade vacuum pump/cock ring setups. Pills do nothing for me, but pump and ring make for a nice sized stiff hard on, good for any mouth, vagina, or ass.:kiss:
 
I would suggest getting your testosterone checked as an option. Low T causes so many issues with libido and erections. Low T also causes low mood and lack of energy, anxiety, etc..There is a laundry list of problems that come along with Low T. And if your dr. Says your T is within range, do your own research. Total testosterone levels below 500 can possibly be making you feel bad as well as making your erections difficult to achieve. Total testosterone above 800 is where most people feel great and get that wonderful sex drive. You can use gels, injections, and even bio identical pellets to get your levels higher. Just my two cents
 
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Erectile Dysfunctional .. still able 'to perform' but only just, and that takes a bit of coaxing and persuasion .. not on meds, and don't want to be .. so .. if you are like me, how do you get it - hopefully - standing up like it used to ?

ED because of depression after divorce.
I saw my doctor was approved for Viagra but then had people tell me they didn't like it.
So I retrained to give my partner(s) incredible orgasms and put my own needs on the back burner.
By successfully helping women achieve amazing orgasms, I was able to regain erections.
I am 66 and my doctor to me to remember that I am no longer 33.
ED doesn't have to be the end.
 
I would suggest getting your testosterone checked as an option. Low T causes so many issues with libido and erections. Low T also causes low mood and lack of energy, anxiety, etc..There is a laundry list of problems that come along with Low T. And if your dr. Says your T is within range, do your own research. Total testosterone levels below 500 can possibly be making you feel bad as well as making your erections difficult to achieve. Total testosterone above 800 is where most people feel great and get that wonderful sex drive. You can use gels, injections, and even bio identical pellets to get your levels higher. Just my two cents

To add to A's wise words here: For guys with low-ish testosterone level resulting not from a specific health issue but just the natural drop which happens through middle life - for some but not all of those guys, a very simple herbal, Tribulus Terrestris, can get the T production kicked in again. Fitness and body building shops tend to stock this stuff. The one online which gets the most attention as a sex-life enhancer is 'Vitrix' by a US outfit called Nutrex. Find it on their website. I found it really effective, though I have sourced a cheaper one in the UK from a small regional company called Fitness Attack. They call theirs quite simply what it is: Tribulus Terrestris. In synergy with a Ginseng based product it is even more effective - mine is 'Menergy' by 'BetterYou' - again, a smallscale UK healthy living supplier.
 
I had slight problems

My wife didn't complain, but I thought I wasn't as hard as I used to be. Started taking Viagra - wham! Hard as hell.
Fast forward to holiday in a country where alcohol is hard to get. My drinking is way down and my cock is way up. Hell of an incentive to cut the booze intake.
 
Don't even think about, dude! Nothing wrong with taking a pill if you need it! Just enjoy the moment instead of thinking about the pill :) Cheers!
 
I'm retirement age and have ED likely caused by BPH meds. I've tried both Viagra and Cialis. Have to say that daily Cialis is good stuff, but my HMO won't pay for it and, at $400 a month, I can't. So, I use generic Viagra. It helps but it's no miracle drug. Maybe I should try some of the over the counter stuff mentioned above. I'll keep you posted.
 
I'm retirement age and have ED likely caused by BPH meds. I've tried both Viagra and Cialis. Have to say that daily Cialis is good stuff, but my HMO won't pay for it and, at $400 a month, I can't. So, I use generic Viagra. It helps but it's no miracle drug. Maybe I should try some of the over the counter stuff mentioned above. I'll keep you posted.

In the UK generic Cialis is available at reasonable price online from Pharmalex Have a look at their website mate. I don't know if they are restricted from selling in some nations.
 
First if you are taking meds perhaps the meds are causing your problem. Ask your Doctor.

Second and most important. Just from my point of view. If I was your partner in a M to M couple I would Lust love having you not bone hard. Kissing and fondling a semi hard is so nice and Having you in my mouth would be divine.

It sounds as if you still climax and Honey That is all I care about You climaxing
You're right. Most anti-hypertensive drugs can cause poopouts. Don't stop taking those meds just try dick meds. High blood pressure can cause ED
Ifyou smoke, stop it. It ruins your erections and your sperm tastes bad....
 
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