obsession...

[Fuckette]

next time, it won't be a cute little fall

 

[butters]

next time, it won't be a cute little fall

oh, now there's a nice little boiler-bunny post if i ever saw one.

 

[Fuckette]

oh, now there's a nice little boiler-bunny post if i ever saw one.

I'm sure you are aware of all of the alts he creates to post in the poetry forum with

 

[butters]

I'm sure you are aware of all of the alts he creates to post in the poetry forum with

i am aware of several people's alts - discerned through their inability to alter their posting styles. you are transparent.

 

[Fuckette]

i am aware of several people's alts - discerned through their inability to alter their posting styles. you are transparent.

I have never hidden any of my accounts.

 

[Morcheeba]

Speaking of 'Obsession' - who knew Beyonce could act so well?

Well, Jay Z while in bed with her, but I'm talking about her ability to act in a film!

 

[December]

I have never hidden any of my accounts.

1. If your accounts have never been hidden, I'd like a forwarded copy of the list of your alts. Thanks in advance.

2. Are you the "sick fuck" Drown babbles about endlessly in this thread?

 

[drown]

fuckette = kissinggurl = evoo = crruel = bitchslap = real baby cici = fake baby cici​

and that's just here....

at another board,
there are 400+ bizarre (and mostly unread) messages to me
from

steelmagnola​

there are at least 3 telephone numbers
from which it calls

and several accounts
from which it sends texts.

a single dinner and a pity fuck one night in november 2006...

you've heard some of the phone messages
in this thread, prior...
(thank's mods!!!)

they still come.
the best ones are when she's with some 'friend'
and she pretends (to save face)
that someone on the other end actually gives a fuck...

you should see the psychotic texts...
(tonight's are especially creepy... )

suppose it's time to...
lower the boom.

the sheath of evidence is thick.

welcome to the real world, sick fuck.

 

[Sonny Limatina]

suppose it's time to...
lower the boom.

It's taken five years to decide that?

If a mosquito keeps trying to bite you, and you don't kill the mosquito, one assumes you need it at least as much as it needs you.

It sounds like you might both have some grease in the game.

Pregnancy? Friend's wife? Dirt you don't want aired?

Something, clearly.

What's she got on you?

 

[IrezumiKiss]

It's taken five years to decide that?

If a mosquito keeps trying to bite you, and you don't kill the mosquito, one assumes you need it at least as much as it needs you.

It sounds like you might both have some grease in the game.

Pregnancy? Friend's wife? Dirt you don't want aired?

Something, clearly.

What's she got on you?

All I keep thinking is, any woman calling herself "Fuckette" just can't be a lousy, forgettable, one-time fuck.

Her name keeps making me think of the former bubbly, busty porn star Lovette for some reason.

http://www.hugetit.us/busty/lovette/lovette/large/Lovette15.jpg

 

[StrangeSuzy]

http://www.businesstravellogue.com/files/2007/03/stalker.jpg

 

[butters]

fuckette = kissinggurl = evoo = crruel = bitchslap = real baby cici = fake baby cici​

and that's just here....

at another board,
there are 400+ bizarre (and mostly unread) messages to me
from

steelmagnola​

there are at least 3 telephone numbers
from which it calls

and several accounts
from which it sends texts.

a single dinner and a pity fuck one night in november 2006...

you've heard some of the phone messages
in this thread, prior...
(thank's mods!!!)

they still come.
the best ones are when she's with some 'friend'
and she pretends (to save face)
that someone on the other end actually gives a fuck...

you should see the psychotic texts...
(tonight's are especially creepy... )

suppose it's time to...
lower the boom.

the sheath of evidence is thick.

welcome to the real world, sick fuck.

change your phone numbers, put them on ignore at your various forums, and that'd sort out a whole lot of it unless they have your rl address.

 

[December]

In this thread from 2007 she talks about you as if you are some kind of fixture in her life. Was this place the place you went to on your one date with her? Did you order the steak tartar? If this was not the place you went then it either speaks to her delusions or it implies you had more than one date with her.

http://static.flickr.com/121/253857714_93c9d4bc55_m.jpg

626 S. Carrollton Ave​

Great place for breakfast. Drown loves the cannibal burger (steak tartar).

A few days later she is upset about...a missed dinner reservation perhaps?

9:30 Dinner Reservation

Ahhh...she posts this on the same day as the previous post.

Where is a good place to buy professional maternity attire?
I am also looking for fashionable maternity jeans.

Where to start?

Dude, you didn't knock this chick up, did you?

 

[December]

She makes a lot of isolated blurt posts that seem to be directed at some unseen or known lover. None of the posts seem to be anything but her being happily in love.

You paint one side of the picture, Drown, but I'd like to see the other side of the picture as well. You know, since you two were kind enough to bring your drama here to the open forums in the first place.

 

[StrangeSuzy]

http://denisewymore.files.wordpress.com/2009/12/rbon53l.jpg

 

[December]

She talks about having a fiance on 11/27/2007

maybe but don't let my fiancée find out

Who is she talking about? Or is she referring to a delusional relationship with you, Drown?

 

[December]

Charlie?

Meh. I looked through a few pages of Kissinggurl's posts. Nothing screams stalker to me. From what I can gather she was happy and in love with someone. She likes horses, and good food. She was apparently pregnant but coy about it. There was some talk of wedding dresses but I'm not sure if it was her wedding she was yammering about. She blurted a lot in 2007 to an unknown lover. She came to Drown's rescue in a few threads where people called him an alt. She names the one person she trusted as "Charlie". And, I believe she is or was some kind of submissive personality to whomever it was she was in love with in 2007.

Still, I don't see evidence of stalker material, but I guess the things you say could very well be truth, Drown. Some folks hide their crazy rather well. I'd still like to hear her side, you painted a pretty nasty picture of this girl in this thread. I'd like to read her side and compare notes.

 

[Debbie]

Bar tab = $100
Pack of condoms = $3.99
Sex = free and disappointing
Can of drama spray = $21.05

Drama value = PRICELESS



drown you could turn this whole thing around and make a few $.
Patch things up with your stalker and hire her out.

I can see the website now -

www.hire-a-stalker.com

The premise being that people hire your stalker to chase off clients hangers on or bf's or gf's that won't take the hint and get lost.

So much easier than a Dear John or Jane letter, email, or text etc.

You could make a mint.

(Just trying to make light of what appears to be a rather sticky situation.)

 

[December]

In other news, Debbie is looking stunning. I'm surprised you didn't wear your red carpet dress since the Oscars were on!

 

[blunt_trauma]

actually, i could believe drown's take on this.
anyone who has been the victim of a stalker will know that the response they get in reality has no bearing on the relationships they create in their own imaginations.
they tell people that you're an item, engaged, planning a baby.
they try to make you jealous with imaginary suitors.
charm your friends, family and acquaintances,
convincing them that there really is something between you.

it's all completely plausible.

 

[December]

actually, i could believe drown's take on this.
anyone who has been the victim of a stalker will know that the response they get in reality has no bearing on the relationships they create in their own imaginations.
they tell people that you're an item, engaged, planning a baby.
they try to make you jealous with imaginary suitors.
charm your friends, family and acquaintances,
convincing them that there really is something between you.

it's all completely plausible.

Mhm. I'd like to hear the other side of the story, but some folks really do hide their crazy rather well.

I had a stalker once. Well, I've had a few but only one that was really serious. It was when my daughter was about two. I'd finally decided to start dating. I went on a date with the friend of one of my girlfriends. The guy was handsome, well mannered. He was a little older than me, and we came from two way different lives. I had lived on the streets and he had grown up almost literally with a silver spoon in his mouth.

I'm not sure why but I decided after the first date that he and I just wouldn't work as a couple. There had been some light kissing and touching at the end of the date, but that was as far as it had gone. I remember thinking since he was well off and handsome and his life was set that he wouldn't have any trouble forgetting about me and moving on. It was the thought that made it easy for me to inform him a few days later that there just wasn't a future for us.

I really have no idea what snapped in him, but something sure as fuck did. He started calling me 20 and 30 times a day. I changed my number twice and he somehow managed to get it both times. He would drop by my house without warning, night and day. He hacked my computer a few times, planting programs to let him watch everything I did online. Once he caught me saying " love you, see you soon" to someone named John on my ICQ messenger list. John was my stepfather, him and my mother were flying in to see the baby the next day. My stalker didn't know who he was and he flew into a rage. Showed up at my door, kicked it in, slapped me around a bunch and darted out before the police arrived. When the police went to pick him up at his house...his wife vouched for him and told them he had been in bed with her since 10pm. I had not previously had any idea he was married.

He stalked me when I went out, took pictures of me while I was shopping with my daughter, occasionally mailed those pictures to me or left them on my doorstep. The police kept telling me they couldn't help. The guy was using cell phones to call me in bursts and then throwing them away. I bought a cell for emergencies and every time he found me while I was out I hit 911 but he was always gone before they arrived. At one point the police actually brought me in to the station and accused me of making the whole thing up. Dude stalked me mercilessly for the better part of a year before he finally went too far. I was at a playground with my daughter. My stalker came up behind the bench I was sitting on, and took pictures of my daughter over my shoulder while I was on the cell talking to my mother. The next day he showed up at my house to leave them on my doorstep and it just happened to be while one of my neighbours had been leaving my house. The neighbour was a huge body builder type. He had heard I was good with herbal remedies so he'd come asking for some sort of poultice for an infected injury on his knee. He knew all about my stalker and when he opened the door I shouted "That's him! That's the stalker!" The neighbour grabbed him, pinned him down and held him there until the police arrived. Finally he was caught red handed and they charged him with a few different things.

The entire time I was going through this, everyone who knew this guy tried to tell me I was being a bitch, or that I was overreacting. They said he always came off as a nice guy, he had never done anything to them, he was well mannered and rich, why would he be chasing me? One by one they turned their backs on me, all of them certain I was a liar or a drama queen.

Believe me, I know people can hide their crazy very well. I still want to hear the other side of the story. The idea that this girl had created a delusion to live in for so long is entirely fascinating. Her posts suggest she was happy and in love, planning for the future with her Charlie, or whomever. Could that have really all been entirely made up in her mind? Was there really absolutely no returning these feelings at all from Drown's side? A mind that warped would have to be extremely interesting, at least in my eyes.

 

[blunt_trauma]

if she IS a stalker then her side of the story has as much value as your stalker's side of the story

what makes me think it's likely true?
well if some arsehole had been accusing me of stalking him for several years, i would react in some way. deny, ignore, attack. something.
her posts with him seem too consistently sane, if that makes any sense. real people have more real reactions. the mood of her posts to/about/around him don't relate in any way to his message.
like a perma-smile with glazed eyes.

 

[December]

if she IS a stalker then her side of the story has as much value as your stalker's side of the story

what makes me think it's likely true?
well if some arsehole had been accusing me of stalking him for several years, i would react in some way. deny, ignore, attack. something.
her posts with him seem too consistently sane, if that makes any sense. real people have more real reactions. the mood of her posts to/about/around him don't relate in any way to his message.
like a perma-smile with glazed eyes.

What makes a person that way, though? I mean if it was really one night, one lay, one date? What possesses these people to cling to someone over such a small amount of time spent with them? I always wonder if it's really the person they are obsessed with or if that person was merely the trigger and it's the fantasy they are obsessed with.

 

[blunt_trauma]

What makes a person that way, though? I mean if it was really one night, one lay, one date? What possesses these people to cling to someone over such a small amount of time spent with them? I always wonder if it's really the person they are obsessed with or if that person was merely the trigger and it's the fantasy they are obsessed with.

they don't really know the person, so they fill in the gaps with imaginary perfection... i think that's the root of the honeymoon period in 'normal' relationships.

...on a side note, i just noticed that my flippin' teenage used my perfume this morning. without asking. little bugger! rather fittingly, the perfume is called insolence.

 

[vrosej10]

What makes a person that way, though? I mean if it was really one night, one lay, one date? What possesses these people to cling to someone over such a small amount of time spent with them? I always wonder if it's really the person they are obsessed with or if that person was merely the trigger and it's the fantasy they are obsessed with.

in some cases it's a disorder called erotomania. I met once. She was so bad you were not allowed to help her in anyway or she would fall in love with you. She was being involuntarily confined for having stalked this guy I used to know for years.

In men I heard a theory that it is a variant in programming. To ensure maximum mating success, men are programmed to not notice not backs as much as women, to ensure that keep trying to hit it. In stalkers, nature seems to have overdone it.