Objective opinions.

SomeGuyInNY

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Hi.

I'm new to posting here, but I've been reading stories off this site for years. Anyway, I'm really curious about how I look. I know I'm not really attractive, but I'd like to know exactly how unattractive I am. That's why I'm here. Please, look at my pictures and give your totally honest opinion, good or bad.

I completely expect to get some responses saying "fat", "small dick", "not enough muscle", "stretch marks", etc. So, don't worry about making me feel bad. Please, say whatever you think. Don't just try to be nice. I already have pretty low self-esteem, since without knowing where I stand, I must assume the worst by default. I just want to know the absolute truth.

I've got just under 100 pictures with varied lighting/positions/clothing, ready to go. If you want to see anything specific, I'll try to accomodate you (maybe by taking some new ones).

Thanks for your honesty. Any comments will be really helpful.

Let's get started...
 
I think you look fine. Everyone likes and dislikes different things. Why would you look for people to tell you what they don't like? Won't that be hurtful?
 
Arm.

My arms are small, I know. They were bigger in college, and someday, I hope to put some size back on them. It's really rather embarrassing, short sleeves suck.
 

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CatEyes said:
I think you look fine. Everyone likes and dislikes different things. Why would you look for people to tell you what they don't like? Won't that be hurtful?

I know I don't look fine... at best I'm average. I just want to know what people think. I've noticed everyone seems to be rather supportive, when they reply to stuff on here. I want to know the positive and the negative. Just to know what people really think...
 
SomeGuyInNY said:
I know I don't look fine... at best I'm average. I just want to know what people think. I've noticed everyone seems to be rather supportive, when they reply to stuff on here. I want to know the positive and the negative. Just to know what people really think...

I think you look much better than average...
 
SomeGuyInNY said:
I know I don't look fine... at best I'm average. I just want to know what people think. I've noticed everyone seems to be rather supportive, when they reply to stuff on here. I want to know the positive and the negative. Just to know what people really think...

Most people are average, there's nothing wrong with that. Average means people won't look at you and think, " oh my god, did you see that, that was gross" and they won't say "damn that's sooo fine". Most people are here to feel good about themselves.

Ok, honest opinion, I don't think there's anything wrong with your arms. You're not a bodybuilder but so what? The only thing I would improve on, if you're so inclined, would be the love handles and the gut. You don't have much of it so it probably wouldn't take much to work on it.

Other than that I think you look fine.
 
Thanks, both of you.

gus_tre said:
I think you look much better than average...

Thanks, if that's really your opinion, that's what I'm looking to hear.

Thanks to 'CatEyes' for her reply too, I forgot to thank her before.
 
CatEyes said:
Most people are average, there's nothing wrong with that. Average means people won't look at you and think, " oh my god, did you see that, that was gross" and they won't say "damn that's sooo fine". Most people are here to feel good about themselves.

Ok, honest opinion, I don't think there's anything wrong with your arms. You're not a bodybuilder but so what? The only thing I would improve on, if you're so inclined, would be the love handles and the gut. You don't have much of it so it probably wouldn't take much to work on it.

Other than that I think you look fine.

Again, thank you for your input. Maybe I'm average, maybe I'm above/below average. I'm not totally sure, so this is a good way to find out. I phrased things the way I did because I want to make it clear that negative comments are okay, everyone on here seems too nice to say anything bad.

I think this'll be my last one for now, that was a pretty good sample of all there is to see.
 
SomeGuyInNY said:
Again, thank you for your input. Maybe I'm average, maybe I'm above/below average. I'm not totally sure, so this is a good way to find out. I phrased things the way I did because I want to make it clear that negative comments are okay, everyone on here seems too nice to say anything bad.

I think this'll be my last one for now, that was a pretty good sample of all there is to see.

I think you're too hard on yourself. If you tell people to look for stuff they don't like or think can be improved even the most perfect beautiful person would have something to pick on. It's the overall package that matters.
 
Nipples.

CatEyes said:
Most people are average, there's nothing wrong with that. Average means people won't look at you and think, " oh my god, did you see that, that was gross" and they won't say "damn that's sooo fine". Most people are here to feel good about themselves.

Ok, honest opinion, I don't think there's anything wrong with your arms. You're not a bodybuilder but so what? The only thing I would improve on, if you're so inclined, would be the love handles and the gut. You don't have much of it so it probably wouldn't take much to work on it.

Other than that I think you look fine.

By the way, CatEyes, I just saw the picture with your nipple rings... that's definitely above average. Very sexy.
 
Maybe...

CatEyes said:
I think you're too hard on yourself. If you tell people to look for stuff they don't like or think can be improved even the most perfect beautiful person would have something to pick on. It's the overall package that matters.

Maybe. I just have no real idea of other people's opinions (good or bad), and I wanted to know where I stand.
 
Re: Nipples.

SomeGuyInNY said:
By the way, CatEyes, I just saw the picture with your nipple rings... that's definitely above average. Very sexy.

Thank you. :)
 
Re: Maybe...

SomeGuyInNY said:
Maybe. I just have no real idea of other people's opinions (good or bad), and I wanted to know where I stand.

You know there's a theory that if you have confidence in yourself others will pick up on that and you'll be more attractive to them because of it. I really believe that's true.

It's what you think of yourself that matters. And from what I've seen I don't think you have any reason for a low self esteem at all.

Ok, enough from me. :)
 
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CatEyes said:
You know there's a theory that if you have confidence in yourself others will pick up on that and you'll be more attractive to them because of it. I really believe that's true.

It's what you think of yourself that matters. And from what I've seen I don't think you have any reason for a low self esteem at all.

Ok, enough from me. :)

I'm quite familiar with that theory, but I don't really buy into it. Afterall, there are lots of overconfident jerks running around. I certainly don't want to be mistaken for one of them.

I'm glad you like what you see. Even if I don't quite feel the same about my appearance.

It does feel kind of nice to expose myself like this though. :D
 
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SomeGuyInNY said:
I'm quite familiar with that theory, but I don't really buy into it. Afterall, there are lots of overconfident jerks running around. I certainly don't want to be mistaken for one of them.

I'm glad you like what you see. Even if I don't quite feel the same about my appearance.

It does feel kind of nice to expose myself like this though. :D

Being confident and being stuck up are two different things.

Uhoh, think someone has become addicted and quick. :)
 
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CatEyes said:
Uhoh, think someone has become addicted and quick. :)

It's something I've always found interesting. Nudism, exhibitionism, etc... Not that I'd ever do it in a non-anonymous way. I'm always amazed by people who can do that stuff.
 
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SomeGuyInNY said:
It's something I've always found interesting. Nudism, exhibitionism, etc... Not that I'd ever do it in a non-anonymous way. I'm always amazed by people who can do that stuff.

This is a great place to do it anonymously. :)
 
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CatEyes said:
This is a great place to do it anonymously. :)

I suppose. I'm still rather scared someone might realize it's me. I doubt anyone I know would see any of these (or recognize me if they did), but you can never be too careful.
 
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SomeGuyInNY said:
I suppose. I'm still rather scared someone might realize it's me. I doubt anyone I know would see any of these (or recognize me if they did), but you can never be too careful.

I think as long as you don't show your face you'll be fine. :)
 
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