Not so formal Introduction

[hagel9]

greetings My name is Dave I am 31,male,married to a good woman,I have 5 childern. Heres something, My wife is Bi,she has only had one encounter, which she did ask me If she could do.I said "yes of course"<,but I want to know the details and tell me the day you do it" she said "ok"the day comes and I get a call from the womans Girl friend all upset saying her and my wife had been all over each other and they did it today(the day she called)
Unfourtunetly I answerd the phone, Found out what first from another person,feeling cheated and a little angry.I asked my wife if any thing happened that day she told me the same as the ladie did on the phone except it wasn't every day it was just the once.
Iwas cool with it ,but felt depressed,as well still a little cheated.
Anyone have any advice for me?

 

[freakygirl]

*backs slowely out of the thread*

ummm yeah..

 

[DarkAngel]

Take to bottles of Vodka and call us in the morning!

 

[hagel9]

What did I do,or must I do?

*backs slowely out of the thread*

ummm yeah..

Did I piss people off by typing gesh
"do unto others as you would do unto yourself""times three shall it come back to thee".

 

[hagel9]

Take to bottles of Vodka and call us in the morning!

Gee I think you may be the nicest comment yet.
I thank you,and P.S. will I ever have a hang over.

 

[Aquila]

Shoot yourself in the head for being not only stupid enough to give consent to extra-marital sex when you wherent completely 100% sure you could live with the fact that your wifes fuckin other people but you.
Dumbass.

 

[hagel9]

Shoot yourself in the head for being not only stupid enough to give consent to extra-marital sex when you wherent completely 100% sure you could live with the fact that your wifes fuckin other people but you.
Dumbass.

oh yeah Mr wise man of old age,man up on mountain,he whos shit doesn't stink.get clue I knew butt head and it was only once with the other woman .

 

[freakygirl]

It takes more than a few words on a message board to piss me off.

I chose to back out of the thread because I didn't want to comment.

But I will comment now, your posts are nearly impossible to read and understand.

 

[freakygirl]

Aquila

Your shit doesn't stink? Will you come live with me? Mr Freakys stinks.. and to be honest I'm sick of it.

 

[Aquila]

oh yeah Mr wise man of old age,man up on mountain,he whos shit doesn't stink.get clue I knew butt head and it was only once with the other woman .

So let me get this straight.
You introduced the most common reason for divorce willingly into your marriage, and your wondering why you feel the way you do.

Hmmm,I dont have to be mr. wise, dipshit. hell Hannsieboy could figure out what you did was a *finger quoting* "BAD IDEA" *finger quoting*

 

[Aquila]

Aquila

Your shit doesn't stink? Will you come live with me? Mr Freakys stinks.. and to be honest I'm sick of it.

You know better than that kiddo, my shit reaks to high heaven, whats the rent like with you? will you wash my truck in a bikini? can I be a bad influence on mr. freaky?

 

[freakygirl]

You know better than that kiddo, my shit reaks to high heaven, whats the rent like with you? will you wash my truck in a bikini? can I be a bad influence on mr. freaky?

deal is off if the shit stinks..
and no bikinis.. My body wasn't made for bikinis
and Mr Freaky doesn't need any more bad influences.. remember he spends his days in prison.

 

[hagel9]

ask for advice and..

Ask for advice and get slamed.Don't type proper english get slamed, Can't spell a few words Get slamed.Wheres the love.
so mote It be.

 

[Wiggles]

It seems that you've made your bed, and now you must sleep in the wet spot.

If your wife had never been with a woman before, I can see how she might want to try it without another person watching something that could be very vulnerable for her.

Even if you're married she's her own person with her own agenda. Might be time to check up on that and see where you stand?

Welcome to Lit, enjoy your stay!

I'm also curious as to why your wife's 'girl friend' was upset when she called?

 

[Nora]

*ignores atrocious spelling and inappropriate punctuation*

Ok, you asked for advice. Around here that means you get what people honestly think and not what you wanna hear.

Bottom line is that you gave her permission. You don't know if the other woman's girlfriend was full of shit or not, and your WIFE (the one you're supposed to trust enough to let her go play with some other chick to begin with) told you that it was just the once.

Your choices are to believe a stranger or to believe your wife. Pick one and deal with it.

 

[Guest]

Welcome to Lit, enjoy your stay!

I'd keep my head down for a few........off to a shaky start. It's a bit vicious in here at times.

 

[Wiggles]

I'd keep my head down for a few........off to a shaky start. It's a bit vicious in here at times.

Ah, c'mon! At least a fourth of our resident posters can't spell or use pronunciation.

Um, hagel? Just use lot's of smiley's and roses, you'll be fine.

 

[freakygirl]

And to go along with those smilies and roses.. a big sig line always makes people smile

especially ones with lots of flashing graphics.. oh and links to online quizes are good to

 

[Aquila]

Use the word "lol" a lot and spell better than I do (which is about as hard as brushing your teeth). Then you'll be in the top 98% of lit.