Hey guys,
Single, white male here in his early 30's from Boston, MA area. I've been very curious for a while about the idea of getting together with a like-minded dude to watch porn. Have chatted with plenty of people on the internet about it, and feel like it's time to actually test things out in-person. There's something a little more stimulating about being next to a live human, instead of just staring at a screen. I know these threads tend to track towards becoming "jerk-off buddies," but I'm only thinking of the initial hang-out. People (including myself) seem to shy away from the idea when they feel obligated to "whip it out" in front of their partner before they get to feel each other out. That first time would just be to see if we're cool with each other, and to see how it feels to view some sexy stuff together. I understand that things tend to escalate in these situations, but I am only expecting to enjoy some material and chat about related interests on this hang-out. If we decide to do it again, then great, and we can figure out further details. If it's uncomfortable, we would disband and chalk it up to a failed experiment. Still, I think it would be a rush, and a fun experience to share with someone who's interested.
If you're in the Boston area or nearby, and have considered this kind of thing, then send me something back. Private messages are welcome, as are public posts and Yahoo IMs. I'll be checking all three places, as I know some are more comfortable with certain domains. You should just be a laid-back dude who is open to trying this out, and is excited to share his interests with another cool dude. Nothing fancy, no wacky expectations. Obviously we would chat on the internet first, and figure out if our interests overlap enough to get together in real-time. I completely understand that this is a common fantasy that many never act on....I've been on the "contemplating" side of things for years. However, I believe after the initial ice-breaking stage on here, the right person will agree that it's a worthwhile endeavor.
If it helps to share a broad sense of my interests early on, things that typically get me going best are: mature women, interracial hook-ups, some power play, and anything tight on the right body (lingerie, spandex, form-fitting jeans, etc). I tend to prefer "real" bodies (ie, not a huge fan of fake titties that lack the natural bounce), but I am very open to exploring the interests of others, as long as they are not disgusting.
Alright guys, not my intention to make this a super lengthy post. I know most of us have that short-attention-span syndrome. Let me know your thoughts and/or experiences with this...
Single, white male here in his early 30's from Boston, MA area. I've been very curious for a while about the idea of getting together with a like-minded dude to watch porn. Have chatted with plenty of people on the internet about it, and feel like it's time to actually test things out in-person. There's something a little more stimulating about being next to a live human, instead of just staring at a screen. I know these threads tend to track towards becoming "jerk-off buddies," but I'm only thinking of the initial hang-out. People (including myself) seem to shy away from the idea when they feel obligated to "whip it out" in front of their partner before they get to feel each other out. That first time would just be to see if we're cool with each other, and to see how it feels to view some sexy stuff together. I understand that things tend to escalate in these situations, but I am only expecting to enjoy some material and chat about related interests on this hang-out. If we decide to do it again, then great, and we can figure out further details. If it's uncomfortable, we would disband and chalk it up to a failed experiment. Still, I think it would be a rush, and a fun experience to share with someone who's interested.
If you're in the Boston area or nearby, and have considered this kind of thing, then send me something back. Private messages are welcome, as are public posts and Yahoo IMs. I'll be checking all three places, as I know some are more comfortable with certain domains. You should just be a laid-back dude who is open to trying this out, and is excited to share his interests with another cool dude. Nothing fancy, no wacky expectations. Obviously we would chat on the internet first, and figure out if our interests overlap enough to get together in real-time. I completely understand that this is a common fantasy that many never act on....I've been on the "contemplating" side of things for years. However, I believe after the initial ice-breaking stage on here, the right person will agree that it's a worthwhile endeavor.
If it helps to share a broad sense of my interests early on, things that typically get me going best are: mature women, interracial hook-ups, some power play, and anything tight on the right body (lingerie, spandex, form-fitting jeans, etc). I tend to prefer "real" bodies (ie, not a huge fan of fake titties that lack the natural bounce), but I am very open to exploring the interests of others, as long as they are not disgusting.
Alright guys, not my intention to make this a super lengthy post. I know most of us have that short-attention-span syndrome. Let me know your thoughts and/or experiences with this...
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