Not exactly buffed...

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I'm a virgin...

I'm going to be with my love within the next 2 or 3 days... We think it's time to move things forward in our relationship. She's more experienced than me. So I don't know if I'll make the grade or anything.... Tips would be appreciated...

Besides that fact... I am on the heavy side... not some little Calvin Klein model, but she already knows that.

I've just never been naked in front of anyone before... besides at the Doctor's office... I know she loves me, but I can't help but have these awkward feelings....

Performance Anxiety

 

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long term

If she loves you, she loves you and knows what your body's like. Keep breathing and have fun. And without bugging her to see if she's coming, try to give her lots of pleasure, especially with your mouth and hands. Find surprising things/moves that excite both of you. Every couple has its own dynamic in bed, and it develops further over time.

But longer term, you should exercise regularly. Not to be buff, but to have general confidence in your bod, so you don't have such insecurities. You'd be nervous enough without thinking you're ugly. And you'll live longer and have better sex without having to take pills. Most important: Have fun!

 

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No problem, you should have it licked by now!