Normal married couple

[keith1960]

we are a married couple in are 40 s have been married for 23 years. are question is ? we need to spice up are sex life .we dont want to add another person to it just us 2 any idea`s i will try any thing once the wife on the other hand . might and might not. open to all ideas ......... post a pic or two doing your favorite sexual position or idea... like i said any help is appreciated...

 

[tsshy1]

Spice

Hay there great thread to get a few hot ideas. How about the shoe shopping game........you take her shoping for shoes in a nice Dept Store. She of course she must ware a short skirt and not panites...........you will not be with her but watching close by as she leaves the young men or woman panting as they assist her..........yum.

Let us all know what you end up doing.....................

 

[LorriLove]

we are a married couple in are 40 s have been married for 23 years. are question is ? we need to spice up are sex life .we dont want to add another person to it just us 2 any idea`s i will try any thing once the wife on the other hand . might and might not. open to all ideas ......... post a pic or two doing your favorite sexual position or idea... like i said any help is appreciated...

hiya darling, what have yu tried so far love, anything hot and horny???

good hot porno movies always help we find, or just still pics whatever. sexual positions, well that's up to you and wifey to practice and experiment with no one can really advise on that without knowing you.

personally the teasing other men or women thing is fun as tsshy said.
my hubby loves watching me flirt and tease other guys outrageously, knicker flashing the lot, but then we go all the way, if the guy wants me and he's clean and tidy and i want him, we go for it and hubby watches me get screwed, and joins in of course.

if you really couldn't stand others touching her or she would be pissed at you touchung other women, don't try it, it will destroy you. but if it appeals to you both, fuck it why not.

let us know how you get on darling and call if you need a chat.

lorri xxxxxxxxxx

 

[Limbhugger]

We've been married 15+yrs and are always evolving in our sexual lives. There is really no "one size fits all" for spicing up your sex life. It is about you as individuals and as a couple.

You can try toys, body exploration (anal stimulation, foot jobs, g-spot, etc.), light bondage and submission, pubic hair shaving, porn, and one of my favorites dirty talk. By "talk" I mean either in voice or even by email. I love getting teasing sexy email from my wife.

Or it can just be the tease and the thought that goes into what you do that excites you both. Here is an example of something I did once.

While wife was at work (I had the day off) I ran to the store and bought a couple packs of construction paper. I tore out all the red, pink and white sheets. Then I sat down and spent FOREVER cutting out all different sizes and shapes of hearts from those pages. Using like colored yarn and scitch tape, I hung the hearts all over the living room and varying heights. I continued down the hallway to our bedroom. In essence it was like it was raining hearts in the house.

I cut out a few large hearts. One of which hung right in front of the door so she would see it right away. On it, I wrote a message. Something like, "Hello Beautiful. Please move to the kitchen and follow your heart."

Then I had another heart with a message in the kitchen directing her to retrieve the frosty mug from the freezer, pour herself a beer and follow her heart to the next room. I placed a heart message in every room of the house. Each had different sexy lines (that got hotter as she went) and some direction. I made it clear on one message that there was to be no talking at all. In one room she was to write a fantasy that she had never shared with me. I didn't even read that until the night was over but it got her excited doing it.

She eventually ended up in the bathroom where I had another beer on ice for her. She was to don a blindfold I had left for her, and ease into a hot bath and wait. About ten minutes after the water quit running a slipped in and ever so slowly and lovingly washed her body. All with hre blindfolded and no talking from either of us. I left behind another message and slipped out. Eventually she peeked and saw I was gone and the message was waiting.

It directed her to go to the bedroom and lie down in the center of the bed on her belly and again put on the blindfold. I was hiding in the bedroom and watched her move and lie there in the flickering candle light. Then I slowly eased up and gave her a complete (temples to toes) body message. Again, her blindfolded and no talking. My hands teased intensely but never touched her sexual areas. Eventually, after a long long night of my teasing and pleasing her in just about every way except with my cock, we made incredible love. She wasn't allowed to remove the blindfold until after the entire affair was over.

That was a night to remember! My point is, just think outside the box.

For us, regardless of what we try, it all boils down to this:

Sincerity. Honesty. Acceptance. Respect. Love. Then just let your imagination run wild.

 

[BirdsWife]

Limbhugger that is such a hot idea. I like that one a lot.

 

[pleased2eatyou]

In one room she was to write a fantasy that she had never shared with me. I didn't even read that until the night was over but it got her excited doing it.

Interesting!!!! To say the least, care to share the fantasy? I would love to hear it....
Pleased

 

[Limbhugger]

Oh man pleased,

That was a lot of years and a hoop of fantasies ago. If my memory serves me though it was her desire to stroke me in public while she masturbated. Like on an airplane under a blanket. Or under the table in a restaurant. You know, not showing people and in a place where you have to maintain facial control. And yes, we did fullfill it.

 

[keith1960]

hiya all thinks for replys

 

[pleased2eatyou]

I love to see and feel Creampies!!!!

I have never personally tasted myself before, but the mental image of it really turns me on.... I have really gotten into the idea lately, I don't know if it's from looking at all the video's out there or what. How was it? I would love to hear about it sometime!!!
The only reason my SO and I haven't tried it yet is that she is no longer on the pill so if I spill any in her, I may be changing more dirty diapers in the future....LOL
Pleased

 

[Limbhugger]

Just thought I'd share a quick expereince we had yesterday.

My wife and I work opposite (day/night) shifts. She knows I get on the PC after she leaves for work and we often communicate through email (sexy and otherwise). Anyway, yesterday she sent me an erotic sexy email. As in no use of the words cock, pussy, or cum. Just a very suggestive and alluring email. I responded in like fashion. Her next email was more intesne so I decided to take the plunge. I pulled up some of her pictures and took monitor shots for her. Then typed what I was thinking and sent them. Needless to say, it was a long time (almost until she left work) that response come in.

She described the wonderful thoughts I caused and what she had to do about them right there at work. Later, long after she was home, I had to leave for my job. And there, hanging on the gear shift, were her panties from the day.

Woosh. Now that was hot.

 

[Seattle Zack]

One that I've done a few times is to have her dress up kind of slutty and go down to a bar or tavern. Then you come in later and try to pick her up, buy her drinks, pretend like you don't even know her. It's especially nice if you do it in a hotel bar, then get a room and end up with a night of drunken uninhibited sex.

One girl I was with liked to play "the cop and the prostitute," where I'd pick her up in a bar after a few drinks and when we got back to the motel room I'd have to "arrest" her after making her describe the charges for the various services she provided. Of course, that gave her the opportunity to make me change my mind about arresting her ... sometimes the punishment for her crime was meted out there on the spot.

Good times.

 

[Limbhugger]

Limbhugger that is such a hot idea. I like that one a lot.

Cool BirdsWife! It was a lot of fun and a memory we both really enjoy. It was more than just the excitement and the sex that followed but the time and thought that went into it that made it so special for both her and I. I had a blast dreaming up my wicked plan and putting it all together and she got completely into the setting.

That's what sets a great night apart from a never-forget night.

I remember this one time when I created our very own sex board game. Made a board, cards, and everything. And it was a really good game. A cross between Monopoly and Passout...lol. The first time we played it, she didn't make it half way through the game before she surrendered. Of course there was the time we played ti with another couple...but that's a whole nuther story. Somehow lost that great little game in our moving about the country. Bummer.

 

[VSE]

Theres a full blown story in that hearts one Just reading through the post here conjures up some fantastic imagery.

No touching can be quite fun. One of you "gives", take it as slow as you please to pleasure your parnter how you see fit. They, quite simply are not allowed to touch you. Bring them to the edge and then slow it down again and repeat until just before they start to twitch in desperation then go for it.

 

[infinityoverzero]

Back to keith1960's original question ...

One suggestion is to see whether your wife would be interested in reading posts on the board, or maybe even posting some herself. As we all know, it's a safe way to explore fantasy and express oneself while keeping anonymity. Maybe the two of you will find something that you've never considered, or maybe one or both of you will be encouraged to post a fantasy that you've never admitted to the other person.

As a personal testimony, since my SO and I have started posting a few days ago, the quality of our sex life (which was already quite high) has positively shot through the roof

 

[Limbhugger]

No question Infinity that this type of voyuer/exhibition can be extremely erotic!

 

[AttentionWhore]

Limbhugger,
Can we clone you?